I don t want to get married, I want to have children, why don t I want children when I get married?

The upstairs one said it was good! A few thoughts are the same as yours!

Let me tell you that it is not good for children to grow up in the noise of their parents. That's true. But if you really care about children.

Won't quarrel while he's there! My parents had a lot of arguments. But I don't know.

Because they all had conflicts when I wasn't at home. As soon as I get home, they talk and laugh as if it's okay!

Can't you do that? If it's still seen. The child will definitely be sad.

But do you know what else he's thinking? He will use your wrong side as a negative lesson. I will swear in my heart!

I won't quarrel with my wife or husband like this when I grow up! Isn't this also educating children on the other hand?

Also, please don't hurt anyone! Don't be selfish! A child who grows up like this will never get a father's love!

I don't know what it's like to be loved by my father! What will he do? Still love you?

Or will it hate you? Maybe you haven't tasted the feeling of not having a father's love! Speak in such a relaxed tone!

Just think for yourself. You want a kid like that! If you really have a child like that.

Just wait! Someone else's dad carries his son on his shoulders and goes out to play! He wants. What do you do? Do you carry?

Someone else's dad goes out to play football with his son. What is he going to do? Maybe you think you can do this! But remember!! You have to keep in mind!! The role of a father is irreplaceable!!

If you do! Just wait for him to hate you! Childhood lacks father's love, and adulthood will hate you!

Why do some people scold people and say that you "lack father's love and lack mother's love"? Obviously, neither father's love nor mother's love is indispensable.

What you said is very contradictory, I don't make it clear whether I want to give birth to myself or whether I want to adopt.

Introduction: In the past, marriage made people yearn for it very much, and they were also very looking forward to children, but many young people today are reluctant to get married, or they don't want to have children after marriage. There are many reasons for this situation, some people feel that their ability cannot give their children a better life, and they don't want their children to suffer with them, most people should think like this.

However, there is such a saying, there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is the greatest, for those traditional old people, children are fundamental, because they are the continuation of incense. But for today's young people, this is not really important. When you don't have the ability to give a child better, you would rather choose not to give him birth, and the cost of raising a child is really too high now.

From the beginning of preparing for pregnancy to the prenatal check-up to the birth of the child to the child's schooling to the child's work and marriage, it really costs a lot of money. For many families, there is simply no way to afford it, so these newlyweds will be more cautious when it comes to having children. In addition, you must know that it takes a lot of energy to raise a child, both of them have jobs and incomes, and there is no way to throw away all these things in order to raise children, so some people would rather Dink than have children after marriage.

The same is faced with such a problem after getting married and having children, children go to school and pick up and drop off children, as long as they are working, they can't do both, so the elderly can't provide too much help, in this case, many people can't have children with confidence. Of course, the last part is that the relationship between husband and wife is not so harmonious, so they don't want to have children, and if they are afraid of a real divorce later, the custody of the child is also a problem, anyway, there are many reasons for this situation, most people choose not to marry or have children because of economic problems or the inability to give their children a better life, and they can also live very happily alone.

<> personally think that you must have children when you get married, and not having children means that you do not have a sense of responsibility for your family, and secondly, you do not have a complete explanation for your parents.

Marriage is generally associated with having children, whether it is a son or a daughter, in short, you must have children. If you don't have children, you can guarantee that you and your lover will not be separated and quarrel for the rest of your life? It's different when you have a child, at least it's a bridge of communication between parents, and you will take your child into account when you do anything.

Traditionally, not having children means that you are very unfilial. And when the two of you are old, you don't even have a single person around. How pitiful is that?

You can't beg someone for everything, right? If you have a child by your side, whether it's a boy or a girl, you can at least have someone to rely on.

Just imagine two people getting married and not having children, whether it is a family member or a person in the city, what will they think of you? You will think that you are a selfish and ignorant person, and having children is also responsible for renting to a certain extent. Having a child is a great relief for both men and women.

Otherwise, it will be a joke to let the neighbors know about it.

No matter how brilliant and successful your career is, if you get married and don't have children, no one will be able to inherit your career after a hundred years. Giving birth to a child is also giving you your own hope, and you will work hard to train the next generation, so that they can be angry and strive to become stronger from generation to generation.

I think yes, I get married to a large extent because I want to have a child of my own, if I don't want to have children, then I don't need to use a marriage letter to bind everyone, you can live together or just fall in love.

In fact, there is no regret after the irrelevant, as long as you know the pros and cons of things, in fact, it is nothing more than those few things, that is, you must accept yourself alone when you are old, there are no children around you to shout for warmth, you have to go to the elderly yourself, because no one helps you to support the elderly, the previous children are filial piety in order to raise children and prevent old age, now if you have money you can go to a nursing home, you can ask someone to take care of you, is a big premise is that you have to have money, rich enough to cope with your pension capital. You also have to know that when you see people enjoying family fun, you can't enjoy it if you have a daughter and a child under your knees. This is what you have to face.

Of course, the advantage of not having children is that you don't have to take children, take the time to grow up with children, which is quite good, once a real woman has a child, it is a bird with broken wings, and it is difficult to fly if you want to fly.

This depends on the person, if you don't have children, you don't need to get married, you get married into another family, you used to want to take care of your own parents, marriage is to take care of your in-laws who are not related to you, and if you don't do it, you will also leave a bad voice, why do you want to do this thankless thing, if you get married, you have to have a child. It's true.

If a boy impregnates a girl, then you should be responsible for it! This is the least sense of responsibility as a man, and this is what a man should have! Moreover, it is very harmful for girls, and this injury is not only physical but also may be in the heart!

No matter what the problem is between you, I think there are always more ways than difficulties, learn to solve the problems between the two of you, and don't choose to run away! The girl is always the weak party in the relationship, since she chose to break up with you after doing **, I think you should have brought her a certain amount of hurt to make her make this decision! Men must dare to act, dare to do and dare to carry, and don't let this woman who has paid so much for herself be hurt even more!

If you don't want to get married, falling in love is just a hooligan, why do you live illegally with this girl if you don't want to get married. As a result, the girl is now pregnant, and as a normal and responsible man should take a positive attitude. Together with his girlfriend, he tried to take effective measures to deal with the matter, but the man did not do so.

It's when the girlfriend is helpless and seeks this man to give her a satisfactory solution. And what he chose was an extremely irresponsible solution, asking this woman to kill the child, just this cold sentence to kill the child. also made this girlfriend choose to break up and leave after seeing this man's ugly face clearly.

Although this is the result, it is the girl who suffers the most. Not only is it emotionally hurting, but more importantly, it is also taking a serious toll physically. But there is no way, although it is the woman who suffers and is deceived.

There is also responsibility from the woman, just as a man and a woman cannot fall in love without living together. How many lessons from the past have not attracted their attention, leaving some scumbags with an opportunity to make many women deceived. A woman's abortion hurts her body very much, can you think about her for a while?

That's your child, you can give up your child, which means that you can do more bad things, you have no future Even if you have some achievements in middle age and old age, you will definitely lose a lot in your old age, and the people around you who can observe these behaviors are all in this kind of fate.

I don't want to get married with anyone to have children, and what to do if I have children, the problem of household registration and school needs to be solved, so I have to go step by step, get married first and have another child, which will be a lot of shouting. It's too sketchy.