I talked too much about breaking up, and now it s useless to say that it s useless

If you really want to divide, you have to be resolute, you just need to state your position, it doesn't matter what he reacts, you don't pay attention to him, after a long time, he will naturally know that you really want to divide.

You still don't want to break up when you say this, but he ignores you, so uncomfortable, this is the so-called men's freshness is gone, then you have to pay attention, once he has a girl who is similar to you or better than you, he will break up with you. The answer I'm giving you is two options, one is to break up and break up completely, and the other is to get married (but are you old enough to get married?). ）

Breaking up is not divorce, which is so difficult, breaking up does not require the consent of the other party, you don't treat him as a boyfriend, naturally he is not your boyfriend. Don't say anything ambiguous, be polite with him. Slowly, not anymore.

Sometimes it doesn't have to be a breakup to break up! Don't contact him from now on, don't see him, it's going to fade after a long time.

If you really want to break up, you must have a clear position and a resolute attitude. Avoid contacting him, even when you have to pick him up, you have to spare words like gold.

I don't know what to do? If you want to separate people, you just ignore you, and the only way is to contact less.

Breaking up is not something that can be said casually.

Always make a relationship bet with a breakup, and you will end up being a relationship loser.

Smart girls don't bet on breakups.

I suggest you look at what makes a wise woman.

Replace everything you can contact and see what he does.

Then you just leave quietly, what are you doing there, waste.

Ignore it and change jobs.

Change the environment. I can't find the head office.

I want to break up but can't say it because you don't want to hurt each other, there is a sympathy for him (her) in my heart, and I can't break up many times because you still have feelings, or you have been together for a long time, and what exists together is not love but a psychological responsibility, but what we have not figured out is: when you no longer love someone, you have to boldly confess to the other party, even if you don't want to hurt her, in fact, we have never understood, When you don't want to hurt each other and pretend to continue to love each other, it's already the biggest hurt, and it's each other hurting

What does it mean that the words are not explained after a breakup? It is often divided into two types:1In the case of some reason that led you to make the decision to break up, you didn't make it clear what the reason was 2Unilaterally, the breakup is caused by your personal emotions, and you are not ruthless enough.

If you don't make your words clear when you break up and give the other party an ambiguous explanation, it will make your ex very devastated:

It's all this time, does it still make sense to think about this"-nonsense, of course it makes sense, I have to know why you dumped me, right?

Forget it, I don't want to make trouble like this, don't say it anymore"-why can't you say it again, I don't think your reasons are enough to break up, why can't I say it?

You see, the more you try to avoid problems, the more problems you will have after the breakup, and the more you will not play.

In general, there are two main types of breakup situations: one is because you lose your feelings for the other party for many miscellaneous reasons, and the other is that you don't like it anymore because you don't like it anymore - these two situations have different ways to make it clear.

In the first case, you can largely find the reason for your frustration in the relationship, which hides one thing - if these problems are resolved, then you can continue to get along.

It's not a nonsense, because if you want to win back the other party in the future, it really works.

Many people regret it after a period of time after breaking up and want to get back their ex, but they find that the ex who originally kept them didn't buy it at all: public toilets? Come as you say, go as you go?

At this time, if you have explained things to the other party in detail when you broke up before, then you can try to convince the other party at this time - I broke up with you because of those problems, and now I think I can solve these problems.

For example, when I broke up because we were in a long-distance relationship and had no plans for the future, now I have a job change and I am going to your city, and I plan to settle there;

We broke up because we didn't have enough time to communicate, but if I went to settle in your city, the problem would be solved;

And at that time, many of our problems could actually be solved by meeting, so now I will see you often, and those problems are no longer problems.

You broke up at that time because some problems could not be solved, so you were disappointed in the relationship, so if you can explain the words clearly when you break up, and you can explain the reasons for the destruction, in fact, if you want to save the other party in the future, you can also help you - even let's say that the reality of the preparation is a little bit: if you want to save your ex, I don't believe that you can't find a statement that is conducive to the solution of those problems, you must have a way.

No matter what, two people should not easily say that they broke up, talk about breaking up and hurting feelings, and say that they hurt once ......After talking too much, the relationship has faded, and it is normal ...... to break up

Go with the flow and do what you should do well (e.g., work, study, etc.), so that the emotional aspect will divert attention, sometimes excessive attention, but you don't know what you really think in your heart, just like you can't make up your mind now. So divert your attention appropriately, relax your nerves appropriately, and trust in nature that you will hear the true voice of your heart. Take a deep breath, melt your emotions and emotions, and eventually you will find your inner path and listen to the true voice of your heart.

Memories can hurt people's hearts. Even if it's good, it's no different.

Even if you cherish it, both parties will be hurt, and if you don't, you will be happy.

It's not fruitless, so why bother? 、

It's just a momentary anger.

Do not cherish. I don't have confidence in the future, I don't have confidence in whether you love her, care for her, and give her a sense of security.

If you don't agree, you leave. Everyone will pursue the person they like and who they love.

Maybe she thinks you're not the right fit for her.

But don't be too sad.

Believe in yourself and there will be love by your side.

I don't have a psychology that is numb, I can't find a feeling anymore, I feel that the other party is redundant and unnecessary, so it's a prelude to a breakup, cherish everything in front of you, teenager.

A buddy of mine once said, "A man's feelings, chasing is a paragraph, chasing is another paragraph." Although the object is the same person, the process is not the same, maybe your ex, prefer the process of chasing.

You can try to communicate with your ex and explain what you were thinking and feeling at the time. If you are able to express yourself honestly, the other person may be more amusive and willing to understand your position. If the other person is reluctant to communicate or your communication is not remarkable, then you may need to accept the fact of the breakup and move on.

Summary. Hello. When you say you break up, he says he can't break up for the time being, and I'll talk about it later, which means that I don't want to break up.

When I said to break up, he said he couldn't break up for the time being, and I'll talk about it later.

Hello. When you say you break up, he says he can't break up for the time being, and I'll talk about it later, which means that I don't want to break up.

You now have two options. The first one is that you really don't love him, tell him that you feel like you've broken up. Don't dwell on it later. Then directly block it.

The second one will listen to him, find stability, and see if the conflict between you can be resolved. Then think about breaking up. That is, to give each other a cooling-off period.

I think it's normal, if not particularly big, contradictions. How much the second is best.

Find each other to calm down for a while, and then have a good talk.

That's fair to all of you.

He also told me to get out, but why did he say that he couldn't divide it for the time being, and he would talk about it later.

Because he doesn't have time now. It must be a matter of life or work, and this time is relatively busy.

No time to deal with things with you.

If you have time, how can you not have time.

He'll break up with you when he has time.

He must not be able to pull away to say that. Otherwise, he is not normal], <> that's why he will say one thing and do another.

The problem may have something to do with his parents. But he didn't tell you.