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Being able to know your own shortcomings, from this point of view, you are an excellent girl!
Love, of course, should be cautious, but there is no need to look at it too mysterious, in fact, love is only a part of the perfect life, when we identify the object we like, choose him in our hearts, we should believe in ourselves, believe in their choices, if you don't even believe in yourself, then who else can you believe? If you decide it, you will be happy to pay for it.
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Your character is everything!
Don't fret! It's self-preservation!
I'm just like you, and I believe in the people I'm looking for and my love.
In the past, I couldn't accept other people's expressions of love.
It's your heart that can't accept it, you can't convince yourself!
Don't regret it now! No need!
Don't blame yourself either! It's not your fault!
The problem in life is very real!
We can only accept tolerance and learn to protect ourselves!
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I don't know if you're looking for the opposite sex or if you're looking for a husband.
The attitude towards the opposite sex is compared with that of the lover of the dream.
When you're old, you regret it, if you can't catch it, you will regret it, and if you don't chase it, you regret it even more.
Compare your attitude towards your husband with your dad and grandpa.
Bring home people to be practical! Otherwise, you will really regret it!
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Don't mind too much, the experience must be experienced, go with your own heart! Even if you are fooled, at least there will be no regrets, you can at least learn a lesson, and if you miss out because you are afraid of being fooled, then regret ......What's the use?
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Before doubting others, put yourself in her shoes and think about it, it's best to think about the difference between believing him and not believing him, if the difference is not big, then you believe it is nothing, if the difference is big, then there are many hearts, anyway, this is the way of the matter. If it's to someone else, it's better not to trust it too much, to figure out whether she's worth believing or not, and once you're sure she's worth trusting, then. Tell yourself:
Trust is a very important factor in getting along with people, if you can't trust someone, then don't trust it, because you don't care about that person at all.
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Insecure, unconfident, and afraid of getting hurt.
Love is a process, just feel it.
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If you believe in yourself, you will believe in others.
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What happened to you? Hurt by something.
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I will not forgive the person who betrayed me, there will be such a shadow of disloyalty in my heart, which will only make me full of wariness and resentment towards this person.
1.Trusting a person does not mean that you can trust if you want to, trust is a sense of security that can only be obtained after getting along for a long time. The relationship of trust between husband and wife must have gone through many tests and the result of sharing weal and woe, from zero to zero.
10. The process from ten to hundred; However, betrayal can wipe out the trust system that has been built up for many years in a matter of minutes.
To rebuild the trust relationship, at this time, it is no longer starting from zero, but starting from a negative number, and the difficulty can be imagined if there is a precision instrument in the world that can measure the trust between two people. Then, between two people after some emotional betrayal, it is impossible to reconstruct it after a calculation can reach a conclusion.
2.Therefore, in the process of rebuilding the trust relationship, it is actually contradictory and tangled, on the one hand, I want to let myself trust the other party, but on the other hand, I am afraid that I will choose to trust, which will bring more harm to myself.
Tangling is only one aspect, and the more difficult part is that trusting is a kind of voluntary and completely following your heart, so no matter how you say to yourself every day, I want to believe in the other party, and your heart is probably resistant.
If a person betrays you, when he does not do enough to make you trust back, your heart must be resistant to trust, which is actually just yourself, you are normal.
Therefore, we should not forgive those who have betrayed us.
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If you bump into a stranger who claims to be a doctor and say that you may have some kind of disease, your first reaction will definitely be not to believe it.
However, in order to clarify the truth, you need to deal with and solve the problem through the following three measures: first, protect yourself, second, clarify the identity of the other party, and finally properly solve the problem according to the identity of the other party.
First of all, you must protect yourself and avoid being fooled.
When a stranger comes to tell him that he may have a disease, Qingbi, the first reaction of most people must be that the other party has bad intentions, and it is natural that this kind of desire is not good.
At this time, you should first take measures to protect yourself and avoid being hurt by the other party because of ...... gullibilityIn this way, you can effectively protect yourself and avoid being deceived during the next period of dealing with this matter.
Then, you have to clarify the identity of the other person.
Whether the other party's statement is true or not is directly related to its identity. ......If the other party is indeed a doctor, then what he said may be true, and you should pay attention to it. ......And if that man wasn't a doctor at all, his words would have been false.
Therefore, the most important thing in this matter is to clarify the identity of the other party, so that you can provide the most powerful support for yourself to deal with this matter properly, and finally, you should properly solve the problem according to the identity of the other party.
Once you know who the other person is, you need to take steps to deal with the ...... properlyIf the other person is really a doctor and is reminding him out of kindness, then he should accept the advice positively** and thank the other person for his help ......And if the other party is not a doctor at all, you should stay away from him to avoid affecting your good mood.
You'd better get out of him as soon as possible, or you'll be repeating the same mistakes. This kind of person's relationship will not be stable, and you are also just a stop, not the end. He had to suffer a major setback before he understood the value of something.
I will no longer believe in some affectionate sweet words from men to women, nor will I believe in some promises, because at this stage, what kind of words men can't say you often don't believe, and this is something that every man can't keep.
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