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Divide it, it stands to reason: it is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy a marriage. But I see that your story is too tangled, and I can't feel that you are happy with him, and how much he loves you.
And the geographical issue is also very important, from your words I think it seems that he is not very willing to stay in your house, so even if he stays, he will feel uncomfortable, he will feel that you owe him, he will be wronged, and he will quarrel with you.
What's more, talking about money is the most emotionally hurtful, and I can see that you also mind him borrowing money from your family.
If you are separated as soon as you get married, then what are you going to do when you get married, it's good to fall in love, marriage is not just for that marriage book, but for two people to live together with the protection of the law.
Find a better one, so that your parents can feel more at ease.
Do you think I'm right?
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Marriage is actually a matter of two families. It is definitely not possible to separate the two places, and the distance produces beauty. Remember that the two families stir up the money into a pot, which is usually the root cause of the conflict, just like the ending in the TV series "Double-sided Tape", the fault is that there is no sense of proportion, the poor days are poor, the rich days are rich, and each other is willing to last for a long time.
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You're right that you're not overwhelmed by love.
Listen to your parents, they have more experience than we do.
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It's a very tangled relationship I think your boyfriend is a more rational type, but I can't deny that he loves you I'll have your own business or you make your own decisions The family is certainly for your own good, but you still have to live your own life And I don't advocate getting rich After all, China has been a patriarchal society since ancient times It's been 5,000 years old Getting rich will cause pressure on men Of course, it's definitely not appropriate to separate when you're married If it's me, you'll definitely go to your boyfriend Of course, you have to make sure he loves you enough.
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It's up to you how you think he will give you happiness, and then you'll be happy together.
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1.Honesty and loyalty: Honesty and loyalty are the cornerstones of a healthy and stable relationship. A qualified boyfriend should be honest, always loyal and honest with his partner, building trust and security.
2.Respect and support: Boyfriends should respect their partner's opinions, values, and personal space. He should support her partner's dreams and goals and encourage her to pursue her interests and development.
3.Communication and listening: Good communication and listening skills are key to building a good relationship. A qualified boyfriend should be an active communicator who is able to listen to his partner's needs and concerns and express his thoughts and feelings.
4.Maturity and responsibility: Maturity and responsibility are important qualities for a good boyfriend. He should be able to take responsibility for his actions, take responsibility for himself, and demonstrate mature and stable behavior.
5.Mutual aid and cooperation: A qualified boyfriend should be a cooperative and supportive partner. He should be willing to work with his partner to deal with life's challenges, solve problems with Qi Hong, and provide support and encouragement when things are difficult.
6.Humor and emotional intelligence: A sense of humor and emotional intelligence are positive factors in building a good relationship. A qualified boyfriend should be able to use humor to ease tension and understand and process the emotional needs of himself and his partner.
7.Respect family and friends: A qualified boyfriend should respect and care for his partner's family and friends. He should be able to build good family relationships and friendships, showing respect and tolerance for his partner, family, and friends.
It is important to note that each person's criteria for a qualified boyfriend may be different, depending on the individual's values and needs. It is important to communicate openly with your partner, to work together and understand each other's expectations and needs in order to build a healthy, balanced and respectful relationship.
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2 meanings. 1. Your boyfriend at least understands what responsibility is. What responsibilities do 2 people have to take together?
It is also possible that his heart, helpless, and indifferent to the world... Suddenly there was a concern that made him at a loss. He is afraid that he will lose you, and at the same time, he is even more afraid that he will not be able to pay the responsibility to treat you well.
Of course, over time, you may be involved in material things, money. I'm getting married, I want a house, I don't have money. I want a car, what money.
This is a big blow to every man's heart. Therefore, he is afraid that you will not be happy, and he is also afraid that his efforts will not be exchanged...
Such a boy needs a girl who can be by his side and is willing to accompany him through all the ups and downs. If your heart can't be firm for him, then your feelings will really be overturned by material things and money
Fans look at the red dust and more Bole, and the people in the smoke and rain are right and wrong.
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As long as you love him, it is enough for him to love you.
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1. Get up at night and make me a supper.
In the first anniversary of my relationship with my boyfriend, the two of us went out to have a good time, so happy, dinner was relatively small, at night, my stomach rumbled, hungry really can't sleep, so I got up and went to the kitchen to find food, there is bread in the refrigerator, there is milk, I want to eat some, just make do with it, and Zen but my boyfriend heard my voice, he was worried that I ate these things too cold, stomach discomfort, so, he cooked me a bowl of hot noodles, I was very touched and felt that I had really found the right person. 1. Get up at night and make me a supper.
In the first anniversary of my boyfriend's relationship, the two of us went out to have a good time, so happy, I ate less dinner, at night, my stomach was rumbling, I couldn't sleep when I was hungry, so I got up and went to the kitchen to find food, there was bread in the refrigerator, there was milk, I wanted to eat some, just call Jichen to put it together, but my boyfriend heard my voice, he was worried that I was too cold to eat these things, and my stomach was uncomfortable, so he cooked me a bowl of hot noodles, I was very touched and felt that I had really found the right person. 2. Help me fetch water and wash my feet.
Girls have a few days of menstrual period every month, just these days must be very uncomfortable, stomach pain, general discomfort, every time at this time, my boyfriend takes care of me very carefully, never let me touch cold water, laundry and cooking, he is all packaged, every night he will make hot water for me, help me wash my feet, he always said, with him, he will be responsible for me, take good care of me, do not let me suffer a little grievance, he spoiled me as a princess, let me feel very lucky. 3. He is afraid of heights, but he still accompanies me on the Ferris wheel.
When we go to the amusement park, I always play alone, he is waiting for me below, which makes me feel a little regretful, every girl wants to be on the Ferris wheel with her beloved boyfriend, enjoy the beautiful scenery, say some intimate words, feel particularly romantic, but there is no way, my boyfriend is afraid of heights. I knew that about him, and as such, I never forced it. On my birthday, he offered to ride the Ferris wheel with me to fulfill my wishes, and I was ecstatic, but I knew that he endured a lot of psychological pressure, and he overcame this, he did anything for me, and I will always love her.
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My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, and I feel blessed that he was able to give up his city and his job for me and come to a small town where everything had to start anew.
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I was very anxious when I was sick. That kind of boy will be a little naïve, so that the girlfriend feels that he cares about himself and cares about himself, and the girl is very happy.
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My boyfriend's thoughtfulness makes me feel very happy. I once urgently needed a reference book because of an article**, and he sent it to me overnight and ran dozens of miles.
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1. With him, you never have to worry about cooking, and you will always cook the meals yourself.
Second, I take care of my emotions and tolerate my unreasonable troubles.
3. When you are with me, always let me walk on the road.
Fourth, when I am confused and overwhelmed, I will always be given rational and correct guidance.
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Sometimes when I have a stomachache, he will pull it up overnight to find medicine for me, or he will hold me all the time and put me to sleep, I think these actions make me feel very happy.
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My boyfriend once boiled pepper water for me every day because of my knee pain, and then he was not afraid of the heat of the pepper water and wrung a hot towel for me with his hands.
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1.Make your boyfriend like to be with you. Every man will like his girlfriend to be beautiful, so that the male pot friend will feel more face-saving. When you go on a date, try to dress up as much as possible, not too fancy, but try to be pleasing to the eye.
2.Praise your boyfriend when he wins an old basketball game, or when he makes you a delicious breakfast, or when he wins a project he's been working on. Affirm his progress every time, make him feel that you appreciate him, worship him, improve his self-confidence, and he will like you more and more.
In fact, in interpersonal interactions or getting along with the opposite sex, we should try to avoid denial, to some praise and thanks. The more you praise a man, the better he will behave.
4.Guys may want to be romantic, if you can give him some romantic surprises, then he will definitely love you more, such as a gift for him on his birthday, it doesn't cost a lot of money, but you must be attentive. For example, if you sing a song for him occasionally, if the singing is good, he must like to listen to it, and if you sing badly, he will also think you are very open.
For example, tell him that I miss you, or dear, I am so happy and happy with you, and I believe that your boyfriend's heart is gone.
5.To get to know your boyfriend's friends and relatives, it is best to mingle with them, so that you can shorten the distance between you, increase your common language, and your boyfriend will also have a good face in front of your friends. At the same time, you should also give your boyfriend the right amount of freedom and trust him.
6.Communicate more with the boy, know what he is thinking, take the initiative to say what he wants, don't let him guess, reduce unnecessary friction, strive to improve his own value, don't attach himself to others, and don't pin all his hopes on his boyfriend. A confident, independent, and tasteful woman is charismatic.
7.Take the initiative to ask your boyfriend to meet and let him know that you want to meet him. Share your joys and sorrows with your boyfriend. In fact, lovers who like each other are together, and every day is like Valentine's Day. Enjoy your love.
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Happiness is simple, start small. When getting along with your boyfriend, you should treat him sincerely, be willing to share the happiness in life with him, be willing to listen to his thoughts and complaints, and be willing to face him with him in difficult times, so that he will feel that he will be very happy to have you.
First of all, you have to be a positive, positive girl. Share your boyfriend's worries, resolve his troubles, and pass on happiness to him, give him a loving hug, I believe this will make him feel happy.
Secondly, you can try to learn how to cook, which can be less complicated, starting with the simplest baking. Cook small snacks and urinate for your boyfriend often, and when he tastes what you specially made for him, he will be very happy.
In the end, companionship is the most affectionate confession. You want to be with your boyfriend as much as possible, eat and watch movies with him, study to travel and play games together, do a lot of things together to get him used to your presence. This will make him very warm and he will feel very happy to have you.
I hope the above suggestions can be adopted by everyone, and I wish all girls can make their boyfriends feel happy to have you.
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In a couple's relationship, if you want the other party to feel your own happiness, the first thing is to express it more.
Nowadays, many lovers, I don't know if it's because of shyness or other reasons, always rarely express their likes, and we should learn more from foreigners in this regard. When you receive a gift, or when the other person creates a surprise, you must let the other person know that you are very happy, very happy, and you love the other person more.
Love and love are more on your lips, don't feel very pretentious! Only when you express it can the other party truly and subjectively feel your love! Words are simpler and more straightforward than all other hints, and they can make the other person understand your mind better!
Only when the other person understands your true emotions can the other person be happy and happy.
In addition to verbal expression, physical expression of your love for him should also be expressed. For example, when you are sitting on the couch together, you can rest your head on your boyfriend's shoulder or put your hand on his palm to make him aware of your dependence on him and make him realize how important he is to you. From a man's point of view, when he knows that he is indispensable to you, then he will value you more and see you as indispensable and unique, which will also make him feel happy and satisfied with you.
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This is the art of being a girl in a relationship, and a girl always thinks that as long as she can continue to appear by her boyfriend's side and help her boyfriend deal with everything, it is the best performance for her boyfriend. But then, in fact, you are also a person, and you will also want to live alone sometimes, and your boyfriend is the same.
The best state of love is to be able to share the joy between you when everyone is good, I hope that in the relationship between you you are both willing to pay for each other, not just waiting for one person to give. When a person has been working for a long time, I believe that everyone will get tired of this kind of life, and when the problem with the professional one arises, there is nothing possible for you before.
Also, you must be by your boyfriend's side when they are sad, no matter what kind of things are around you, and only know what is best for you when you are most vulnerable. It may be that you can have things around you just to sit down, but companionship is the best confession.
Also, even your boyfriend is really not doing very well on many issues. But at that time, I hope that you can make sure to say what you want to say with a calm attitude, but not constantly blaming. Thinking that blaming is useless and will ruin your previous relationship to some extent.
Finally, I hope you can be a smart girl and know what is best for you. I'm sure you can do it, because you know that how couples get along with each other is the most important thing.
Well, you have to think about this problem before you get married, it doesn't matter if his family is poor, as long as he is motivated, he will always have a future, since you regret it once, you don't refuse him twice and the third time, let him do whatever he wants, you just recognize your relatives, you have the right to resist, you think about it, do you really don't like him, or just because of the economic conditions of his family.
If you love her, you can entrust it for life, it is estimated that the current one is very tolerant of him, you can communicate with him privately, in fact, it is much better to say a lot of things, if you want to change it, then you have to take the initiative to say it, you can. Even if you say it, he will change more slowly, because it is not easy to change his temper for 26 years.
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