What should be the choice between those who love you and those you love?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-27
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I will choose the person I love, the reason is, if a person loves me but I don't love her, I will tell her that I want to give happiness to the person I love, but I can't give happiness to the person I don't love, in other words, I can give everything for the person I love, but I can't afford to love me, not to mention that there is only one place in a person's heart.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's my words. I'll choose the one I love.

    Because if you're with someone who doesn't love you.

    You have no feelings for others at all.

    It's a disservice to him.

    At the same time you are selfish.

    Blindly ask for what others have to offer you.

    It's cruel. Spend time with people you don't love.

    I will feel very guilty in my heart.

    Surround yourself with someone you love.

    I worked hard.

    Even if the last rice together.

    I won't regret it either.

    After all, you really loved.

    Paid.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The reason for choosing someone who loves you can be considered in two ways.

    1. Choose someone who loves you You can enjoy everything he (she) brings you If you only have a good impression of him (her) at the moment, then you will have no problem living together in the future It will be very warm.

    2. Choose the person you love, you will be very tired, you can last for 1 year and 2 years without paying anything for him (her), but it is absolutely impossible to persist for 10 years and 8 years.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Choose the person who loves you to be your husband and the person you love to be your lover.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Boys should choose the person they love, while girls should choose the person who loves them.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This question is too tangled, I have had the same experience, but I finally chose the person who loves me, because I know that feelings can be cultivated, and I will fall in love with him, but if I choose the one I love, I feel too tired and too hard! I don't know if you're decisive!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Loving someone is painful, being loved is happiness, depending on whether you want to love or be loved.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It should be a choice to love you, choose the person you love, and you may be tired of loving.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Neither is chosen. Because they won't be happy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't choose! Otherwise, it is destined to harm others and yourself!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course, I choose someone who loves you, but I haven't met it so far.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I choose to love me and I love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is not a sin to step on two boats. As long as you give the same amount of love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't know, but think about it, what would you do if you were with someone who loved you but you didn't?

    So you should choose the one you love

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    For women; Find one you love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Think about it later.

    Hehe. The helplessness of the world will make us understand.

    Feelings won't be the whole of life.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Someone who loves you and someone you love, which one will you choose?

    Although I don't know other people's choices, my choice is love, because I personally think that there must be a lot of people who like him (her), and this kind of person who likes them does not understand or know how they feel about the person they like, let alone themselves, and they can't understand the true feelings and opinions of others about themselves; But there is only one person who truly loves, and only he knows his feelings best, isn't that so, and who knows his thoughts and true inner feelings better than himself?

    So I chose love, not to be loved, although I didn't choose to be loved so sweet, so happy, but at least I will fight for the person I love, to fight, and choose love is my own choice, what is the consequence There will be no regrets, if you just want to be obsessed with the happiness and sweetness of being loved, what are the consequences? There are many parts of happiness, but how much have you paid in the emotion, and how many memories will make you feel happy, choose love, if it is unfortunate, the result is very miserable, very painful, but after all, we have worked hard, we have fought hard, and at that time what regrets can there be? Ha, well, thank you friend for reading my personal thoughts, thank you!

    In fact, I am just deceiving myself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Emotional matters are often unclear and unclear, especially when there is no choice between loving and being loved. People often say: find someone who loves you as your husband (wife), and the person you love as a lover.

    Although there is some truth in this sentence, it is contrary to Chinese ethics and morality. Actually, I don't think the situation you encounter is too complicated, as long as you calm down and look at the two of them carefully, you will find out who you really need.

    Let's analyze your ex-boyfriend: he has good family conditions, he is also very good to you, and he will never abandon you, if he has a good character and a stable career or income, he should be considered relatively perfect, and he can score 95 points.

    Let's analyze your current boyfriend again: his family conditions are not good, he is good and bad to you, he has skills (with a stable income), and if his character is also good, he should be considered okay and can score 70 points.

    Let's analyze you again: your ex-boyfriend is that you don't love you anymore, and you rely on your current boyfriend, but my current boyfriend's current attitude towards you I think needs to be further observed by you. Emotional matters are very delicate, I don't want to say too much, but I think marriage depends not only on feelings, life is life, there are many elements in it, you have to look at the problem at multiple levels, think deeply about the problem, first of all, consider whether this person really loves me, whether I can accept him; Secondly, we should consider whether we will be able to live together well in the future, especially whether we can understand and tolerate our personality and temperament; Finally, it depends on his personal and family background, and it is best to be a good match.

    The above is just my personal opinion, I hope it will be helpful to you, and I hope that you can find your own home as soon as possible and enter a happy life. Good luck!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    These are the two directions of emotion, and there is no right or wrong.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Love is a headache, loving someone is happy, as long as you look at him quietly you will feel very warm, even if he does not belch you, you will still love him, this is enough, this is the most beautiful. Catching your own belching is happiness.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This is best when both of them like each other.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Who loves you and who you love, how should you choose?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This is best when both of them like each other.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    These are the two directions of emotion, and there is no right or wrong.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

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