How can I protect my rights? The wedding date is approaching, and the factory does not approve leave

According to the provisions of the Marriage Law and the Regulations on Family Planning, employees can enjoy the following benefits when they get married:

1) Marriage leave: 1. Those who get married according to the legal age of marriage (20 years old for women and 22 years old for men) can enjoy 3 days of marriage leave.

2. Those who meet the age of late marriage (23 years old for women and 25 years old for men) can enjoy 15 days of late marriage leave (including 3 days of statutory marriage leave).

3. If both the man and the woman do not work in the same place at the time of marriage, they may be given travel leave depending on the distance traveled.

4. If you get married during the period of home visit leave (visiting parents), no additional leave will be granted.

5. Marriage leave includes public holidays and statutory leave.

6. Those who remarry can enjoy statutory marriage leave, but cannot enjoy late marriage leave.

2) Salary during marriage leave: During marriage leave and travel leave, wages are paid as usual.

The employment relationship during the probationary period is protected by the labor law, so you are entitled to statutory holidays such as marriage leave, and the employer has no right to restrict you.

According to the relevant laws and regulations of labor, if the contract period is one year, the probationary period shall not exceed one month.

He sees you as a bully, I don't know how big an official the leader you are talking about, is it a squad leader, a team leader, a workshop director or a factory director? If the director doesn't let you invite, you will tell her about the regulations on marriage leave in the "Marriage Law", you should be straightforward, don't be soft, then he will see you better bully, if you really can't go, the factory director is not a good thing what are you doing there, when you leave, talk to some**Talk to them** by the way, let them**. But then again, you do have a lot of that kind of thing, and it's a kind of helplessness for some part-time jobs.

If you don't want to leave, discuss with the factory manager when you can take a leave of absence and postpone the wedding. There's nothing else to do.

Alas. Workers and peasants returned to Jinggang Mountain.

It depends on how brave you are, otherwise the later you regret the marriage, the more it will hurt the two families.

Your parents are money fans, why did you fall in love in the first place?

If you really don't want to get married, then you'd rather die than give in!!

Otherwise, it can only harm others and oneself.

Approaching the wedding date.

My husband was called by a friend to go for a drink.

It didn't come back.

That's going to go through**.

and so on to get him back.

Inform his family if necessary.

Oops! I'm afraid of striped hair! You feel like you can look up to your colleagues, and you've sent them all! If you don't send it, people will say that you don't want to be friends with them! Whether you send it or not is your business! Whether you come or not is someone's business!

Send some small gifts to everyone first! For example, ......

Maybe the merchant has died or didn't see it, it's best to refund it immediately and buy it in person.

Fraud company, fraud group, I was deceived 13000 can't withdraw money, can't buy things, can't send screenshots, otherwise I have 15 chat records.

As the saying goes, marriage is the grave of love. may be about to get married, and there is a sense of fear in my heart, after all, it is not very convenient to go out to wander after getting married, and so on, referred to as premarital phobia.

Is this the legendary premarital phobia? Calm down, think about it, don't you fall in love just to get married? Don't you love him, if you love someone, you will want to marry him......

Maybe you have a phobia of marriage. You can quietly recall: the process of your relationship with your boyfriend, you have to firmly believe: he is what I want!

You are uncertain about your future life, you don't know if your boyfriend will treat you like your parents, and you will be a little uncomfortable from a familiar environment (your mother's home) to another unfamiliar environment (your own home), so you will have a fear reaction before stepping into the palace of marriage. Actually, other people have similar situations, and you are not the only one.

To believe in your boyfriend's true feelings and true love for you, please be full of hope for your future life!

That's your problem, since your boyfriend is good, then you don't have any reason not to want to get married, unless you don't love him, if you don't love him, separate early, it's good for you and him.

There's nothing wrong with a boyfriend.

It's the wedding again, it's approaching.

Everything is ready, only the east wind is owed.

How so?

Is there a fear of marriage?

The heart is not ready.

Actually, don't be so anxious.

Life after marriage.

It should be very warm and sweet.

Be confident and enjoy the world of two.

Premarital phobia is very normal, a person is energetic, he feels very nervous, it is normal to feel nervous before marriage, it is normal after marriage, don't be afraid, there will be great changes after marriage, and it will be very happy, if you love him, you don't have this nervous feeling.

You say there's nothing wrong with your boyfriend, but the wedding date is approaching, and you don't want to get married, you want to be alone. One possibility may be the fear of marriage, a manifestation of the approaching wedding date. There is also the possibility that you are used to being alone, that others are dispensable to you, that the presence of another person has no effect on your life, that you have no reason to refuse, and that you do not have an attitude of rejoicing.

It's also possible that you're a little indifferent to your boyfriend and don't have the idea that he has to be.

Premarital phobia is very common and can cause women to be nervous before marriage, unusually depressed or irritable, poor appetite, and lack of sleep, and need to overcome this tension so as not to affect their lives.

Premarital phobia, be relaxed, talk to your boyfriend well, what do you want, you can tell him, you can't waste your love, it's not easy, you have to cherish it.

Maybe it has something to do with your parents, right?

There are a lot of them in Hefei, and the pedestrian street can be said to be all there! Mrs. Jin, you can go and see if you are still disturbing the branches! Love it, the studio is not bad, too! I heard that Daxiang is also shooting in **!

It's also good to get on the sedan chair! My cousin went to shoot last time on July 10th, and on the wedding date of August 2nd, they worked overtime and rushed out! You're still in time to set up, so there's no problem!

You have to look at a few more to make a decision, don't make a decision lightly!

Hello, you are getting married, and you are not married, then he is your boyfriend, not your husband. It is recommended to do emotional counseling for couples, you can go to marriage mediation, you can go to the community service center, and go to a psychological counselor for help.

Give him some space to think for himself. Let him reach out to you.

Don't be so passive.

The first may have changed his mind, and the second he has thought too much, just these two possibilities.

Of course he should be happy that you are about to get married, but he has become reticent and his personality has changed drastically, and this situation shows that he has something on his mind. For example, because you have not formed a unified opinion on the marriage, and the wishes of both parents have not been agreed, so he feels that you are not considerate enough for him and has the idea of escaping, so you ask him to discuss things and he will not reply to you.

The so-called premarital phobia is the psychological fear and fear of thinking that you will have to deal with all kinds of things after marriage in the future. Because I haven't experienced married life, I will imagine marriage too complicated, and I don't have enough courage to start a new life with my lover.

As his future wife, you should comfort him, give him confidence, consult him and his family for all kinds of preparations for the wedding, and make requests also depends on his ability to bear, if because of the marriage, both of you have not reached a consensus, can this marriage make people happy?

It may be that he is not ready to marry you, so he is very anxious.

Maybe he's scared too, or maybe it's who he really is.

I think this may be premarital phobia, I think you should care more about him and let his parents communicate with him more.

There are many people who have premarital phobia, and it is natural to get married, so you don't have to worry too much.

Your husband probably hasn't thought about it yet, and he doesn't want to get married at all. Under pressure from his family, he can't make it clear that he doesn't want to get married, so he just takes "taciturn" to avoid the problem. You can go to him in person, and the two of you can make an appointment in a quiet place to communicate and see what the problem is.

As the wedding date approaches, many prospective couples will have an inexplicable fear, and even have the idea of running away. This symptom is actually a kind of avoidance psychology, which psychologists call "marriage phobia". Marriage is a major happy event in life and a milestone in life.

But thinking about it and worrying that your personal life will be restricted after marriage, and you are not ready? This may be suffering from premarital phobia. Before and after marriage is different, life will always change, so there is an unpredictable and inexplicable anxiety about the future life situation, which is the symptom of premarital phobia.

In the face of such embarrassment, how to deal with premarital phobia?

Symptom comparison psychology:

When communicating with friends of the same sex, he found that he was a person with little personality experience, and although his sense of morality supported his behavior, the comparison and joking mockery between male friends also hit his psychological defenses. Therefore, the persuasion of his friends began to work under this psychological background, and he began to have the idea of finding a woman before marriage.

Rebellious Psychology: What Are the Symptoms of Premarital Phobia? Rebellious psychology is one of the symptoms of premarital phobia. Marriage is an agreement for both husband and wife, there are also binding elements, usually, men both desire a stable married life, but also worry about this constraint, compared with women, men are more eager for freedom in their hearts, although he does not have to do anything specifically, but when this freedom is threatened, rebellious psychology will work, which is also one of the potential psychological factors to have the idea of finding other women before marriage.

Fear: When talking about marriage is in the last stage before marriage, it may be the most worthwhile period to write about, it is more delicate and complex than the moment of the wedding, there are too many longings for the unknown, and too much relief for the past. However, nervousness, anxiety, and fear often plague the newlyweds at this time, and the newlyweds with poor psychological quality often have the idea of escaping marriage after having some adverse physical reactions. Psychologists say that this fear reaction will occur in the newlyweds, which is actually a symptom of premarital phobia.

What are the symptoms of emotional premarital phobia? Emotional fear of marriage, and uncertainty about the other half. It can cause people with premarital phobia to escape their emotions.

Escape the fear and anxiety that comes with marriage and your partner. This may manifest as ignoring your partner, or being easily provoked to quarrel with each other.

Life is also a sense of uncertainty and fear about the future life, which will manifest irritability, depression, and tension in life. will be concerned about the trivial things in life. Or run away from things that must be done in life.

This depends on how you feel about him, and then if you suddenly change your personality before marriage, or you don't reply to him about anything, there are two possibilities, the first is because he may feel that he doesn't like you very much, and there are other loves, in that case, it may be because he does have that kind of premarital phobia, and you'd better understand it clearly.

Maybe, you have to communicate with him well to see what is his reason? What about you? Have you figured it out? If his temperament changes greatly, it seems a little strange, you can observe more first, think about it carefully, this marriage can be postponed, goodbye.

Love is never fair, and it can't be measured by fairness, so there is no need to dwell on whether there is a reason for love.

As long as it's true love, it doesn't matter how many reasons there are, if it's not true love, it won't help you find any reasons.