How to solve the problem of thinking

This kind of person belongs to the kind of people who can't stand the blow.

He must have been so pessimistic because he didn't get people's affirmation many times.

If you treat him well, he may feel pity for him, and if you treat him badly, you may think that you look down on him.

Now that I'm married, I have to communicate with him well and don't talk about her too fiercely.

Affirming him more in what he does gives him a little confidence in his strengths.

See what advantages he has.

Even if it's just a small, very inconspicuous thing, you have to affirm him.

Go out with him to play ball and play sports.

This problem has also been encountered by my relatives.

This requires guidance from many sides. First of all, it is best to start with his interests. It's better to go along that way.

And it must be related to practical things to make him feel that he is still capable.

For example, my relative. I haven't been out of the house for 10 years. Do nothing. Later, I was finally willing to go out.

My family gave me this opportunity. He likes to grow his own flowers and plants.

Let him plant trees. Plant fruit trees. And then he encouraged him and said that he was the best at planting trees.

Later, dozens of lychee trees were planted. Afterward. He began to gain self-confidence. Gradually, I often went out on my own.

At last. It's back to normal life. But there is still a bit of a problem with the personality.

Whatever you say. After all, a big step has been taken.

Let him see a psychiatrist.

Change his psychological ......

And it's useless for the family to be anxious.

You can't force him.

enlighten him ......

That's because he hasn't come across a job he's interested in.

The problems with the ideological side are as follows:

1. The sense of responsibility is not strong, the treatment is more, the dedication is less, the job responsibilities can not be used well, make more contributions, satisfied with the general completion of the work task, and do not pay attention to the improvement of the quality of work.

2. A ball of harmony. Criticism and self-criticism only plant flowers, not thorns, and the problems found in the work are hindered by the situation, so those who can not be mentioned are not mentioned, and those who can be ignored are ignored and the problems existing in the four aspects of consciousness are ignored.

3. The requirements for subordinates are not strict enough. The work is "passable", and the management standards of strict requirements and high standards are relaxed. Employees have fluctuations in their thoughts, and they can't understand their ideas in time, and they have subjective slackness in the four aspects of consciousness.

4. The sense of responsibility is not strong. The working method is simple. Sometimes I have a coping attitude towards work, I don't have a down-to-earth attitude, I always want to find a shortcut in my work, and it's best not to spend too much energy to get things done.

The problems existing in the ideology and the corrective measures are as follows:

1. Combined with their actual work, there are the following problems.

1. Lack of a high level of understanding of learning. Due to the delay of a large number of tasks in ordinary times, the idea of "learning is not very important, but it is important to do work" has emerged, and study has not been put in an important position, and the spirit of persevering in learning has been lacking.

2. Lack of breadth and depth of learning knowledge. In his usual studies, he only pays attention to reading books such as current news, and has little knowledge of political theory. It only focuses on the basic knowledge of material arrangement, and has less business knowledge with a certain depth.

2. Rectification measures in the future.

Solidly study the professional theoretical knowledge of the department in charge, learn from experienced seniors, read magazines, and learn advanced experience in agriculture. At the same time, we should go down to the grassroots level to conduct in-depth investigations into the actual situation of Duandou, see the essence through the phenomenon, grasp the internal laws in the work, consciously act in accordance with the laws, and do a good job in agricultural work.

At the same time, we should conscientiously study various professional knowledge, actively cooperate with other comrades, do a good job in professional work, strive to learn all kinds of relevant professional knowledge, combine learning with application, and constantly enhance our ability to serve the people.

Question:

1. They do not have a deep understanding of the party's mass line, their concept of purpose has been diluted, and they have not really established a sense of public servant serving the masses wholeheartedly in thought and action.

2. The exemplary leading role of party members is not enough, the awareness of discipline is weak, and there is still a certain distance between their thoughts and actions and the requirements of the party.

3. Lack of self-consciousness in theoretical learning. They did not put the study of political theory in an important position, and they did not have enough understanding, deep feeling, and strict requirements for the importance of study.

4. In improving ideological consciousness, there is a lack of innovation, the connection between theory and practice is insufficient, and the guiding role of theory is not effectively played.

Measures: 1. Strengthen the study of theoretical knowledge and continuously improve their comprehensive quality. Formulate a systematic study plan, establish the ideological concept of lifelong learning and education, never relax in learning at any time, and comprehensively improve their overall quality.

In the future, I will not only learn new business knowledge, but also conscientiously study the party's scientific and theoretical knowledge, especially the report of the 18th National Congress of the Communist Party of China, the theoretical system of socialism with Chinese characteristics, and the spirit of the Third Plenary Session of the 18th Central Committee, improve my political theoretical cultivation, and strengthen my political beliefs.

2. Strengthen ideological transformation and continuously improve the party's sense of purpose. Always abide by the party's constitution, conscientiously fulfill the obligations of party members, actively participate in the activities of the party organization, consciously maintain the party's image, and maintain a high degree of consistency with the party organization in thought, words and deeds.

Always keep a clear head, strictly self-restraint, and often use criticism and self-criticism to find and solve their own problems. Pay attention to safeguarding the authority of the party organization, conscientiously implement the decisions of the party organization, actively complete the work tasks assigned by the party organization, stress party spirit, take into account the overall situation, emphasize unity, and seek work.

3. Actively forge ahead and strengthen the sense of seeking truth and pragmatism. In our future work, we must overcome the mentality of getting by and not thinking of making progress, and establish the concept that if we do not advance, we will retreat and seek greater development. Love their own work, in-depth study, love and dedication, have the courage to take responsibility, see the wisdom and think together, always put the work in the first place, whether it is teaching and scientific research work, or the assigned counselor work, are serious and responsible, and actively work hard to complete the successful completion.

Be diligent in thinking, good at summarizing, find more problems, think more ways, and find more ways out, constantly improve working methods, and promote the continuous development of their own work.

The problem in ideological understanding is that we have not done a better job of publicizing ideological work. The service targets of propaganda, ideological and cultural work are at the grassroots level, the main body of work is at the grassroots level, and the implementation of tasks depends on the grassroots level. The propaganda, ideological, and cultural departments at the county level are at the grassroots level, and they are directly facing the masses, so how to adapt to the new situation and do a good job in the propaganda, ideological, and cultural work at the grassroots level is of great importance and imperative.

Therefore, on the basis of inheriting and carrying forward the successful experience and fine traditions, every propaganda, ideological, and cultural worker should carry out his work in close connection with the reality of his work and the ideological reality of the broad masses of cadres and masses, and test his work with actual results. Take the voice of the masses as the first signal, do work with deep feelings for the people, and serve the people with sincerity.

We should constantly draw experience and nourishment from the practice of the masses of the people in production and life, so that the propaganda, ideological, and cultural work at the grassroots level can constantly adapt to the new changes brought about by the new situation in social life.

Grass-roots propaganda, ideological, and cultural work plays a pivotal role in demonstrating the superiority and advanced nature of socialism with Chinese characteristics, inheriting China's excellent traditional culture and national spirit, condensing and elevating the spirit of the times, carrying forward the socialist concept of honor and disgrace, and purifying the social atmosphere.

Corrective measures. Strengthen the concept of purpose and serve the masses wholeheartedly. Enhance the sense of responsibility, service, and dedication, improve work standards, and always take the satisfaction of the masses as the core of work.

Comply with all rules and regulations. We strictly restrain ourselves at all times and everywhere, and our organizational principles and discipline concepts have been further strengthened.

Exemplary implementation of policies and play a leading role. In our work, we will resolutely implement our decisions and always maintain a high degree of consistency in politics, ideology, words and deeds. Enhance business capabilities and improve work efficiency.

Comprehensively improve their own quality, proficient in the industry, the relevant business knowledge of the department, work procedures, laws and regulations.