Is forgetting or remembering? Please, thank you

It's "forgetting" the past that "remembers", so it's forgetting...

I think everyone has things that they want to forget and can't forget, it may be emotional, it may be things. We all try to forget about these unpleasantness. But at the same time, we will be very helpless to find that we can't forget at all, and I think to say that forgetting is self-deception, because whether we see or come into contact with some previous things or things, it will remind us of those unpleasant things or people.

But I don't think anyone will live in their memories forever. I think we will downplay it and replace it for different reasons, it may be time, it may be someone, or something or something. So when we want to forget, I think the most important thing to do is not to deliberately forget, that will only make you deepen your memory, do something you like, or play more, relax, maybe you will find people, things, and things that can help you get out of your memory.

Forget as well as remember. Time can fade the memories of the past, but it is impossible to forget, after all, it has been in your life. As time goes by, when you and I recall the past, you will smile silly, think about the mistakes you made at that time, and the mistakes you made in the past will make you who you are today, you will not grow without experience, and only experience will make you stronger.

Forgetting is the abbreviation of forgetting memory, which one do you say?

In fact, this question is not easy to answer, and wanting to forget a person is like taking the wrong path and wanting to go back to square one. Generally speaking, the distance you go back is as far as you go. However, one day, when you actually answer:

As the saying goes: "Bodhi has no tree, the mirror is not a platform, there is nothing originally, where to stir up dust." Only when we really forget to forget a person is actually the real forgetting Sometimes, when we look back, we may not and cannot forget a person, but forget ourselves, forget how we have felt about that person, that thing.

So, after we change our memories of ourselves, do we forget that person, is it still important?

To forget is to forget what you remember!

Whether to forget or not to forget is up to your heart.

Forget the bad and remember the good.

Forget what you should forget, remember what you should remember.