Can you help me analyze my thinking? 20

Since you can't change your mother's decision, you need to fundamentally change yourself. After encountering so many problems, I believe that you are very tired physically and mentally, so how to deal with the next problems reasonably is what you need to solve now.

Personally, I think you need a time to stop and think, many problems you can solve in a scientific and efficient way, don't let yourself be too tired, as the pillar of the family, facing difficulties and solving difficulties is the right way to let life continue.

Everyone has their own beliefs, which is true, but over-reliance on the gods will only backfire, you should work hard, opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared, for the Buddha God, do not believe in it and do not disrespect it.

You talk to your mother straight to the point, you don't care about what she should be in charge of, just be ruthless. Or maybe you're hooked on other Taoism and you're even crazier than her. You tell her that Jesus can't give her a good life, but she can, not to say that she doesn't believe in Jesus, but just to be sensible.

Your mother is already obsessed with faith This is not a good phenomenon It's all the trouble caused by nothing to do From now on, you should ignore her Everything is cut off All the economy ** is cut off Even if you don't have to eat, are you still in the mood to believe?

Find relatives to persuade her, how to get it like this. If you're an adult, it's best to handle your own affairs, and the elderly seem to be indifferent.

If your mother is superstitious that these activities are illegal, then you can secretly notify the police to question and educate her. If there is no illegal behavior, then you can talk to her solemnly, you can live separately, give her a time to reflect, and control her finances.

Faith is free, as long as it doesn't involve something that shouldn't be involved, such as emmm, it's fine.

It seems that he is a little crazy, and he needs to see a heart doctor, and Xinya is everyone's potential, but if it is said that it is the most basic recently.

Dwelling on the past, fearing failure, worrying about the future.

Then you don't care! I'm tired and tired all day long

There is a saying that "practice makes true knowledge", and if you don't do it, you will never know whether your ideas are right or wrong.

The question is, what is right and wrong?

Things in this world are too complicated, and the same idea can be successful if others do it, but you may not succeed if you do it. Therefore, the first thing we should pay attention to is the direction, to determine whether there is a problem in our general direction, as the so-called "seek the situation, do not blame others" to seek the situation is the problem.

What happens after the strategy is decided?

After the strategy is determined, it is a matter of tactics, and there are countless tactics for how to build a stronghold. The key question is what's best for you? "Only by knowing oneself and knowing one's opponent can one not be defeated in a hundred battles".

How do I check for errors? Even if we are in the right direction, will we win every battle if our tactics are right? It's not that easy, we are dealing with a dynamic world that changes every moment.

What was right yesterday may not work today. So the most popular way now is to quickly check the error, with the least cost and the fastest time to verify whether your idea works? Whether it is necessary to change the strategy or the tactics.

Let's take setting up a stall as an example: I think it's very good, I buy a bunch of toys and gamble on my family, but what if you can't sell them? The tactical problem is easy to deal with, you chose the wrong position, or the wrong time of the crowd.

But once you find out that you are not suitable for setting up a stall at all, it is a strategic mistake and then a tragedy.

The core concept of Chinese philosophy is the "unity of knowledge and action". That's the only way to tell if you're right.

I think you need to judge from an objective point of view, so that you can be more rational and there will be no subjective factors, so as to get a more correct conclusion.

Listen to other people's ideas, and then compare them with your own ideas, and make accurate judgments, you can judge whether your own thinking is right or not.

Accept and reflect on the opinions of others on the basis of insisting on independent thinking. If you just let yourself judge, it is difficult to be objective. We need to refer to the advice of others and reflect on the results of practice.

Are you all right? What criteria is it based on? Listen to Lao Zhang tell you.

Maybe it's the legendary ghost