Why can t I find the right lover for me?

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's right to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

It's not that you can't find it, maybe you don't know how to cherish it, when you meet someone you like, have you carefully observed him? Or do you give in to him? Find out why you do everything.

Fate has not yet arrived, but you must find someone who loves you.

I'm obviously fine. Why can't I always meet the right people?

It's a strange thing. We will find that some girls are good-looking and stool-lifting, and there are many boys chasing her around her, but she just can't start a relationship, but some girls may have average appearance and conditions, but such girls have many men. Why?

Let's tackle that today.

First, let's look at the right people. Many girls are sensitive and subjective in their perception of things. For example, if she wants to find a husband or have a relationship, she says I want to find the right person. What kind of talent is the right person? How many metrics are there?

Let's start with a simple definition: the right person can make you fall in love with good results.

For example, this person, if you think he is good enough, then you will fall in love with him. After you fall in love with him, he doesn't love you, and then he leaves. That person must be wrong.

Therefore, for girls, there are two aspects to the right person: one is to love, and the other is to have a positive source fruit. If the right person is such a person, why can't you meet him?

In fact, it's not about her appearance, some girls are very ordinary, but she never lacks men around her, then she is very lucky. Then she can only choose among men, but there are some girls who have good conditions and good looks, even if there are many boys chasing her, but she just can't fall in love.

The first defeat and the first one:

When looking for a partner, you must look at the character, not the looks and sweet words.

Like a person, it starts with appearance and is loyal to character. It is undeniable that a person who is handsome and beautiful on the outside is still quite attractive to people. And on the basis of being handsome and beautiful, and a little rhetoric, for people who are eager for love, sometimes it is simply a deadly poison, and in a trance, they will fall unconsciously.

But in order to truly achieve happiness, that kind of long-term and safe happiness, the most important thing is to look at a person's character. A person who can treat you sincerely, know your warmth, hurt your sorrows, and give you happiness.

You must not let yourself fall into the misery of the rest of your life for the sake of short-term happiness, and the so-called delicate flowers are thorny, this sentence applies to women as well as to men.

Second: to learn to refuse, true love does not need to be proven.

Many people believe in each other unreservedly during their love, and even sometimes when the other party makes some excessive requests, they are reluctant to refuse and resist, always feeling that if they don't agree to the other party, Chawu will make the other party feel that they really care about this feeling.

So in this blindness, in the name of the other party's packaged love, they were deceived and framed, and too many girls have been retaliated by their former partners for posting intimate photos after breaking up over the years. Eventually, they all became depressed and depressed in pain.

In a relationship, no matter how much you love and care, you must always keep your inner line of defense and give yourself a safe space, even if you don't love anymore one day.

When you continue, you can also leave safely.

Third: Don't be soft-hearted when you meet a scumbag, and give blind determination and punishment.

After being hurt by a scumbag, many people will take care of their former feelings and choose to forgive and settle things, but this approach often not only wrongs themselves, but also gives the scumbag a chance to hurt you again. The end result will only be more damage to yourself.

Therefore, for scumbags, for those who are not right-minded, it is useless to forgive, you must learn to use the law to protect yourself, not only to let the person who hurt you be punished, but also to tell everyone, so those who have hurt others will be punished, unforgivable, and will never be tolerated.

It is inevitable to encounter unpleasant feelings in life, those who are not right-hearted, and have never had true feelings for you, how sweet they are when they love, how ruthless they will become when they don't love, and protecting themselves is always the most important thing.

Don't be in a hurry, because now everyone has different pressures and wants different things, so the appearance of the right one will be a little slower.

I think you haven't found your true self yet, and when you are sure of the life you want, you will know which person will be around you and what it should be like, and you will find that even if there is a sea of people, you will see him.

It's not that I can't find it, but the time has not yet come. You have to believe in fate, in everyone's life, there will be a person who is destined in the dark, and when he comes, you can't hide from it.

So don't be in a hurry, on the one hand, try to find it, and on the other hand, you have to believe in fate. As the saying goes, there is a fate to meet thousands of miles, but there is no chance to meet on the other side.

Hope it helps.

Hello, I don't think it's that you can't find someone you like, it's that you lack an appreciation for the opposite sex, if there is a man who likes you and you think that this man is still a little bad with your ideal partner, then why don't you try to change his dissatisfaction with the place? People are malleable, use your way to create a partner of your own!

Love hasn't come yet, wait for it with your heart, and adopt it.