What should I do if I have to be friends with someone I like?

If the other person has rejected him very clearly, don't give yourself false hopes, just correct your attitude, be good friends, and don't cross that line. More importantly, don't disturb the other person's life, stalking will only cause the other party's disgust, not make the other party feel that you are very insistent on him She is very moved.

I know that many people may be at a loss in front of the person they like, especially the one who likes it very deeply, and can't wait to be with each other every day. It would be a great joy to be able to become a boyfriend and girlfriend.

But if the other party rejects it after the confession, you can only be friends. This state of having to be friends with the person you like is actually very uncomfortable.

But if the other party has already said it clearly, please stop forcing the other person, if you can restrain your emotions, then treat them as friends, and care about them, but don't treat them as people you like.

Because if you still like each other, you will be affected by each other's lives. Even, when she sees others treating her badly, she will feel even more sad in her heart. Why, the treasure in my eyes is regarded as grass by others? But she still likes that person?

And if you can't control your emotions and still like each other very much, I hope you can quit each other. It's like detoxification, let the other person completely disappear from your own world, and over time, I believe that you can definitely forget the other person.

Our life, wanting to find friends, is actually very simple. But it's hard to get your heart peeled and really like someone.

However, after the heart is moved, if you can only become friends from afar, watch each other happy and sad, and your heart is touched, but you can't use the identity of a close friend to help each other, there will always be a sense of powerlessness.

Instead of this, it is better to "out of sight is clean", let yourself have a way out, and let everything return to the way it was before you liked it.

In fact, the world of feelings is not what you like, you can do it. If it's not for each other's liking, infatuation will only become a burden for others. Since you like each other, it's better to let go of yourself and others. In this way, it will be easier to get along.

It's a pity that some people just can't see through this truth. I thought that if the other party said that if I was a friend, I still had hope, I could continue to stay by the other party's side, continue to like him and her, and maybe one day, I would be able to move him and her because of my persistence. However, the ideal is very full, but the reality is very cruel.

Some people, until they are thrown downstairs, are not willing to accept each other. Or can only be friends with each other. (If you are interested, you can search: Refused to show love and was thrown downstairs and was thrown from the 19th floor and died on the spot) Do you also want to repeat the mistake of intentional murderer?

Be good friends, or just be strangers. You tell me?

In fact, you will find that no one can force you to do anything, and if you are coerced to compromise on something, it means that your subconscious is not very annoying. I don't really understand the subject's question, what kind of situation is it that requires you to be friends with the other party.

If it is at home, except for spending a lot of time with parents, partners, and children, no one else will spend more time with the people before them, so this is not the case.

If it is a workplace, you don't like each other, you don't have to be friends, maybe you and the other party have work needs, but you can be nothing more, do your best at work, don't affect your work because of personal emotions, and you can get along with each other after work.

If it is a circle of friends, you can choose not to communicate, no matter whether you and the other party, whether there are other friends related, as long as you don't like it, you don't need to be friends with the other party for other reasons.

Therefore, I don't particularly understand what the subject is in at the moment, and I have to be friends with the other party.

However, if this situation really happens, try to be polite and don't behave unreasonably because of your emotions. You can take out a piece of paper and write down the reasons why you don't like the other person, see if you can accept and tolerate these reasons from a different angle, and of course, you can also try to find the good in the other person.

Of course, the most recommended thing for me is to try to negotiate with the other person according to the reason why you don't like the other person, and see if you can make concessions for each other and achieve a state of peace.

People don't often say that if they like this kind of thing, they don't say it, and they will run out of the corner of their eyes, which should be to say that they like it, but in fact, it is something that can't be covered up and hidden.

So, since you want to be friends, you definitely need to press down your liking alive, in the depths of your heart, into the hidden abyss. You need to learn to hide your liking, your heart that you want to get close to and the hand you want to touch. You have to make the people you like not see your likes, this is the way and state of being a friend.

If you can't do it, then I'm sorry you can only be a passerby with the person you like, and you have to learn to pass by his world. This will allow you to get along with him well, otherwise, it will only bring you closer to the abyss because of your loving relationship, and it will also make your relationship more awkward. I guess that's what you don't want to see.

So, if you still want to be friends, then whether you want to pretend or you make some psychological cues for yourself, you need to stop having illusions. You tell yourself, "We're just friends, we're really just friends, that's all." We can only be friends! You need to keep telling yourself that you don't want to have or have any more likes.

Well, to be honest, it's going to be hard for you and it's going to be very uncomfortable.

I hope you can do it safely, don't be too sad, just bless you like this, and hope that the power of the wish can be effective. The existence of one-sided liking is really the existence of this emotion, which probably makes people suffer. In the face of love, you have to get along peacefully.

Best wishes. Think of it as a ferryman.

Summary. Hello dear, because we can't feel that others think he is bad, we think he is not good, we just have to feel it ourselves.

Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you, I'm the answerer, Xiaojun doesn't want to be friends with a person that others don't like, can you tell me the reason, dear.

Hello dear, because there must be a reason why you don't like to be friends with people you don't like, but simply don't like it? Or what?

It's just that other classmates don't like to play with her very much, and then I almost play with her.

Hello dear, then there is a reason why other classmates don't like to play with him, and then you play with him, what do you think of him?

Hello dear, because we can't feel that others think he is bad, we think he is not good, we just have to feel it ourselves.

Because of some of her shortcomings, others don't like it very much, and now it also causes me to be a little bit unwilling to play with her.

Hello dear, since it's his reason, we, as friends, we have to talk to him, right? Let him correct it, after all, he only has one friend with you.

I also don't really like some of her behaviors, such as snoring in bed, the smell of, and some behaviors that I also dislike.

Hello dear, then I suggest that you be alone, if you really can't stand it, you can talk to him about Cha Hong to do these problems, if he knows his mistakes and doesn't change them, then don't be friends with him, there is no problem to lose.

I told her, but she still didn't take it to heart.

Hello dear, then what was his reaction when you told him at that time?

Hello dear, did you say the other way around?

She didn't say anything about me, she said I knew it was like this, but it didn't change.

Hello dear, then we have done what a friend should do, since he has not changed, then we can completely stay away from him.

Hello dear, but let's not show this kind of distance from him, that is, slowly distance yourself from him, otherwise he may jump off the wall in a hurry.

How can you slowly distance yourself from her?

Hello dear, for example, you will play together every day of the Tan Hall, will chat together, then I suggest that you play less often, and the number of chats will gradually decrease.

Hello dear, just use various reasons to shirk or play with other classmates first, he will be embarrassed.

Hello dear, the author thinks that first of all, it should be clear that everyone has their own preferences and interests, and may get along with some people, and not with others. It's not necessarily because of your problem, maybe it's just because of differences in personality, interests, values, etc.

If you feel rejected or alone, this is a normal feeling. However, there are a few positive approaches you can take to deal with the situation:

Develop your own hobbies. Find what you're passionate about and actively participate in it. By participating in interest groups or activities, you may meet people who share your interests.

Change your attitude. If you are constantly feeling anxious or lack self-confidence, then this may make people feel uncomfortable. Try to relax yourself and maintain a positive mindset and attitude.

Don't force it. Sometimes, when we try to pursue something, we push it away. If you're constantly trying to get someone to like you, it can be stressful and uncomfortable. Relax, be yourself, and don't deliberately pursue other people's likes.

It's okay to give up if you can't get it.,There's no need to make yourself so uncomfortable in order to fit into a circle.,Although I like to be envious of the round.,But this kind of friend is really not worth handing over to Tong.。