How can I change my bad temper and get my boyfriend to go back to the past?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-16
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First of all, ask yourself if you love him and if you are ready to be with him all the time.

    If not, then it doesn't matter if you change it or not, if the answer is yes, you want to be with him, then you can consider the following suggestions: You love him, this is no doubt now, but think about how much you love him, and the depth of this love is directly related to how much you will be able to change for him, after thinking about it, find a pen and paper, think about what you have done for him in your time together, what have you done to make him sad, how many things he has done for you that moved you and made you sad, and you have a bad temper, then list the reasons for every time you lose your temper with him Think about how he put up with you You lose your temper really because you are right Every time you lose your temper, you can justifiably say that he is wrong Let's find him out and have a deep communication with him Explain all the problems See how two people can work together to get rid of your bad temper You must be restrained in later life Even if you want to lose your temper, you must first calmly think about whether it is his fault or you yourself are self-willed If you can't do this, no matter how well you say afterwards, the feelings will be exhausted little by little Strive to be a knowledgeable person A woman who makes people warm, so happiness will always follow you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Listen to more classical flavors, such as Bina's "Peacock Flying Southeast", Xu Song's "Thousand", etc. Tranquil songs calm your heart, and then try to apologize to him. Listening to Jay Chou's "Say Goodbye" in the bed at night If you both cry, it means that you both love each other.

    Don't let go! Be happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Try to change it, no one can stand it if you don't change.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do you have to lose it to know how to cherish it?

    You have not suffered much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Either he changes, or you change, or you change and come back.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then learn to be a little better.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then let your boyfriend more.

    If you're loyal to your boyfriend, even if he has a very bad personality, I think you'll probably put up with it. After all, you can't live without him. You even feel that once you leave him, you will feel uncomfortable all day, like a lost soul.

    This shows that He is already the most important part of your life and is integrated into your heart. In this case, you can only be patient. At the same time, you have to try to communicate with your boyfriend.

    Learn more about your boyfriend and see what he is throwing tantrums for, whether he often loses his temper to vent his stress because he can't vent the pressure at work, or whether it's just a little trivial thing in life that will make him angry.

    When your boyfriend doesn't lose his temper, talk to him well, frequent tantrums are not only bad for your health, but also hurt the feelings of both parties, if you can, let him try to restrain his temper, it is best to get rid of it.

    Don't do it with your boyfriend when he loses his temper, it will only make him more emotionally out of control, and then it will evolve into a quarrel between the two or even a move, when your boyfriend is in a rampage, stay away from him, this is to protect yourself, but also for your boyfriend's good.

    If your boyfriend does it to you, this situation is absolutely unforgivable, this is a sign that he doesn't care about you, so if your boyfriend loses his temper at every turn and hits you, leave him quickly, otherwise you will always live in torture.

    Make a pact with your boyfriend, a pact of love, if he doesn't want to lose you, he can't lose his temper with you, let alone do anything to you. It's only three, once he loses his temper on you three times, you leave him immediately, don't be nostalgic, don't give him another chance, the opportunity he has been given is not cherished by himself, let him beat him by himself.

    Love is a matter of two people, if your boyfriend loses his temper every time you are desperately enduring it, then your love is not fair, this unfair love should not be nostalgic, men can have no money, they can have temper, but they can't lose their temper with their lover.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Tell him what you find unacceptable, he always throws tantrums and makes you feel insecure, hoping that he will recognize his shortcomings.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When he is angry, you stay away from him, so that he has no emotional person to talk to, and over time, he will learn how to suppress his temper because he does not want you to stay away from him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Tell him very seriously that you don't like his temper, and that grumpy people are generally impulsive, and I'm sure he will correct his words if he loves you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When he loses his temper, he can pretend to be frightened, and then tell him more gently to tell him not to talk so loudly, you will be scared or something. Boys with big tempers generally have no resistance to delicate girls, so they have to overcome rigidity with softness!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When he loses his temper, he can sit quietly on the side, and after he loses his temper, he will say what he thinks of him, if he is obsessed, he still has to choose to leave such a boyfriend.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think I should break up directly.,A short-tempered boyfriend feels terrible.,There's a high probability that marriage will become violent in the future.。

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think you can ignore him for a while when he sometimes has a bad temper attack, and let him realize that he feels uncomfortable with his temper.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When he loses his temper, deal with it coldly, don't have conflicts with him, after he calms down, gently persuade him, point out his problems, say your thoughts, expectations.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Boys should give way to girls, you can talk to him, you can't be so violent, it's not a good thing.

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