Urgent Help !! Pursued by a man 13 years older explicitly rejected and still not giving up

This kind of problem, the long pain is better than the short pain, thank him for helping you, don't want to tear your face, this is in itself a hurt to the other party, let the other party feel that there is a chance, the longer the time, the greater the damage, and it is not good for yourself, since you will not agree to die, don't delay it any longer.

Suggestions: 1. Directly tell that kindness is kindness, love is love, the two cannot be confused, don't contact again, so it is good for both parties;

2. Find a good buddy to act as a temporary boyfriend to discourage the help of friends and colleagues;

3. Pay attention to self-protection, don't be hurt by love and hate.

He's much more mature than you, and you're afraid he'll be hurt?

He has a relatively high psychological quality, in other words, he is more thick-skinned, his heart is more firm, and he will not withdraw his troops if he does not give some fierce medicine.

Directly with him You are so old and married I don't like it sisters, and my family won't treat you Stay where you can stay.

At this time, you must be decisive and ruthless, but you must be polite, respect him, and don't hurt the self-esteem of others. Find a suitable time for him to make it clear and don't leave sequelae.

Just keep in touch with him as a friend, don't always ask for him, but you have to explain that you can't be with him.

Don't pretend, then he will think that you have a crush on him, the world is so big, it's easy to get rid of him.

It's really interesting, it's not the evil old society, don't you agree that he can still come to the door to rob his relatives? Or the overlord hard bow? Just ignore him. What else does he dare to do to you? Forcibly carried home? Just be careful not to be alone with him

Take a man and treat him to a meal and make it clear.

You simply throw this question to him: I don't want to see you again, and I don't want to tear my face, what do you say?

Young and frivolous, but who knows if they are born on the spur of the moment. Today's boys are very attentive, but this can't be blamed on them, plastic surgery technology is becoming more and more developed, and there are countless beauties, who doesn't know how to look dazzling? Temporary love does not mean eternity, as a girl, I think it is not easy to agree, because the easier it is to agree, the higher the probability that others will dump you, this is proportional, you have to believe:

What you can't get is the best.

Since you don't agree, stick to your point of view, call the two of them together, and tell them that neither of you will agree, 17 years old, there is still a lot to do

Well, it's my age, you can ignore him, and it won't be long before you give up, and of course you don't have to pay attention to him when he says hello to you.

Go directly to a relative to help, and say that this relative of yours is your boyfriend; They're not going to be stalking.

It shows that you are attractive and charming.

"You say: buy a house, a car, write my name. The two animals immediately dispersed. I'll give it a thumbs up!

Resolutely refuse, good studies are more important than anything else, don't let them hurt you, wait until the university is talking.

You can't help it, right?

Don't give up? Don't say a few years, in a few months, you will see if you give up. Time is a pig-killing knife, so study hard. The days of love are in the future.

It's still early, you're talking about it now, and you'll break up later.

Tell him I like to be single all the time.

Tell them you have a husband, and then they won't bother you.

"You say: buy a house, a car, write my name. The two animals immediately dispersed.

Tell them that you like an uncle and are not interested in ...... kids

Decisively refused, no money, no house, no car, should not talk about friends,

They all take them, eat them and drink them, but they don't talk about their feelings.

It's okay to make it clear, be yourself, and don't think about it so much.

Tell them that you are gay or that you are giving your hand for the first time.

How old are you? Let's just say that you don't accept minors.

You said I liked the number one place in our class!

Hold on. Maybe she's testing you.

Leave it to fate, brother!

Go with the flow, don't change your mind because of others, do what you want to do, Guys with personality are attractive!

Take a look at the Korean drama "The Legendary Seven Princesses" and take a look at the little follower Lian Xiannan in it, and you will know what to do!

After the girl you like refuses, what should you do if you continue to chase?

Girls don't fall into a relationship so early, your sanity should be affirmed and praised!! If I said that you are a student now, you will definitely think that I am an old-fashioned statement, but I tell you as a big sister who has come over that his feelings for you now must be sincere and enthusiastic, but he is still very young and incapable of being responsible for his feelings, and you are all too immature. There are many ways to go to school in the future, and you will definitely have a lot of changes because of the changes in your values and outlook on life, so you would rather refuse decisively now than regret not accepting it after hurting each other in the future.

Don't be too sensitive to him, girls are especially easy to be distracted by being pursued, resulting in a decline in academics, which is not expected to be seen by boys who pursue you, so, don't be too excited and sensitive to his existence, refuse, simple and sure refusal, always maintain equidistance, openness, and maintain a good relationship with ordinary classmates, as long as he is an honest and excellent boy, he should understand your actions, and when you grow up in the future, you will look back on yourself and feel glad for each other's practices. If there is really fate, there may be a continuation of the previous edge, if there is no fate, then I don't regret today's refusal!!

Netizens are very enthusiastic, hehe......There is some truth to that.

1. Tell him that you have a good impression of him.

2. Tell him that you think a good boy will be good for the girl he likes.

3. Ask him, do you think you are a good boy?

4. Tell him that if you think you are a good boy, then you should understand that falling in love now can only delay each other. That's to hurt you, since it hurt you, is he still a good boy?

If it's not a good boy, is it still worth liking? Not a good boy, do you dare to say yes?

5. Tell him that if he really likes you, then ask him to come back when you are in your junior year, and you will definitely consider it seriously. And hopefully he'll be in his junior year by then.

6. Tell him that he's glad he likes himself. You are also willing to be friends with him, but if he affects your studies like this again, you can only transfer schools, friends should care about each other and help each other, now is the critical period of high school, what he should do is to help you study hard and strive to be admitted to the ideal high school, instead of talking about boyfriend and girlfriend. In this way, you can only be disappointed in him.

You don't know how to do what you should do, but you don't care so much about what you shouldn't, and if you continue like this, you are very disappointed.

7. Study hard, when you see him, smile and ask him how he is studying today?

Talk to him and tell him what you think. As long as it is sincere, the other party should be able to understand.

In fact, you can ignore it completely, just treat him as an ordinary classmate, he will give up after a long time, directly refusing will hurt his anger, and his ambiguity will hurt him, if he still doesn't give up after the high school entrance examination, you can consider giving him a chance, after all, how many boys in this era will try their best to chase girls they don't like for three or four months? If he persists, it means that he really likes you.

Everyone is afraid of the embarrassment after rejection.

Relax your mind.

Chasing you is his choice, and you can't interfere.

Be yourself and choose the right attitude.

I'm also a boy. If it were me, I wouldn't give up, because liking someone is my own business, and no one can stop it.

You tell him that you can play it, you can get to the top few in the grade, many people will know the difficulty and retreat, if he really does it, then play it, this kind of love is too great.

Be an ordinary friend, it's also a good thing that someone likes you, don't agree to his request if you don't like him, accept his gifts, treat each other politely, be an ordinary friend, try not to stay alone with him, let him slowly understand that you don't like him.

Don't worry so much, just go with the flow, you are still classmates or friends in addition to this relationship, don't feel embarrassed, time will give you the answer!

Girls are soft-hearted, don't be soft-hearted, if you must not like him, then use a strong warning, just say that I have a boyfriend.

You just said, my dad has an explanation, and the boyfriend I made didn't have a BMW to talk about, so he retreated.

Good women are afraid of male grinding, so they refuse to be ruthless, or they should clearly start with friends.

Just pretend to read the newspaper and ignore it.

If you don't show resoluteness, he will still chase after him in the future.

If you are resolute, you will be embarrassed. No matter what you say, these two possibilities are based on experience.

You have to tell him where you stand, and you have to go to high school and focus on your studies. Try to have as little contact with him as possible, so that he feels bored with himself. I also have a lot of boys chasing in junior high school, and there are times when I am very annoyed, the important thing is to calm my heart, believe you, come on!

I'm also in the third year of junior high school, and I'm in the same situation as you, I rejected him, and then deliberately avoided him, I think after a while, he will figure it out himself. Or you can try to be an ordinary friend with him, don't affect your studies!

Find a boyfriend who you really like, if you have a boyfriend, as long as the man is not too cheap, he will retreat.

Tell him that you are now in a critical period of study, and you must not relax and study hard.

This is lucky, so why worry.

Concentrate on your studies, don't think so much!

Reject it outright! Have a good talk with him, but your stance must be firm. It seems very cruel like this, but it's better than deceiving him, because you yourself know that you won't accept him, so why hesitate?

Maybe if you treat him a little better, he will feel that there will be hope, and you will accept the decision that you don't have a clear attitude, which is simply a kind of torture for people, making him feel better for a long time than a short pain.

It's not that I'm cruel, it's an unacceptable fact, just feel frank.

First of all, don't panic in the face of his pursuit, you have to be calm, don't look at him indifferently, of course, don't act disgusted with him, let him know that even if you reject him, it's not because you hate him, let him know that you are really not suitable! Secondly, you have to change the guest as the main thing, that is, turn the passive into the active, don't refuse him when he is looking for you, you might as well take the initiative to find him to talk about things between you, ask him out to have a meal together, of course, you have a treat, you must not let him invite you, otherwise it will be ineffective. Without words, let him not be able to raise his head in front of you, and without losing your identity!

To be honest, you are a little happy for you when you meet such a person, that is, someone likes you and chases you, and a little worry about you, that is, such a persistent person, especially the kind of person who has no brains, is easy to disturb your life, of course, I don't know if he is that kind of person.

If he knows your mobile phone number or your ** number, if you know that he called, you don't answer or hang up directly, in fact, the best way to refuse is to reject him in person, no one way to refuse will be a little better for the rejected person, you better understand, so no matter which way you refuse, he will feel pain, so you had better reject him directly in person, so the most direct and effective way to refuse.

Refuse directly, ignore him, don't contact, don't reply if you don't answer the text message, and after half a year, see if he can really insist on not giving up or make you happy.

Can this method be used at all? I also want to use, kind brother and sister q36364943 tell me, thank you.

Oh, it's over, I'm so sad for you. It's all on the table! This kind of thing, there is no way, what do you say? He's obvious. Obvious. Hey, I don't know much until the book is used

He actually said that he asked you to try it, which means that he is really hard-hearted, but well, in my opinion, you just let him try it for you, see what he can do with you, besides, this is not your fault, right, even if he makes a mess of the school, what can he do, when the time comes, others will not talk about you, only him, this person, people obviously don't like you, and you are still pestering others. Wait a minute. Anyway, your problem is not very easy to solve, it's not that we can just talk about it, we can only say that you have to be careful in the future, take care of it!

In fact, you can give him a chance, (when it is also a chance to yourself,) try to get along with him, maybe you can fall in love for a long time, and maybe you will eventually become a family! If there is really no way to accept it, it will be difficult everywhere in the process of getting along, so that he will retreat from the difficulties.

Raise the bar for him.

If you want something, but don't mention money-related, but also prevent him from coming hard, pay more attention to safety.

If he has a good character, family, or knowledge, change your opinion.

If there is a very valid reason, I support you in rejecting him...Ignore him; If not....Then please give him a chance...After all, there are not many such boys, and they should be cherished.