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There are no specific house rules in our family, but, like most families, there are some issues that are definitely not allowed.
Because I'm a girl, my family doesn't allow me to play outside until more than 11 o'clock in the middle of the night, as long as I don't come home after 11 o'clock, they will keep calling me **, and then when I get home, they will inevitably scold me. They think that playing outside for too long is especially vulnerable to girls! So, I've never come home past eleven o'clock since I grew up, and I haven't spent the night outside!
I make friends outside, they never interfere, but I will never be allowed to associate with people who have bad behavior and habits, the so-called "social people" such as girls who want to smoke and drink, this kind of people my parents will never allow.
Because I learn from the good guys, and the bad guys learn from the bad guys, maybe because of these concepts, I now have a particularly bad impression of those girls who smoke, no matter what reason they smoke, so the friends around me are also very good.
In the eyes of my parents, they thought that the most important thing for girls is to achieve "self-esteem, self-love, self-respect!" "Dad once told me that if I made this mistake, let me get out of myself, and they don't want shameless daughters.
They often give me some examples of unclean girls to spur me on, let me learn from it, and gradually I began to stay away from those classmates, in order to better restrain myself, I never fell in love when I was studying! <>
I remember one time when I was picking vegetables, I stretched out my chopsticks to the farthest place, and then my dad knocked my chopsticks off in front of all the guests, he told me to get off the table and watch them eat, and after the banquet was over, my dad told me that if girls eat decently, don't make a "starving ghost" cowardly!
Since then, every time I eat, I always take one dish at a time, and then I always only pick the dish opposite me, even if I especially want to eat the opposite dish, because Dad's lesson is always in my heart!
In fact, there are no rules, although there is no special intention to make family rules, but parents in terms of educating us, it is also a kind of family rules!
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Because, in every family, there may be some strict rules. I remember that in the past, the church in our family stipulated that we had to wash our feet every night, and my life habits may be a little not good, especially lazy. So I had to ask my mom to remind me every night, so we decided that this simple house rule was mainly to limit what I had done.
For my dad, my mom set the rule that you weren't allowed to smoke in the house. My dad was very fond of smoking, and he literally smoked one cigarette after another every day. My mom always thinks that smoking smells very bad, so for the sake of this rule that my dad said, if my dad violates it, there may be some new penalties, such as deducting his salary this month, every time my mom strictly implements his plan, if my dad smokes a cigarette at home, my dad will not have this month's salary.
Your dad can only go out to smoke at a time, and he can only drink some juice or tea at home.
So we also told my mom that every afternoon when she came back, she had to cook a meal for us, because my mom's work was easier, so he had more leisure time in the day, so he might cook a particularly delicious meal for the two of us every day, because in our family, I felt that the family was harmonious and had a meal together. My dad and I don't have a good stomach, so we have to go home in the afternoon to eat because after all, my mother's cooking is the healthiest and most delicious meal. Therefore, our family rules are to make some rules for some habits of each person, that is, to make everyone's habits better.
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No matter how poor the family is, they can't steal.
When I was very young, my family couldn't afford anything because my family was very poor, but when I was in school, I saw others buying delicious food and wanted to eat it. At that time, when I went to elementary school, it was delicious, so when I saw others eating, I thought about how to get money to buy something to eat, and when we were young, because our parents were often not around, it was our grandparents who took it, so when we were young, we received very little education, and the teachers in our primary school were not strict.
So when I was seven or eight years old, it made mistakes. I always like to steal money at home to go out to buy something to eat, and the first time I stole it was not discovered, and the second and third times were many times later, because my parents always stayed in the field and came back many years ago, at that time, a dime or two cents was very precious to us, and a dime could buy spicy strips.
I bought snacks and ate just because the change brought back by my parents was put in the closet, and I didn't count them.
When I was with my grandparents, they didn't know that I was stealing money, and even if they knew, they were used to me, because they felt that if they beat me by myself, I would hate them very much, so they didn't want to educate me, and when I was ten years old, my parents came back from working in other places and wanted to stay at home for a long time, and my father and I were fine, and my mother who loved me was very strict, and finally let me kneel on my washboard after knowing that I had stolen money.
He also told me a lot of big truths, saying that no matter how poor I am in the future, I can't steal money, because stealing money is a matter of a person's dignity in the future. So in the end, I changed a lot, because, my mother didn't beat me, she educated me, and I was not young at that time, so I have corrected it now.
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It really hurts me to talk about this, there are too many rules in our house.
Let's start with something that left me speechless. In our house, we are not allowed to swear, and on our side, the head teacher is called the old class. Once I talked to my mom and my brother about the old class, and my mom gave me a slap without warning, and said to me with confidence
The class teacher is the class teacher, the math teacher is the math teacher, the Chinese teacher is the Chinese teacher, what is the old class?
I really want to cry without tears, thinking of these sad tears. Fortunately, my cousin came to our house, and I told my cousin about the situation, and my cousin told my mother about it, and my mother stopped. <>
When I was in elementary school, we went shopping on the street, and a boy in my class called my name, and then I looked back. Don't dare to say yes? When I got home, my mom made me kneel in front of our house.
My mom said what do you say to other boys? What is this like? If you dare to do those things that ruin the family style, I really won't live anymore, and I'll beat you to death!
None of this is the main thing. What made me even more speechless was that my parents wouldn't let me wear nail polish, and I'm in college now, in my 20s, with my own thoughts and opinions. I'm so old now that I don't even have pierced ears.
Our dormitory director opened a nail salon in the dormitory, and I struggled for a long, long time before I applied a few fingers. But now I've been picked off, and every time I hit ** with my father, I'm a little scared when I see my red nails. I don't know why my dad can't see my red fingernails, but he feels scared.
Until now, I am in my 20s. When I met my friend of the opposite sex on the bus, I would quietly point to my mom and put my hand to my mouth to signal him not to say hello to me.
I don't know where our family came from so much, the evil and feudal family rules of the outer door. It pains me and causes me to be terrified of speaking in public right now.
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1. Family rules: refers to the norms of behavior prescribed by a family, which are usually inherited by a family and the norms of education for future generations, also known as family mottos.
2. The ancient family was not only a living unit, but also a production unit and an educational unit. The ancients attached great importance to the relationship between the Qi family and the governance of the country. The ancients regarded educating their children as an important responsibility of parents, and raising children must be taught, and not teaching children not only endangers themselves, but also endangers others, and even endangers the country.
3. It plays an important role in personal self-cultivation and family in Chinese history, and it is an indispensable point to make the country richer and stronger.
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House rules should be a family's code of conduct, a code of conduct that the whole family should follow.
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Something to the effect that:
Take the initiative to say hello to your elders.
Respect each other for every member of the family.
There are often intentional activities at home.
The principle of treating guests.
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Family rules refer to the family's teachings to their children and grandchildren to live in the world and run the family.
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Family rules are a priceless treasure of a family. For Chinese, where there is a home, there are family rules. But nowadays, there are fewer and fewer people who understand.
Those family rules that have been handed down are not only upbringing, but also etiquette, and have a good guiding effect on people's words and deeds. Every subtle body language reveals your information to the people around you: tutoring, family style, personality, preferences, personality, etc.
Family rules are a priceless treasure of a family. So, these rules must not be forgotten!
1. Do not take sleeves and tubes;
2. Do not pull trouser legs;
3. Do not shake off your legs;
4. Do not slant your eyes;
5. Do not cross your legs;
6. Do not stir dishes;
7. Chopsticks are not allowed to be inserted into the bowl;
8. No tooth flowers;
9. Don't click your mouth;
10. Don't talk nonsense;
11. Do not shout in public;
12. Don't hold the pot;
13. Do not eat and bite chopsticks;
14. The dish is not in the middle of the plate;
15. Do not have the spout facing people;
16. Do not use chopsticks and spoons to knock on the bowl;
17. It is not allowed to pour water or wine on people with their backs;
18. You can't snort when eating;
19. Do not press people's shoulders;
20. Pour tea can not be full;
21. Do not call your elders for you;
22. It is forbidden to speak without calling an honorific title or name;
23. Don't pick up the dishes all over the plate, you can only clip the ones in front of you;
24. Before eating, you should greet the elders, and the elders should sit down and say that they can only eat when they eat;
25. When being a guest, the host can only move the chopsticks before the guest can move;
26. Guests can't sit on other people's beds;
27. Guests are not allowed to enter a room where no one is there;
28. Stand without leaning against the door, and speak not loudly;
29. Say hello to your elders when you go home;
30. Say something when you go out.
People often say: "The country has its own laws, and the family has its own rules." "Good family rules can not only educate outstanding children, but also make a family prosperous.
But now, many families are facing such a phenomenon: when the party is gathered, the highest status is the grandchildren, the grandparents are old and frail is a very unpopular group, and the banquet is over, and the grandparents eat the leftovers. Especially during the festival, visiting friends and friends is the best time to see whether a family is in decline or prosperous, and it is also the best way to see whether a family's parents are well-educated.
If a family does not have the most basic words of respecting the elderly, respecting the elderly, and filial piety, it can be seen that the family must not have good family rules, and there is no foundation of a family - family style.
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Good house rules are like the invisible antiques, which affect children invisibly, but can educate children with excellent conduct;
Good family rules can create a good family style, and a good family style is the priceless treasure of a family.
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Family rules refer to the norms of behavior prescribed by a family, which are generally inherited by a family and regulate the norms of education for future generations. It is also called family law. The state has national laws, and the family has family rules means that a country has a national law; A family has a family rule, which is equivalent to the law of the country.
It refers to the rules of the family, and you must know how to talk about the rules in everything you do.
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1. The whole family eats together, and the elders move the chopsticks first.
No matter how hungry you are, you must use the chopsticks first, and if you quietly pick up the vegetables yourself, your parents will knock them off with chopsticks.
2. You can only eat what you have in front of you, and you can't turn it around.
A small amount of food can only be sandwiched in front of it, and if it is flipped indiscriminately, it will be considered uneducated.
3. When toasting, the wine glass must be shorter than the elders.
Hold the cup in both hands and place the cup slightly lower than the elder's cup to show respect.
4. The spout of the teapot should not be pointed at people.
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It's a two-word thing, it's ......
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My favorite family member, Junjie, is Tong Tiejun's child.
At first, Lin Haiyan refused to say who the child's father was for the sake of Tong Tiejun's future, but Feng Zhanliang offered to marry her in order to give the child a clear identity and protect Lin Haiyan from others. As a result, Feng Junjie's father also became Feng Zhanliang.
For many years, Feng Zhanhua has relied on this relationship, regarded Feng Junjie as a continuation of his brother's bloodline, and gave him all his love. Feng Junjie has also become Feng Zhanhua's spiritual sustenance.
Lin Haiyan and Tong Tiejun decided to keep this secret forever, Xiao Xiaoya's appearance unexpectedly exposed Feng Junjie's background, and Feng Zhanhua's feelings almost collapsed.
My Favorite Family Synopsis:
Tong Jisong Gao Tiejun and Lin Haiyan are neighbors on Sunrise Street, and the two have been in love for many years. Tong Tiejun was accidentally involved in a production accident, and Lin Haiyan married Chen Yaowu, who also lived on Sunrise Street, in order to save Tong Tiejun, and his fate changed from then on. Soon after marriage, Chen Yaowu died unexpectedly, and Lin Haiyan shouldered family responsibilities with hard work.
She takes care of the kind and gentle Tong's mother Yao Yingqi Yuling, and also takes care of the flamboyant Chen mother Lu Daying, in addition to the two children left by Chen Yaowu's ex-wife: the stubborn girl Chen Fengshou and the mentally retarded boy Chen Shengli.
For a time, conflicts arose frequently in this special big family. Lin Haiyan's life encountered difficulties again, and the kind and upright Feng Zhanhua reached out to her as a friend to help Lin Haiyan tide over the difficulties. Lin Haiyan comforts everyone in the family with infinite true affection, warms this big family with kind love, and their lives are getting better and better in love and understanding.
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