There was a girl in our dorm who ignored me

Updated on psychology 2024-04-19
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Then pass a note and see her expression! Is it impatience, disgust, or a closer look?

    If it's easy to do if you're impatient, you can ask the people around her.

    But if it's disgust, there are several cases:

    1, the people around her said bad things about you (personally think it is very likely) 2, she originally thought you were good, but suddenly began to think of your shortcomings.

    3. She has a strange temper and encounters an angry thing and vents it on you.

    If so, I think it's important to be interviewed in person!

    Finally, if you look closely, then you don't have to worry at all, she is still very optimistic about you in her heart!

    And also. Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Ask her out to talk to her and tell her all the things If you both feel that these problems can't be solved, then give each other a little space, and letting her go is equivalent to giving you relief!

    Friends, not absolutely! The next friend may be your lifelong confidant!

    I've been there, and I hope you can get through it!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That kind of person you don't care about her, that kind of person you just give her a good face, why do you accommodate her every time, if she is your friend, why does he not estimate your feelings so much, anyone can live without anyone, that kind of person may ignore him, he will take the initiative to come, don't have to give his feelings easily, many people don't deserve your feelings.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If it's your vinegar. Take the initiative to apologize in person and see if she can accept it. If you can't accept it, then hang it, I don't like the little ghost, then you are tired of talking together, so don't pay attention to her, you can handle it for a while, and you can get water for him every day. Go with the flow.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Think carefully about who did wrong between you, if it's your fault, change it, if it's really not your problem, then you can ask a classmate to help you ask, why did she ignore you, and after knowing the reason, it will be solved.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Should talk to her.

    Because you don't know, why didn't she ignore it.

    Whether you are wrong or not, I believe you are not very clear.

    Talk to her, get things straight, and find out whose fault it is.

    Or maybe you hurt her if you weren't paying attention.

    Don't just lose a good friend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you're tired, don't pay attention to her, if you can take care of it for a while, can you take care of it for a lifetime?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It may be that you are careless and offend others and don't know, you should take the initiative to understand the reason why he ignores you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There's a very simple way to do it – be courteous

    It can be a snack (the whole dormitory has it, it can be just a bag of potato chips for everyone to eat together, or you can please eat), etc., if you want to know more ways, you can ask me to leave a message, I don't mind.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you think she is very important, you can continue to work hard, or give her a **, and come out in person.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The whole dormitory goes out together, everyone chats more in the dormitory, and it is not necessarily good for two people to talk alone when they are disgusted with you, if the surroundings are good, then the natural relationship is not much worse.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you have a clear conscience. Find a chance to ask, if she really ignores you, why do you force it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then you fetch him water to drink every day.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Ask your roommate why!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then you can talk about it together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. Hello dear. All the girls ignore you, and it sounds really sad to be in a dorm room.

    But it doesn't matter. Calm down and think about it. What happened?

    Let's talk about it together. What's going on, okay? What do you think about the turning point from what happened?

    Hello dear. All the girls ignore you, Songtong and it does sound very sad to be in a dormitory where Ichino Fierce Tan. But it doesn't matter.

    Calm down and think about it. What happened? Let's talk about it.

    What's going on, okay? What do you think about the turning point from what happened?

    Uh-huh. But there is no way to reconcile.

    Originally, we were not in the same dormitory, but then they said that we would be fine if we moved over, and after a long time of moving in, they were hot and cold to me and isolated me.

    yes, so now let's think about it, and let's take a look. Look at what's going on, what is the reason for them to um, no longer pay attention to you.

    And we are a dormitory.

    They called me selfish and grumpy.

    Why do they say you have such a personality trait? Is something going on?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After all, in a dormitory, it is embarrassing not to look up and see anyone who looks down.

    I guess she misunderstood you, you can send her a text message, ask her what is going on, tell her that you cherish your friendship with her, so you want to talk to her.

    If she still has this heart, it would be best for everyone to clear up the misunderstanding.

    If she doesn't pay attention, then you have a clear conscience.

    Good luck!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Since you are for her good, just wait, you can also find an appropriate time to complete your kindness, if you still can't get her forgiveness, it's nothing......Just treat the friends you want to treat, give her some freedom and give yourself some space, I wish you happiness!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There may be some misunderstanding between you, if you want to know the reason, you should talk to her, don't think about it yourself, then it will not be easy to solve it after a long time. I hope you're getting better.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There should be some misunderstanding, she may have heard something else from other people's mouths, you better find out who she has been with lately, and then you should have the answer in your own heart!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Maybe she needs to be quiet for a few days, you were too close before, and it will be better after a few days apart.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Maybe it's something that causes a prejudice against you, but think about whether anything has happened recently that has made your relationship like this. It is recommended to find an opportunity to communicate well and make it clear.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Since he is like this to you, maybe you are talking and doing things, and you are not paying attention. However, he has misunderstood and misunderstood you, and you don't need to dwell too much on this issue. If you have the chance, you can follow.

    He communicated. Wouldn't your conflict be resolved?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You can ask around to see why.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I've been in this situation before, and it's not quite the same as yours, but it's similar.

    You must adjust your false mentality, think about it from another angle, maybe it's not because you ignore him, he won't ignore you, maybe it's just the feeling in your heart.

    I advise you not to treat her like this, if you retaliate, not only will the interpersonal relationship in the dormitory be indifferent, but if it develops later, your relationship will be very awkward, which is not conducive to your study and life, which will become a problem for you; I think you have to be more enthusiastic, and slowly, he will think you're good. Don't think like that - why should I treat her well, she doesn't even have a smile, he's old. Let go of this thought, because it is not good for you, and handling interpersonal relationships well is also an important part of your success in life and work.

    There will definitely be unaccustomed and friction in communicating with people, because he is not you, and you are not him, so you still have to understand each other. For example, me, I used to be in harmony with a person in the dormitory, and there was friction during school, but when I graduated, I was relieved of my previous suspicions, and it was nothing. That's how it is between people.

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