Other people s boyfriends, why do you think they are all other people s boyfriends?

People who are not content are often looking at the mountains and looking at the mountains, always picking on the shortcomings of their own boyfriends, not looking at the advantages, and at the same time envying the advantages of other people's boyfriends, not looking at the shortcomings of others. Always love to compare.

This is because I just see the advantages of other people's boyfriends, after all, I have little contact with them, so it is good to see him, and my boyfriend has been in contact for a long time and can appreciate his shortcomings.

Because other people's boyfriends will show their best in front of others, we only see their strengths, so we don't see their shortcomings.

Many people live in their hearts someone else's family, someone else's child, someone else's girlfriend, someone else's boyfriend, someone else's parents, and so on. We have been influenced by this atmosphere since we were children, and we always like to compare ourselves with others, and we always look at the mountain and look at the mountain.

Be kind, don't have a sense of comparison, we ask our boyfriends to be good without a boyfriend, so have we reached the same level as other people's girlfriends? Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you, and everyone must understand this truth. Everyone should be kind, since two people met and became boyfriend and girlfriend, it means that two people have a fate, don't let this fate go down the drain, cherish fate, and get along well.

Don't be a comparison, two people get along well together, as long as your boyfriend is positive, that's fine, why compare with someone else's boyfriend? There are some things you can't compare, because we are very ordinary ourselves, so what right do we have to demand that our boyfriend is better than others?

Live the life of two people, the relationship between two people is vanity, I am a girl, I was also young, I understand the mood of girls when they are young. Girls are high-spirited, always thinking about what to compare with others, their boyfriends are not as good as others, why don't you seek to be motivated like this, why are you not as good as Xiaoyu's boyfriend, etc. In fact, this makes the other party very sad, the other party is very aggrieved, I used to be like this, why didn't you realize it before?

So don't force your boyfriend, too much pressure on your boyfriend will affect your relationship, no matter how honest he loves you, he will also feel wronged, once there is a grievance, it will affect the relationship between two people. We are very good, my boyfriend is very positive and motivated, this is fine, live a good life for two people, support each other, encourage each other, and your relationship will be happier than anyone else.

Happiness is in our own hands, and as long as we have faith and hope, we will get better and better. What we want in life is entirely up to us, we are positive, we are active, happiness will stay by our side, boyfriends will be more and more motivated, and our love will be sweeter and sweeter.

In our lives, when many girls are in love, they don't find some of the advantages of their boyfriends, so when he sees other people's boyfriends, he will feel that other people's boyfriends are more careful and thoughtful than his own boyfriends. So why did this idea come about? Today, I will give you a brief talk, why do I think other people's boyfriends are better than my own?

In that person's opinion, it may be because he did not find many advantages of his boyfriend, because in the process of getting along with her for a long time, we will gradually ignore his advantages, and its shortcomings will make us more impressed, so that when we see other people's boyfriends, we feel that our boyfriends are not as good as other people's boyfriends, so this will lead to many women will like to use the phrase "other people's boyfriends" to educate their boyfriends. And when boys hear this, they will be very uncomfortable in their hearts, so the conflict between you will deepen, and you will have such thoughts, but in fact, this is not the case, when you see other people's boyfriends again, it is just because you only look good on the side, and do not see the side that he is sure of.

And before you fell in love with your boyfriend, you only saw his strengths, and didn't find his shortcomings, otherwise how could you be with him? You now think that he is not so good, because you have gradually discovered a lot of his shortcomings in your long-term life with her, and gradually you will forget many of his advantages, therefore, in my personal opinion, we still have to observe our boyfriend through various things in life, so that we can dispel such an idea, we will find that our boyfriend still has a lot of places to take care of himself, or a lot of places to care about himself, only we carefully find in life, so that we don't feel that other people's boyfriends are better than our own.

The above content only represents my personal opinion, if there is any error, please understand.

Because we only see the advantages of other people's boyfriends, we don't see their shortcomings, and we spend a long time with our own boyfriends and ignore the advantages of our boyfriends.

This is because other people's boyfriends are very happy with other people's girlfriends, and such boyfriends can be very considerate and can take care of their girlfriends very much, so they make others feel very envious.

Because we only see the glamorous side of other people's boyfriends, and we don't see the way other people's boyfriends live in private, we only see the good side of each other every time, and we don't go deep into each other's lives.

Mainly because the phenomenon we see is the good side of others, so we always feel that other people's boyfriends are particularly good.

Sometimes, I don't know if you feel this way again, that is, your girlfriend always compares herself to other people's boyfriends.

It's like parents at home who always compare themselves to other people's children.

This way of comparing each other can sometimes be disgusting, even disgusting, or wanting to escape from such a life.

Some girls think that other people's boyfriends are always better than their own boyfriends, no one is delicious when cooking, no one will make me happy when chatting, and no one is steady ...... doing things

It feels like labeling someone's boyfriend as "gold" and labeling his boyfriend as "scrap metal".

What I want to say is: there are no two perfect people in the world, everyone has shortcomings, and love is tolerance

If you think that someone else's boyfriend is better than your own boyfriend, it is because you have not been with him and don't know if he has shortcomings, all you can stand is to see one-sided, and your boyfriend is completely exposed to your own sight.

Love is a matter of two people, not one life.

Live your own happiness well, there is harm if you compare, and it is true to cherish the talents around you.

When you grow up, you may feel sorry for your friend's words. Now, you may be sad because of your boyfriend's attitude because it will slowly change over time. Do you think he doesn't respect your love and values your feelings?

To be honest, I feel the same way, because I hate it to hear you say what he did. I hate not being able to change him with magic. Be nice to you.

Don't be so close to your sister that you ignore you. Unfortunately, I won't. But for him, maybe nothing, maybe it's convention.

His idea is that you're just a woman who has never been out of the house. Now you're not even a relative anymore. Everyone around you is more important than you.

If I hadn't been 31 years old, I wouldn't have been in a hurry to marry you. Maybe he thinks so, once a man is over 30 years old, this kind of love will fade away. I talk to my dad a lot, so I can understand that.

When it comes to treating family and relatives, men at this age tend to be more remorseful than women. If he got married early, he might love his wife very much at this age, but unfortunately he is an older unmarried person, and with him, you are destined to be wronged. I could see that he wasn't a bad guy.

You just don't like the way he looks like his sister is better than you and plays cards more important than you. But that's who he is. Can't change, can it?

So since it's your problem, you can only change yourself. Here are two options, choose for yourself. You should give him up because your age is not suitable, what kind of romantic and sweet love do you need, like to have a man's arms and spoil him, but don't you think he basically can't give it to you?

Truth be told, after getting married, you just repeat this life.

His sister is still more important than you. Here, I want to say that I don't doubt that he has a tendency to fall in love, but this practice is definitely a love practice, so I think it's very wrong, let alone you, such a big person, it's definitely not good to do this, and I also feel angry! So, I personally think it's still possible for you to leave now.

In fact, there are a lot of good people. You shouldn't care if they're introduced by relatives or not. Remember, loved ones will slowly leave you, but lovers will live for a lifetime!

You will deal with him, Tachibana is accommodating to him, living with him, accepting him. Until the day you get married. Then you slowly guide him to respect your feelings, and you slowly get used to his unromanticism and some inappropriate annoying stuff.

For the word "boyfriend of other people's family", first of all, he is very considerate, not rude and gentle, and very warm man, he understands the thoughts of girls very well, and he has a career and is rich, and he is very handsome. Anti-Ling Town is particularly perfect.

I don't understand a lot, but most people think that other people's boyfriends are better, and they often compare them with their own boyfriends.

I think if it's someone else's boyfriend, you should keep your distance from this man, don't have any intimate contact, just be an ordinary friend.

Then you should feel very happy, whether it's a boyfriend or a girlfriend, most of what you show when you're in love are advantages, even if there are shortcomings and mistakes, you can tolerate it! Even, he or she will like his or her shortcomings and mistakes! Therefore, love is selfish, and love is only sweet and happy!

After dating for a long time and living together for a long time, the flame of love gradually faded and became a family affection in real life! When men and women look at each other, they are no longer ecstatic and in love! Busy with family chores, pots and pans!

Seeing each other is no longer ...... it used to beAesthetic fatigue prompts freshness to retreat, and patience is frequent! If there is less communication and understanding, and there is no tolerance, his or her own is not as good as others!

I have been with my boyfriend for a long time, and his advantages will be faintly forgotten, but he has found his man's shortcomings. You see the advantages of other men outside, listen to the admiration of some outsiders, and you are moved to only see the things of other people's men and ignore the advantages of your own man, and treat you with only sincere love. It led to a quarrel with a man who was dissatisfied with you.

You mistakenly realize that your man is considerate and concerned about you, without the heart of a considerate man, quarreling will make the man have a change in you to have your understanding today, and your ideal in his mind will also make the man disappear faintly, think about it, girlfriend, or return to your man's side, love together. You used to be so cute and gentle, and you have flowed away like water in your boyfriend's heart.

Your boyfriend is a glamorous sight in the eyes of other women. Learn to cherish the happiness of the divination shirts around you and appreciate what you have. When I like a man, I don't want to appreciate how good other men are, and it is as difficult to accept a man's love as it is to give up a man.

The man you love, don't compare with others, in fact, no matter whether you are handsome or rich, as long as it suits you, it is the best. It turns out that every woman can find "a boyfriend in the eyes of others".

It's a very beautiful experience, you feel like you're living in love, and you're very happy, and you're going to feel pampered.

It is a very happy experience, which will be envied by many people, and it is also very handsome, and it is very good to yourself.

You will feel very proud, you will be very happy, and you will cherish your boyfriend and feel that you are the happiest woman in the world.