Why is it difficult to reconcile once a friendship is cracked?

Because of the estrangement in my heart, even if I am reconciled, when you see this friend, you will still recall that painful memory, and naturally it will not be as good to her as before. Gradually, the relationship between the two faded.

I think this is very normal, if it is a small friction and a small contradiction, it is fine, but once a big contradiction occurs, it is actually difficult to reconcile. Reconciliation is only superficial, in fact, the heart has eliminated this friend from the circle of friends, and that's what I did.

I am a very sincere person who treats my friends, if she does not accept my affection, does not take my good seriously, or has a violent conflict with me, then I will not hesitate to withdraw my feelings and no longer be good to her.

We used to have a good relationship in our high school dorm, I was very nice to my roommates, we hardly had any arguments between us, and I considered them like best friends. But I didn't expect a girl to secretly send an ambiguous text message to my boyfriend, and also said bad things about me in the text message, after I knew, I had a big fight with this girl, and the relationship in the dormitory was very tense ever since. But I don't regret it, because in my heart she is no longer my friend.

Because two people with a particularly deep friendship must be very tacit friends together, they are almost together every day, so their feelings are relatively deep.

But if there is a crack in the relationship between them, then there will be some small gap between the two of them. If they reconcile again, then this estrangement will become their pain.

I think if two people get together again, if they think of this estrangement, they will definitely be uncomfortable, so the relationship is not as good as before, because if there is a gap, it will definitely be different from the previous solid relationship. <>

That's why so many good friends fall apart because of a trivial matter. There are people who don't get along with each other, so we have to maintain the relationship with good friends, even if there are some small contradictions, just say it right away, even if it is to have a heart-to-heart relationship with each other.

There is no need to make conflicts with each other to the extent that they are inseparable. Because I don't think it's really necessary for good friends.

Because of the estrangement and suspicion between each other, the two people no longer have something to say as before, and they are willing to share everything with each other. After there is a conflict, when you chat, each other will begin to pay attention to what can be said and what is no longer convenient to say, without the intimacy of the past, a wall will be built in each other's hearts.

The broken mirror may be reunited, but it is no longer the perfect circle of the past, there are cracks one after another, just like the relationship between people, even if it will be reunited, it is difficult to reconcile to the previous relationship. Both parties may not want to touch the scene again, and they don't want to uncover this scar again, so they choose to avoid talking about it.

It's hard to run a broken friendship like before, so let each other go. Friendship allows two people to go from familiar to strange, from nothing to nothing to talk about, and choose not to reconcile, probably thinking that this is the best result of this friendship, because it retains its best memories in each other's hearts.

I don't think it's just that once the friendship cracks, it's hard to reconcile, right? Even if there is no way to love, no matter how good it is, only family affection is an exception, because family affection comes from blood relations, and there is no way to get rid of it, so family affection is different.

So let's talk about the reason for the breakdown of friendship, the beginning of a friendship, it must be through, the two people ran in at the beginning, felt that the three views were the same, and then the itinerary was quite appropriate, so they would help each other together every day, so the friendship between the two people gradually happened.

After a long time of getting along, some people find more and more that the three views of the two people are not quite compatible, so they begin to gradually move away from each other, since it is not suitable, there is no need to be friends.

Or because of one thing, if this matter is very small, in fact, the contradiction between the two of you is nothing, but if there is a real contradiction, it is an unsolvable thing.

Even if it is solved, there is no way to go back to the past, after all, friendship and family are not the same, if you want to give up, you can give up at any time.

Since there was a crack at the beginning, it means that the two sides themselves are not suitable for the three views, so if you talk about reconciliation, it only seems that you can get along, but in fact you can't get along.

If there is a crack, break up, what's the big deal, it's different from her.

Because I saw it, the real side that I didn't want to see the most!

If it's cracked, it can't be sewn, so look at it.

In reality, there is no such thing as ice release, it is over, and it is not true to pretend to be there.

Friendship is like knitting a sweater, knitting with a stitch and a thread, but not just a pull.

Once there is a crack in the friendship between two people, it is difficult to reconcile, and even if it can be reconciled, it cannot be the same as the original relationship, so friendship needs to be managed carefully.

Once there is a rift, even if it is reconciled, it is impossible to be the same as before, and there is no way to return to the original state in the process, after all, there is a certain gap between each other.

It is impossible to reconcile, if there is a rift, it is also a kind of estrangement for the two people, and even if they are reconciled, it is impossible for the two people to be the same as before.

Tolerance and understanding are the best solutions. When there is a "crack" in our feelings and friendships, anger can only widen the "crack", and tolerance and understanding are the best solutions. Those who dare to take the lead in extending the hand of friendship are worthy of admiration.

True friendship is mutual appreciation, and it is the perspective of looking up; Because I admire a person, because I appreciate a person from the bottom of my heart, I take the initiative to get closer, I feel that I need love and patience for attention, and I hope that I can sincerely help, instead of moving crooked thoughts.

Tolerance and understanding are the best solutions. When there is a "crack" in our feelings and friendships, anger can only widen the "crack", and tolerance and understanding are the best solutions. Those who dare to take the lead in extending the hand of friendship are worthy of admiration.

True friendship is mutual appreciation, and it is the angle of looking up; Because I admire a person, because I appreciate a person from my own empty heart, I take the initiative to approach, I feel that I need love and attention, and I hope that I can sincerely help, instead of moving crooked thoughts.

1.Let's first understand what a friend is. A friend is the person you want to see the most when you're sad.

It's bothering, needless to say, to people who don't have branches. It's a person who has been exalted and doesn't need to change his name. It is the end of the earth, and the people who miss each other.

The fate is providential, and the share is man-made. Friends are the greetings and concerns of the world;

2.The Xiangweiling faction has a desire to resolve this rift, which cannot be resolved unilaterally;

3.Analysis and resolution of the causes of cracks; Understand what a friend is, and if both parties are willing to resolve it, then start to analyze the reasons for the rift, list their own problems, analyze and solve them one by one, and be calm with each other, as long as you do this, I think all problems can be solved.

True friends will not abandon friendship due to the change of years, but should be more understanding and tolerance, sincerity and watchfulness as the spirit; Therefore, true friends can heal the rift that has arisen before through communication.

The relationship is actually very fragile, because once there is a rift between you, there will always be a hurdle in your heart, and there is no way to step out of it. Even if they are barely together now, they will still break up in the end. The broken mirror can be reunited, but there is no way to restore it to its original appearance.

Because the moment you do something sorry for your friend, you don't treat the other person as a friend.

Because the brother's relationship is very pure, if there is a rift in the problem of money and emotional problems, it is difficult to reunite, and the brotherly relationship has a bottom, and it will be difficult to heal if the bottom limit is destroyed.

Because each other is male, they are both stronger and stronger, so there is a rift in the relationship between each other, and they are unwilling to compromise with each other, thinking why should I bow my head, so gradually, it is difficult for the relationship to get back together.

Because men don't care about small fights, the friendship between boys is different from that between women. Once there is a crack between two people, it proves that the matter is very serious, so it is difficult to get back together.

I think the most important reason is that I care too much, because the relationship between two people is very good, so they care about each other's behavior and practices.

Because the relationship between the brothers is very deep, they have always believed in each other, and suddenly one day there was a rift and it was difficult to accept.