How to be proactive, how to make yourself more proactive

Take the initiative to confess to her, you don't say how she knows you like her, you always guess and guess, maybe you miss it, it's better to tell her straightforwardly on QQ, you can date, no, you don't have to bother anymore, you can be an ordinary friend. This way, everyone is at ease, and you can rest easy.

What's not to say, it's that you can't let go, if you like someone, just say it boldly (I don't know your current age, if you're still a boy, I suggest you don't say it) What girls need is a man, you have to be clear about whether you are suitable or not.

If you're sure, I'll give you a little advice.

1" You said you don't have a topic, right, that is, you don't know how to find a topic, I like a person, and we are not the same kind, but I still talked about hobbies, and now we are good friends who talk about everything (because I know we can't do it, so I don't go any further).

2》 You have to be able to capture some of her details yourself and take care of her with your heart I believe that all girls want to be cared for by others.

3》 It is quite important to take the initiative You must dare to make an appointment.

4》" I want to invite you to dinner, you have time horse, I'll wait for you to come back".

You need to get rid of the people you rely on and have a minimum of self-confidence so that you can be more proactive.

When taking away from the people you are relying on from your heart. You will suddenly find that only you can help yourself, and all problems need to be faced and solved by you. Therefore, when a person has no way out and no strong backing support, he can bravely and proactively face all challenges.

Therefore, when you encounter something, you must constantly warn yourself that no one will always help you, and one day you will need to solve your own problems.

Everyone has their own value of existence, don't feel that you are inferior to others, maybe the gap between you and others lies in that little courage. In the same way, the reason why someone else can do it well and you can't do it is that you don't have the courage to reach out to him in the first place. When you really take the first step, you will find that things are not as difficult as you think.

A person will take the initiative, must have his own ideas, do things with his own ideas and rules, so the initiative must be an assertive person.

People who take the initiative gain more, initiative means that there are goals and plans before the action, everything is done according to their own arrangements, it is not easy to mess up the rules, the general result will not be too bad, even if the result is not satisfactory, it will also gain lessons through reflection, and have a positive impact on future actions.

People who take the initiative are more likely to get opportunities, and in daily life, people like to be proactive, such people will do things well without being urged and supervised by others, and will actively solve problems when they encounter them, and will not shirk their responsibilities. It's easier to get the appreciation of the leader, so there are more opportunities.

You can use indirect emotional guidance to slowly guide him so that he knows how to love you, how to be good to you alone, and when you guide him to succeed, then you are waiting to enjoy the sweetness of love.

Interpersonal relationship must start from the effective communication between two people, the spark factor is the best for two people, there is no way to control the other party's thoughts, you have to guide him to see the side you want him to see, what we have to do is to maximize the display of themselves, through effective communication, express what he likes himself.

In fact, to put it simply, you have to be good to him, move him, people are mutual, if you take the initiative to be good to him, I believe he will also be doubly good to you, so what you have to do now is to pay, but in the process of paying for him, you may be very tired and encounter some difficulties, but for your happiness must persevere.

Why don't you let the other person take the initiative to approach you?

1. Let the other person get used to you slowly.

Of course, this method takes time, everyone should understand the truth of the long stream, habit is a terrible thing, when you get used to a person appearing in your life, you are already inseparable from this person, if you want him to remember you, then you can let him slowly get used to your appearance in his life, such as a greeting in the morning and evening or a frequent greeting to ask for warmth, so that he slowly gets used to you appearing around him. If one day you don't show up with him, he starts to value you and feels your importance.

2. Ask the other party for help.

Men will always have a little bit of machismo, sometimes if you ask him for help, he will show a kind of heroism, and if he succeeds in helping you, their hearts will also be self-inflated, and they will feel capable and existential. So what do you have to ask men for help, don't develop yourself into an independent character, sometimes you will get the pity of men if you are a little weaker, and if you know everything, such a sensible woman will make men feel that they are useless.

3. Always be in the best shape.

Because you don't see each other often, every time you meet is an opportunity for you, so you have to always maintain the best state, only when the state is good will you attract the boy you like, of course, this state is not to let you go out with heavy makeup every day, the main thing is to dress decently, have a more energetic face, it is no problem to put on a small light makeup, make yourself look beautiful every day, so that if you meet more times, the man will remember that you are the one who gives people a positive energy every time.

4. Remember every little detail.

Like each other, at least the things that the other party loves to eat and play, what idols should be able to remember, this kind of small detail is still very important, haven't you heard a word? Details determine success or failure, your carefulness will move him, and your carefulness and sincerity will eventually be exchanged for his heart.

Fifth, it is not too deliberate physical contact.

The most unbearable thing for boys should be these hidden little contacts. For example, if you accidentally touch the other person's hand when you hand something to the other person, or you will tap the other person's shoulder when you ask him for help, or if the other person's face is dirty, you can help wipe it clean. But be sure to grasp the point until the end, be careful of the backfire, because not all men like to be touched by others, as long as he feels electrocuted.

These small acts are seemingly inadvertent and deliberate, as long as you don't let the other party find out, you can still take him down.

Hello and Happy May Day.

Acting with external impetus can create a favorable situation and make things go according to one's intentions.

Being proactive means taking the initiative to take responsibility for one's past, present and future actions, and to make decisions based on principles and values, rather than emotions or external circumstances. Proactive people are agents of change, they abandon the passive victim role, do not hold grudges against others, and play the four unique human endowments - self-awareness, conscience, imagination and autonomous will, and at the same time create change in an inside-out way, and face everything positively. They choose to create their own lives, which is also the most basic decision of every human being.

What is Active? Holding the game is not called the initiative, the initiative is the external output.