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Three provinces of our day. Parents are old.
Whether the family has money or not.
Is there any talent on the body?
Answering these three points is to determine whether you can still be willful.
I know that many adults nowadays don't want to grow up, and they always think that they are still young, or at the age of playing.
Of course, I feel young and good in terms of mentality, so that I can keep myself alive. But I feel that I am still young, I don't need to enter the society so early, and I am still using my parents' money to gnaw at the old, so this kind of mentality is not okay.
At the beginning, I also said three points, if your parents are still very young, energetic, and do not need to suffer anything in life, and the family also has some savings, if you don't have to worry about anything, then you can still rely on the family, and you can still be your parents' infant child, which also depends on how much your family pampers you. If not, then what excuse do you have for not working hard and not being responsible?
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If you want to get rid of the idea of "I'm still a student", you should first let yourself understand that you have stepped into the society, learn to grow, and then experience some things in the society many times, and hone yourself more, which will make you grow faster and face the reality better.
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I think that in order to get rid of this kind of thinking, first you have to become mature, and then you can be on your own, you can live independently without relying on your own parents, you have to be financially independent, and that's the important thing that you want to get rid of this kind of thinking, and the other thing is that you have to be socially experienced.
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If you want to get rid of this notion, you should get in touch with some real problems and not lock yourself in a childish garden without any harm. Change yourself in thought, action, and daily life, make yourself mature and rational, and don't like to rely on others.
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I think it's actually very easy to get rid of this mentality, and I stepped into the society to do an internship in my junior year, and I made a lot of friends at work.
When I communicated with them, I felt very happy, because they came out to work early and worked hard in society for a long time, and from then on I realized that I was not a student anymore, I was a young person who would work hard in society in the future.
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When you step into the work, the work you do may not be so important, but you have the responsibility to do it well, don't think that you are still a student and do things half-heartedly, once or twice is okay, if after a long time, your leader will think that you are a careless person, and if it is serious, you will be fired with a new person!
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The moment you go out into society from a college campus, you're no longer a student.
In the company, you have to work hard, you need to commute in accordance with the company's rules and regulations, you need to submit materials according to the requirements of the leader, and complete the work.
In life, when you take the bus slowly, you will find that children nowadays begin to call you uncle and aunt, instead of brother and sister.
In life, you are already embarrassed to ask your family for money, and you have to earn money on your own.
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Students' thinking refers to a mode of thinking formed in learning, which is usually characterized by relying on teachers' guidance, passively accepting knowledge, focusing on memorization and test-taking, and lacking independent thinking and innovation awareness. This mindset is necessary when you are a student, but in the workplace and in life, it is often limited and constrained. The significance of getting rid of students' thinking is to cultivate independent thinking, innovation consciousness and practical ability, improve the ability to solve problems and take responsibility, and better adapt to the needs of the workplace and life.
Common student thinking manifestations in daily life are:1Yiyanyin quietly relies on others: accustomed to seeking help from others, lacking the ability to think and solve problems on his own.
2.Lack of sense of innovation: Accustomed to solving problems according to established models and methods, lack of flexibility and sense of innovation.
3.Overly sensitive to failure: accustomed to pursuing achievements and rewards, overly sensitive to failure, prone to giving up and losing confidence.
4.Lack of emphasis on practice: Habitually focusing on theory and ignoring practice and experience may lead to a lack of understanding when it comes to solving practical problems.
5.Lack of responsibility: Accustomed to passing the buck to others, lacking the spirit of taking the initiative to take responsibility.
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With more experience and more experience, you will naturally be able to get rid of such thoughts.
A few years after I started working, I often met interns who said something like this, and "I'm still a student" seemed to be their umbrella.
In fact, this kind of thinking seems very naïve, even if you say such things, you still need to overcome the difficulties in your work.
And how to change this thinking? The more you experience and the more you have experience, you will no longer have such thoughts, because you will gradually understand that such thoughts cannot change the status quo.
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In fact, there is no need to deliberately get rid of this kind of thinking, if we really go out of school after graduating from college and go to society, then we will naturally get rid of this kind of thinking, because we will face many difficulties that we will not face on campus, then we will also tell ourselves that we are not a student now, but an adult, to work hard for our own life and our own ideals, and sometimes reality will naturally make us recognize some things.
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Although saying "I'm still a student" is a kind of protection, it is also a kind of bondage, especially after leaving society.
To get rid of the idea that "I'm still a student", you have to make yourself strong, not weak and run away. Because if "I'm still a student" makes a mistake, others will be more tolerant, and if you abandon this, you will need to bear this responsibility more.
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Personally, if I want to get rid of the idea that I'm still a student, first of all, I will say to myself that I am an adult, that I am no longer a student, and give myself psychological hints first. Secondly, I may mature my appearance. Make yourself look like you don't look like a student anymore.
I may regulate my behavior so that I don't act like a student.
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I think if you want to get rid of yourself, I'm still a student, the way to think like this is that you go into the society and go to find a job by yourself, and no one wants to take you in, so you will feel that you have grown up, you can't rely on others, you have to rely on yourself for everything, only if you work hard, you will make yourself better, so you will have the idea of growing up.
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I think we have to enrich our experience, and then when we see more, we will naturally become more mature, and then we will not feel that we are still a student or a child, so I think we should find the reasons from ourselves and overcome our own difficulties.
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I feel that my head has been shaking, I am still a student, this kind of idea is not mature, because you always feel that you are already a student, you have to rely on parents, rely on others, you have no self-reliance in your own life, you should think about your age, you should have your own responsibility, hold up the society, maybe you will have your own new image.
Go to more crowded places, step out bravely, communicate with people more, learn to integrate into the group, overcome fears, integrate yourself into this society, participate in more group activities, go out and meet some new friends. <>
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