I was bullied when I was a child, and I didn t know what to do

1. Improve self-confidence. Self-confidence is the most fundamental motivation to eliminate inferiority complex. Don't be afraid of failure, because failure is inevitable, think of "failure is the mother of success"; "Victory or defeat is a common thing in a soldier's life." We should analyze the causes of defeat with a positive attitude, believe in our own ability and perseverance, overcome difficulties, and work hard toward success.

2. Firmly believe in the truth that "I am born to be useful". Correctly understand yourself, see your own strengths, and discover your own value. Give full play to one's own strengths, actively participate in activities conducive to the development of one's strengths, and make use of one's advantages to make more achievements as much as possible, so that one's self-confidence can be continuously consolidated and enhanced.

3. Be clear: diligence is a good training to make up for clumsiness, and a point of hard work is a point of talent. Through diligent study and hard practice, we can completely narrow the gap between ourselves and others, and even catch up with or surpass others.

4. Maintain psychological balance. Students with low self-esteem should praise themselves more and use their own strengths to compare the shortcomings of others. Don't get discouraged when you encounter a setback, don't think "I can't do it", but show a strong sense of confidence: "I can do it." Do it again, and I'll make it."

Fifth, choose the right good method. Everyone's situation is different, and what is effective in others may not be applicable to them, and "Dong Shi Xiao Feng" often achieves twice the result with half the effort, and according to their own special circumstances, they can choose some good and practical methods to get twice the result with half the effort.

6. "Go your own way and let others say go!" Because other people's ridicule and belittlement are often due to jealousy or other reasons, remember: as long as you don't admit that you have an inferiority complex, no one can make you feel inferior!

There's nothing wrong with patience, but you can't be bullied. The main reason for a weak personality is that you are not confident in yourself. The next time you are bullied, you can stand up and say a few cruel words loudly, expressing your dissatisfaction and resentment.

Shout loudly. I'm sure everyone won't look at you like that in the future.

You can be kind, you can be silent, but you must not be bullied. So, it's okay, shout out to the people who are bullying you. Also, exercise more, play ball, enhance self-confidence, communicate with others, talk about psychology, and you will definitely make friends!

Hey、、、 people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden, but if you are too kind, it is a sign of cowardice, you have to show some manly spirit, I am not talking to you to fight, at least people talk to you loudly, and you dare to respond to him loudly.

The more afraid you are of being bullied, the more they will bully you This is common sense that kindness is a virtue. If you're too kind, you're weak. Each should have its own bottom line.

As soon as he touches your bottom line, you should refuse to fight If they go too far, they will fight with them, of course, I don't mean to encourage anyone to fight, after all, fighting is the next policy. But don't be afraid, I suggest you go and see the troublesome teacher, the movie version, there is also a bullied little man cough, you see how he stood up... And finally, Ma is good at being ridden by others, and people are good at being bullied.

Your father beats you, others bully you even more, only save yourself, next time, someone bullies you again, find a ruthless hand with similar strength to you. In the future, when someone wants to bully you, he will think about it, this kid is not easy to bully, and he dares to fight back.

It's pretty !! It's a big deal to go to reincarnation together!!

Blindly withdrawing can only make the person who bullies you more arrogant.

From time to time, I once said: "If people don't offend me, I won't offend people"!

What do you mean, don't mess with me, or see how I clean you up!!

When the little Japanese devil fluctuated with us, if we retreated, it would be finished by now! Peace is a good thing, it's not to instigate you to fight fakes, but if you are bullied, you have to fight back!!

Whoever bullies you again will flatten him, and after he is flattened once, no one will dare again.

There is a chance that you need to make a price with people.

Friends, you first establish confidence, every day, your own air hits, straight, pendulum, hook each 100 times, practice for three months, of course, you have to watch more boxing, see how the boxer punches, learn how he dodges, and then practice, practice more, when you think, your own boxing is more professional than others, try to run, jump rope, and then do more than 300 house pushups every day in the future, remember to persevere, and finally you have confidence, but when you have a conflict with others, you must keep in mind that your usual comeback is not easy, Say what you don't dare to say, and when you feel that anxiety and excitement coexist, you win!

You should go and learn taekwondo. All the knowledge taught in Taekwondo is used in actual combat, which is very useful, and practicing Taekwondo can also improve your courage and physical fitness.

If it's a man, stand up and beat him, otherwise.

Don't tell others that you're a man.

A gentle personality is a good copy, a good quality, and it can be celebrated.

If you want people to value it, and you want people to look at it, you can do it.

1. Smart people are the most respected, always scrutinize everything, know how to distinguish between good and bad interests, understand reason, reason (emotional intelligence), and know everything.

The wise man is always respected by those around him.

2. Superior appearance, beautiful, healthy, well-dressed, beautiful posture, elegant speech, people who do not speak evil will be approached everywhere and welcomed.

Friends come uninvited, and when they see it, they are happy, and they are convinced when they see it, and they are obedient.

People who know how to groom their appearance are always close to the people around them.

3 He who is generous is the most obedient.

Those who are tolerant in everything, generous and not stingy, and can generously share with relatives and friends.

It will be close to people, and it will be able to get a group of relatives and friends, and be content.

People who can share generously can enjoy others the most, and they will inevitably be close to others to follow and do any of the above, which can change your current status quo.

The more you do, the better you do, the more you will be pleased, and they will always treat you like a friend or family.

It can't be said to be bullying, it may be the kind that doesn't care about you, inconspicuous. You don't pander to them so much and do your thing. Your presence, don't stop at getting the full approval of those around you.

No matter how good you are, there will always be people who are not satisfied, and it is difficult for one person to meet the hearts of a hundred people. As long as you treat people sincerely and be worthy of your heart, whoever wants to say something, let him say it!

You should learn to communicate with them, learn to care for others, learn to be assertive, and you will have friends.

Find people who share your interests and interests.

As a man, be confident...

Gentle personality, although it is good, sometimes the source is tough.

Bai is tough, it is unrealistic to rely on friends for a lifetime, and friends will be dao in the future

To get married and raise a family. Impossible, feel free to help you. There are things to rely on yourself, and there are many ways to go by yourself!

You're not confident enough.

It's better for people to be tough, so that they will take you seriously.

After talking for a long time, everyone won't care about you.

On the Tianya forum to complain and post!

Be strong, even if you will get hurt, you will continue to be bullied, and you have to make them afraid of you.

Often bullied, because you are too kind, you can't even resist, the only way out is to make yourself strong, to be brave, to make more friends, but not to be rash, brave is not reckless, the best way now is not to practice martial arts, but to quickly find a good job, improve your status financially, those people will turn around and slap you, instead of bullying, after all, it is a money society.

Me too, brother. Can you communicate that I was bullied every day when I was in college.

Odd? The turtle that has stayed in the ocean is the master, who dares to underestimate you?? There are a lot of people who have killed people in every city, and they deserve to die with a reprieve!! Kill them without guilt!

You have low self-esteem in your heart, first build up self-confidence, and say to yourself, why do I have to be bullied, I have the hands and feet of others, why do you bully me.

Cowardly people think about why they are bullied and don't want to be bullied not about how not to be bullied.

Don't punch you, you give back ten punches.

This is to hone your perseverance, others see your cowardice is hated by iron! Of course, it is not all to be divided into two, learn to seize the opportunity to retaliate with a tooth for a tooth, don't make a shot lightly, but make him powerless to fight back, and it will change his opinion of you in the future! Composure does not mean cowardice!

How can any parent bully their child, just be strict with you

Whoever is bullying you will slap him twice. Let's see if he dares to bully you in the future. If others are always bullied. You don't make a little representation. Others will definitely think that you are willing to be weak. So if you want not to be bullied, you have to be bigger and stronger.

You are asking for trouble, husband and wife can't do this, trust.

I wonder what you mean by bullying? Young people must have a good mentality, otherwise they will lose themselves, and then they will regret it!

Don't have a psychological burden Some people may be angry with a milder personality and a weaker appearance, one way is to learn to be deep and serious, not smiling, the most important thing is to work your own, when you have some achievements, you will naturally be respected.

Because you're too cowardly....Be mature! Let others not dare to bully you, simply say let yourself be a cow!

From the bottom of your heart, you feel that you are used to being bullied, you need to be strong, and your ability can be proven to them.

Listen to your tone, you should change yourself, let yourself have a new change, and make them value you again.

There's a way. The next time whoever bullies you, you beat him. After the reputation spreads, no one will dare to bully you. Guaranteed to work.

Speechless, why did your parents bully you.

Same experience as you! But I don't want you to be pessimistic, I like to live in a fantasy world to find my own happiness! As for reality, there is no desire or desire.

I've also encountered a similar situation, but I'm a girl, they don't beat me, but they hurt my self-esteem, probably because I don't look outstanding, my grades are not very good, after the exam they desperately asked me about my results, I used to be timid, after telling them to let them laugh, and then once, they asked me, I smiled very calmly and said, oh, the results, you must want to know, the total score is 236 points, listen to the satisfied, find comfort, it's okay, you are happy. Then I smiled very indifferently. No one laughed at me anymore, that's it, you follow them, I don't know if you understand that?

We can only control what we do and what we don't do, and we don't have the right to ask others what to do, so don't think about getting something in return when you want to give, it's your own business to pay, and it's someone else's business to return, and always believe that good people have good rewards.

Whoever dares to provoke you, go up and give him a punch, a real punch.

To put it bluntly, one word: you are cheap (sorry, not to scold you intentionally), and the reason why they want to say that you are bad must be because you have a relationship with them, and you are a person who cares about other people's evaluations. What does it have to do with you what they say, the key is your own style, as long as you correct yourself and build up self-confidence, no one will look down on you. Don't be afraid of not having friends, there is always someone who is suitable to be your confidant within a certain range, the most than those people, just live on face, there is no need to mingle with them!

We're the same, but I'm in the third year of junior high school, and now few people dare to touch me, not by fists, by prestige, I think about why every time I am bullied, and finally I find that if you are very temperamental, you will not be bullied, I don't know what temperament is at first, but I can straighten my back.

Give somebody a taste of his own medicine. But don't overdo it, just do it in moderation and make them look at you with admiration. Moreover, the heart of defense is indispensable, and the heart of harm is indispensable.

I used to be the same as you I was often bullied when I was a child, when I was in junior high school, someone slapped me, I didn't even dare to scold him, and later, I felt that I couldn't go on like this, so I fought with them Although I sometimes couldn't beat them, but after that, no one dared to bully me, I'll teach you a little Speak neither humbly nor arrogant This is the best way, if you find that someone has bullied you, even if you die and fight with them, remember, people are like this, follow the trend, today he bullied you, you don't speak, He'll be bullying you tomorrow, and everyone will be bullying you, so fists are the best way to go.

Indeed, I think maybe the problem is you, people say that character determines fate, I think you should be strong Maybe some of your usual practices are not too gregarious, and others will unconsciously exclude you

I think you have two paths to choose right now: one is for you to converge with them and be part of their life, and the other is to do your own thing, no matter what others say

You are so good that others are jealous of you, so you can only take their words as an evaluation.

Maybe you look back ten years from now, those villains bully me every day, what did they get? Nothing was gained.

The most important thing for you is to study hard and bite the bullet! Imagine that you are a maggot in the toilet, you have no face, and you dare to speak on stage on any occasion! Take every opportunity to speak on stage! I believe that after a year, you have a big change!

If you take a knife and fight with them, no one will dare to move, and whoever moves will cut whom, and see who is better than the ox, and if you don't accept it, you will cut him to death.