How can some people be glass hearted ?

The term glass heart has been around for a while, probably in 2004. Described as transparent and hard, but shattered when touched. Now it has become a derogatory term for ridiculing people's low psychological capacity.

In fact, everyone has a glass heart, because in everyone's heart, there are fragile places and untouchable weakness.

And the reason for its appearance is usually to encounter something that makes you sad or to be in a negative state for a long time.

There are many reasons why some people are weak in their hearts and cannot be hit, most of them are their own reasons. It has a lot to do with the character created by the environment in which they grew up when they were young, and when they were young, their families were incomplete and they did not receive the love of their parents, which must have an impact on their psychology, and over time caused a bad personality, such people must also be more easily injured.

Acquired reasons. In this impetuous society, growth means commitment. The older we get, the more mature our minds become, the more we think, and the more pressure we have.

When the pressure exceeds a person's carrying capacity, he becomes weak and fragile like a glass heart.

And when a person's experience increases, the things that happen are mixed. The good ones make him happy, but they are generally mostly bad, so at this time, it is not surprising that there is a glass heart.

Emotional wounds, deception, slander, questioning, etc., are all highly likely to destroy a person.

So the reason for the appearance of the glass heart is too easy and too many.

In this day and age, we must develop a strong heart. But don't just look strong, but fragile glass hearts.

A glass-hearted person is one who has a poor psychological quality, whose mind is as fragile as glass, and is fragile and unable to withstand criticism or accusation. ** Snowflake in English. It is often used to describe people who cannot stand up to criticism.

The glass heart finger is easily hit, and the heart is too sensitive for people. The direct literal meaning refers to someone who is too fragile and sensitive at heart, very, very vulnerable. By extension, the casual joke or joke of others can hurt him and make him cranky.

This is generally the meaning used on the Internet. With a strong narcissistic plot.

Glass hearts

The glass-hearted personality is generally more introverted, or more homely, and there are fewer people in social interactions, and people with glass-hearted hearts will be more sensitive than other people. Secondly, people with glass hearts generally have a strong sense of self-esteem, and after receiving verbal attacks from others, the degree of harm they receive will be greater than that of others.

Therefore, when you get along with someone with a glass heart, it's best not to be arrogant, because it is very likely that your words will hit your friend's pain, and then he will be sad. In addition to the innate personality traits, the reason for the formation of "glass heart" will affect the psychological quality of individuals in family education, growth experience, social orientation, etc.

Especially in childhood and adolescence, some children lack the affirmation of their elders, do not get spiritual satisfaction, and cannot truly feel that they are "loved and cared for". When such a child grows up, he tends to gain a sense of security and belonging from the outside, and he cares extra much about what others think of him. In the eyes of others, this is the fragile and sensitive "glass heart".

People with glass hearts have an inexplicable sense of loss and inferiority, because they use a glass heart, so they will not let anyone enter their own world, and they will be cautious in everything when they encounter things.

Glass-hearted people generally please others everywhere, do not want to take the initiative to conflict with others, and hope that others can become their friends.

It is difficult to let go of negative thoughts and emotions, some people have negative emotions that linger in their minds, the second point is that it is often accompanied by headaches and rapid heartbeat when it is unpleasant, the first is eating and sleeping problems, such as eating too much and sleeping too much, or eating too little, sleeping less, and the third is easy to be nervous and anxious.

Glass heart, an Internet buzzword, refers to poor psychological quality, the mind is as fragile as glass, very fragile, and cannot withstand criticism or accusation. The extended meaning describes a poor psychological quality, a mind as fragile as glass, and unable to withstand criticism or accusations.

People with glass hearts are very fragile, that is to say, the heart can bear relatively weakly, so it is easy to feel depressed, and it is easy to be sad and aggrieved.

Generally, they are relatively fragile, and they are full of positive energy, but their emotions and all aspects are easily hurt, so their hearts are also relatively delicate.

Everyone is glass-hearted, everyone has self-esteem, everyone doesn't want to be hurt and attacked by words, and kidnapping, don't believe you try, whoever is can't stand it, the person who says someone else's glass heart, but he himself has not been hurt.

I think I like to sit in the right seat, and I feel that whatever others say is talking about myself.

What is the performance of a person with a glass heart, that is, this person is particularly sunny, his heart is particularly beautiful, and he is as bright as glass.

People with glass hearts are actually more tolerant and have poor autonomy, so they are vulnerable to injury when they encounter a little blow.

I think the performance of such people should be very transparent, everything is open, so that we can see it clearly at a glance.

He had no idea about acting like this. His heart is relatively good, and he is more kind and loves to cry.

So why are so many people glass-hearted now? In fact, this problem is particularly easy to say, partly due to family reasons, and partly due to social reasons.

In fact, as long as everyone's heart is full of love, these are not problems, and the world is still a better tomorrow.

Some people may think that people with glass hearts are a more troublesome type of person, because if you are with a rational person, you usually have to consider his feelings, and you also need to consider some of their ideas, and you need to help them, so they are afraid of trouble, and then hate this kind of person, which is also understandable and very normal.

I feel that people with glass hearts are easy to be sad, and they can't bear some difficulties and pressures, so I really hate those people who have glass hearts, I think this kind of people are more hypocritical, I really don't like this kind of people, because I prefer the kind of people who are big and nervous and can face all kinds of challenges.

The glass-hearted person is actually a derogatory term, indicating that this person is very fragile, and he will be very excited about a little thing, and feel that this thing cannot be forgiven, feel that he has hurt himself, and he is very wronged, which makes people feel very hypocritical.

A "glass heart" label is thrown to the other party, putting yourself on the moral high ground. If you deny that you are a glass heart, you can't argue and fight back, and if you admit that you are a "glass heart", then your anger and counterattack are useless. This kind of person is especially annoying!

Why don't they want to think about how boring, useless, hurtful, and brainless they are spewing out.

Because I think that in fact, in fact, in life, study and work, it is inevitable that they will suffer some blows, but at this time, some glass-hearted people seem to be unable to stand the blow at all, it may be just a little bit of wind and grass, so they feel that they say, alas, they can't bear it, and suddenly feel very hypocritical, or sometimes they are all adults, do you need to say that they are still so hypocritical all day long.

Glass heartsAs a derogatory term, it means that this person's ability to bear is relatively low, and his little things will have a very big impact on him, and he will form a heart that he can't accept the result and the status quo. It becomes very devastating, and in the eyes of others, a very small thing can produce such a big reaction.

It's easy for others to think she's very hypocritical.

I think it's because of such a group of people that he is relatively vulnerable, if there is such a group of people around you, he may continue to trouble you, and everyone hates to be troubled, so many people may hate such a person, and like such a group of people, they all like to say some verbose things in the circle of friends.

Because they will behave very hypocritically in many cases, I think the glass-hearted person is not that he really can't bear it, it's just that they love to make a big fuss about some things every time, or if they receive a reprimand, you just need to correct it yourself or learn a lesson, there is no need to make it seem like others really can't teach you, and you can't say that you are reprimanded, you can only praise you.

Because they tend to take other people's kindness as malice, I used to have a tablemate, who is a glass-hearted, sensitive personality. But she was very sunny on the surface, so I trusted her a lot, complained to her about something, and then one time I couldn't find the exam papers, so I looked at her, and she thought I was blaming her. How could I blame her?

It was my own business that I couldn't find the exam papers. She scolded me indiscriminately, and then I said I didn't mean it. She continued to say that because I mentioned that I was at the same table with her first, I wanted to drive me away.

But then she took the initiative to apologize, saying that she was very arrogant and told me not to take it to heart. Bad words hurt people and June cold. I was so pitiful and hateful to her.

Later, she thought I was flipping through the books loudly. I wanted to endure it, but I was in a bad mood, and she saw it, and once again asked me to sit somewhere else. I'll just go straight to it.

To me, she's just picky and picky about people. I feel like I've been betrayed for good.

I used to like her a lot, but because of this incident, I have a new perspective on interpersonal relationships, and poor people must have pity.

Sensitive people will think crankily because of the indifference of others, but everyone is so busy, who will care about her all the time?

Sensitive people behave very amiably in front of unfamiliar people, and for them, a polite relationship with everyone is the safest for them. So many people can't see through them, and some people decide that they are very good, but when they really come into contact, they know that when their glass hearts explode, it hurts.

It's a shame that I trust her so much. Behind her back, she told her roommate that I had a bad temper. Later, I don't know who stole her book, but her roommate said that I took it.

I didn't do this kind of thing, but I carried the black pot. As a result, I went to see a psychiatrist and spent thousands of dollars on psychological counseling. She lost a friend, and I got everyone's disgust.

But I've also learned how to look at people, and how to speak and do things differently from person to person. You can't say anything.

I think sensitive people don't have bad character, they just think too much. They don't like to listen to other people's complaints, and talk to them positively.

Glass heartsThey belong to a group with weak hearts, have a strong dependence, like to seek recognition, are relatively simple-minded, will easily pour out their hearts and lungs to their friends, and subconsciously hope that everyone will understand themselves, love themselves, and not misunderstand themselves. When this ideal state cannot be achieved, they will be deeply hurt in their hearts, and even move towards self-denial and self-isolation.

They always feel that they have a lot of audiences, afraid that others will misunderstand their meaning, and they are afraid that their image in other people's hearts will be ruined because of a small thing. All in all, they live quite tired.

Specific spinal scattering symptoms:

The main problem is presented in interpersonal communication, glass-hearted patients do not measure the relationship between themselves and others, do not know how to advance and retreat when encountering problems, and the first time after encountering others' dislike and alienation is not to change their own shortcomings, but to be aggrieved and sad, and even condemn themselves, and will continue to a vicious circle.