Got a license but didn t have a wedding Is it good to live in a new home

Nonono, my side is Changsha, and I still live in my own house with my husband after I get the certificate, and I didn't start living in a new home until after the wedding. It's probably not that you don't want to live, but you feel that the wedding is not over, and the neighbor next door doesn't know that you are married, and will only think about where this girl is not living at home.

Like some girls go out to live with boys, but their parents' friends know and will read it, why, it is also to blame that China itself is strict and disrespectful to women, my mother-in-law's family has a daughter-in-law who has a door entrance permit and just wants to give birth to a cub as soon as possible, but a niece in their family ran out and had a cub with a man, and the whole family went to the field to beat the man. It can be seen that other people's daughters don't care, but they all know when they change their own positions.

Although the times are very open now, but you must know that the mouth of the three aunts and six mothers is very powerful, and the customs of each place are not the same, in our place, after the wedding is considered a husband and wife (although it is not in line with the law, but the older generation thinks so) before attending the wedding of a friend's sister, my friends at that table have a big mouth, maybe I think I am not familiar with them, I heard them say, this girl is not in good condition, forget it, before getting married, Baba ran to live in the man's house, and his daughter is so good. In fact, they have already proved it, but when they were said so, they knew that they would be angry, and later I learned that the person was still a relative of the man, and my own relatives all saw it this way, so think about what others would think.

In short, if you are in the field, your family is not around or I don't care much about these, in fact, it's nothing, I'm mainly in this city, and I don't want my elders to be unhappy, so it's good to follow the rules, and you don't have to be honest.

Bless you, the most important thing is to be happy.

If you have obtained a certificate, you are a legal husband and wife. It's okay to live in a new home.

Count, if you get a license but don't have a wedding, you should be considered married. In China, the marriage registration system is implemented, and both men and women who are required to marry should apply for marriage registration at the marriage registration authority, complete the marriage registration, and issue a marriage certificate, that is, establish the marriage relationship, and the man and woman complete the marriage in the legal sense, and become a husband and wife relationship protected by the laws of our country. After the marriage registration is completed, the husband and wife can enjoy the rights of both parties to the marriage and assume the obligations of both parties.

According to the provisions of China's marriage law, as long as both men and women voluntarily go to the local marriage registration office to obtain a certificate, the two will be husband and wife after obtaining the marriage certificate.

The state defines a husband and wife as a husband and wife who are protected by law when they obtain a marriage certificate at the Civil Affairs Bureau. Therefore, after receiving a marriage certificate, the two are legal husband and wife, which can be regarded as a real marriage. Some people think that if there is no wedding, I will not be married, in fact, the wedding is only a form of marriage relationship during the determination of the relationship, because from ancient times to the present, although there is a marriage contract, but everyone will give themselves a grand wedding, this is the sense of ritual we live in now, because marriage without a wedding is incomplete, most people get married once in their lives, so if we do not experience the wedding, the sense of ceremony brought to us will definitely make us regret it in our future life.

Preparation materials for obtaining a marriage certificate:

1) The second-generation ID cards of both parties and the household registration books of both parties;

2) A copy of the ID card and a copy of the current page of the head of household registration and the person;

3) 3 recent two-inch bareheaded photos of both sides.

Legal basisCivil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1049 A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

There are no hard and fast rules, it depends on the actual situation.

1. After receiving the certificate, it stands to reason that the two are already legal husband and wife, and there is no problem living together, but it mainly depends on personal ideas.

2. In real life, many people think that only when the two of them have a banquet and tell their relatives and friends can they be justified, then this idea is no problem.

3. As for whether it is okay to live together or live in the woman's house or live in the man's house, there is no regulation on this, and it is okay to live according to the actual situation of the husband and wife.

Legal basisArticle 1043 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China [Advocacy Provisions on Marriage and Family] Families shall establish a good family style, promote family virtues, and attach importance to the construction of family civilization. Husbands and wives should be faithful, respectful and caring for each other; Family members shall respect the elderly, love the young, help each other, and maintain equal, harmonious, and civilized marriage and family relations.

Obtaining the certificate is also the legal relationship between husband and wife, but there is no wedding, who should live in at this time? Let's go together to understand the pros and cons of getting a marriage certificate or only holding a banquet for marriage?

1. Who do you want to live in if you get a certificate and are not married?

You can live together or separately".

1.Marriage certificate is already a husband and wife relationship in law, this relationship has been protected by the law, but now many are first licensed and then married, after all, the wedding can announce the authenticity of your marriage, if you only get the certificate and your family knows, in the eyes of others cohabitation together may have gossip.

2.To avoid unnecessary trouble, it is reasonable to choose to live in their own homes and live together after the wedding is completed, mainly to see what the couple thinks and decide according to their own situation.

2. It is not good for anyone to hold a banquet without obtaining a license

There are different arguments, and both men and women can suffer in different situations".

1.If you don't get a license for a banquet, some say that you will suffer a loss to the man, because you have given a bride price, held a banquet, and spent a lot of money, but if the woman does not get a license, once the other party regrets it, then it is really empty of people and money.

2.But some people say that women suffer losses, in case the man has a new love and doesn't want the woman, and directly get married with someone else, then the common interests of the husband and wife due to the woman will be damaged after marriage.

3.In other words, either side of the courtship is likely to lose. It mainly depends on the situation, but in most cases, the woman will suffer more, because now there is a legal saying that the bride price is returned, if the bride price is given but the marriage certificate is not verified, the lawsuit may be required to return part of the bride price.

Summary:

If you do not get a license, it is just a traditional wedding banquet and banquet for guests, which may be married in the eyes of outsiders, but it is not recognized by law.