How can I become more mature? Or is there any knowledge that can be seen and learned?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-23
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maturity is a comprehensive thing. It's not that after learning something, or after seeing something, you can mature. Only after experiencing too much will it be possible to mature

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Good question! For English studies, many people are still immature at the age of 25, so don't worry!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    One: Calm.

    1) Don't show your emotions casually.

    2) Don't tell people about your difficulties and experiences.

    3) Think for yourself before asking for someone else's opinion, but don't talk about it first.

    4) Don't nag your grievances at every opportunity.

    5) Try to discuss important decisions with others, and it is best to release them every other day.

    6) Don't be flustered when you speak, even when you walk.

    Two: Careful. 1) Always think about the cause and effect of what is happening around you.

    2) For the implementation problems that are not in place, we must explore the root cause of them.

    3) Suggestions for improvement or optimization of the accustomed way of doing things.

    4) Develop the habit of being methodical and orderly in everything you do.

    5) Always go to a few faults or drawbacks that others can't see.

    6) You should make up for the deficiencies anytime and anywhere.

    Three: Courage. 1) Don't use words and phrases that lack self-confidence.

    2) Don't always go back on what you have already decided.

    3) Don't be unassertive when people are arguing.

    4) When the overall atmosphere is low, you should be optimistic and sunny.

    5) Be mindful in everything you do because someone is watching you.

    6) When things don't go well, take a breath and find a breakthrough again, and end cleanly.

    Four: generosity. 1) Don't deliberately turn people who may be partners into opponents.

    2) Don't take other people's small mistakes and mistakes seriously.

    3) Be generous in money and learn the three charities (wealth giving, dharma giving, and fearless giving) (4) Do not have the arrogance of power and the prejudice of knowledge.

    5) Any achievements and achievements should be shared with others.

    6) Someone has to sacrifice or dedicate themselves when they go ahead.

    Five: integrity. 1) Don't say what you can't do, try to do what you say.

    2) Don't talk about false slogans or slogans.

    3) In response to the "dishonesty" problems raised by customers, come up with ways to improve.

    4) Stop all "immoral" means.

    5) Trick yourself up, or not!

    6) Calculate the integrity cost of the product or service, that is, the brand cost.

    Six: Responsibility. 1) When reviewing any mistakes, start with yourself or your own people.

    2) After the matter is completed, the fault will be reviewed first, and then the credit will be listed.

    3) Acknowledging mistakes starts from the superiors, and the performance starts from the subordinates.

    4) Embark on a plan with clear definitions of rights and responsibilities and appropriate allocation.

    5) Be clear about people or organizations who are "afraid of things".

    6) Because of the courage to take responsibility for the losses caused, the company should bear the articles found, which are well written and have lz to share.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maturity is not something that can be learned through hard study or reading more articles and books. When your life experience reaches a certain level, you will naturally mature. Expecting to accelerate this process through any medium is short-lived and illusory.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    ...There is no distinction between mature and immature learning.

    Think before you learn ...

    It's a good way to relate what you've learned to real life, and to learn with the attitude of applying what you've learned, I think that's what you want to express...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you are a student, participate in various club activities at school. If you work, then you're not far from maturity.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Maturity doesn't happen all at once!

    Maturity needs to be tested by the things in life, for example, they quarrel in your class, eat in the cafeteria, and ......... trivial things during school cleaning

    Maturity is to think more for others, do more things, and be less lazy and complaining.

    Maturity is that parents obviously feel it, and they don't have to worry about you anymore.

    Actually, the word maturity is both vague and clear to me. Because maturity is not absolute, it is relative. When you meet someone who you feel mature, you appear to be immature enough.

    When you meet someone who you don't feel mature enough, you feel like you're quite mature.

    A person's physical maturity is a natural formation as they age. But a person's psychological maturity must be related to experience and his ability to understand things, i.e., understanding. A person can understand from what he has experienced, whether it is good or bad, whether he is happy or sad, why he is happy, why he is sad, and why he has done it well.

    Why did this go bad? When he understands, he will find out his experience, he will be more calm in his work, he will be able to deal with problems easily, and he will feel very sophisticated. But sophistication is not maturity, and sophistication and maturity have similarities but differences.

    A person's maturity must have a good cultivation, and being sophisticated without cultivation is not maturity.

    For a mature person :

    When he is lonely, he can find something interesting to do and let the loneliness dispel.

    When he is lonely, he enjoys the silence of silence alone. He was glad that he was inspired by the silence and Mo of that moment in his heart.

    When awkward: He uses humor to defuse it.

    Tricky: He handles it calmly.

    When he's happy, he smiles.

    When he is in pain, he heals himself.

    When he succeeds, he feels that it is inevitable.

    When he fails, he sees it as paving the way for success.

    He is always sincere when facing friends, and he is always smiling when he meets opponents.

    Bumpy is his only way, and happiness is the criterion for him to grasp.

    The charm of a person is his maturity, he can say what he should say, and he will do what he can do. Not pompous, not ostentatious, not dull. Reliable, honest, optimistic, positive ......

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This is mainly about wanting to make the appearance mature, this is okay, first change the hairstyle, go to the barber shop to make a mature and handsome hairstyle, and then change from the clothes to wear some more mature and atmospheric clothes. Finally, change yourself from conversation and maintain a steady posture!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Only with more life and work experience can we mature, but we can't mature by relying on the surface.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You're only 18 years old, you can exercise a lot, and you'll grow taller. Secondly, don't deliberately pay attention to your appearance, career is a man's appearance, when you have a successful career, your charm will also be reflected. The beauty of the soul is the most beautiful.

    Focus on learning and don't overcomplicate yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm 20 years old, and I'm just as baby-faced and depressed. Tangled,

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's a little bit low-key....Duoduo was silent and thoughtful.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Change your clothes and wear them maturely.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Every wound.

    It's all a kind of maturity.

    If you are injured, you will naturally mature and understand, and it is useless to deliberately pretend to be mature, it will only make others disgusted with you and think that you are fake, just be natural!

    I don't know what to do if you don't look mature on the outside, but you can read more books so that you don't run out of words when communicating with others, which is much better.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Looking at a person is not necessarily about appearance, but more importantly, looking at a person's temperament, you have to behave and do things, talk about it, and show your maturityThat way, people won't say you're immature.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1. Pay attention to promises: Mature men will never go back on their word, he attaches great importance to each of his promises, and carefully considers whether his words can really be fulfilled before making a wish. Every word he says makes you feel reassured and trusted.

    The man who runs the train with his mouth, fires empty cannons indiscriminately, and can't take action for a long time, has nothing to do with maturity.

    2. Don't talk exaggerated: A mature man never talks casually, he will grasp the appropriate silence, and speak clearly but not shouting. Just drink a little wine and tell a little story about your own little experience all over the table, and half a room can hear it without a loudspeaker, this kind of man, at most, will make the audience laugh, and no one will put your various so-called "road of struggle" in their hearts.

    3. Knowledgeable and subtle and introverted: they read, accept new things and new information, and constantly enrich their connotation. But they are unassuming, their talents are only shown when necessary, and they are never deliberately showy in order to satisfy their vanity.

    They are like mellow wine, the more you taste it, the more you taste it.

    Fourth, broad-minded: mature men don't care, don't covet small gains, don't care about small losses, and don't chatter about this and that. Their vision is never stumped by trivial matters, and they are often the "angels who turn back first" when it comes to small quarrels in the family.

    5. Not self-centered: Mature men respect themselves and know how to respect others. They are good at empathy, will consider problems from the standpoint of others, do not force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others.

    All men who are "how I am", the typical little emperor's temper, have not grown up yet.

    6. Have the courage to admit mistakes: mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions, and are good at adopting good suggestions. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their own inappropriate decisions, and never make excuses to prevaricate.

    Seventh, the will is firm: mature men have the psychological quality of not messing up, once they determine their own goal, they will work towards it, encounter setbacks, they analyze the reasons, learn lessons, and correct the direction in time, but never give up easily. They will be tired, but after resting, they will set out with confidence.

    8. Clean and tidy: Mature men respect their appearance. They have a hairstyle that suits them best, a clean chin without stubble, a face that is not greasy, and no long nails.

    The clothes don't have to be brand-name, but they are neat and generous, and they won't be crumpled like a courier. They will never wear black leather shoes and white socks and wear suits to travel.

    9. Respect the old and love the young: Mature men are caring, have a sense of social responsibility, and have the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. He will give up his seat to the elderly and pregnant women, donate money and materials to the affected areas, help out-of-school children, and donate blood ...... voluntarilyThey don't necessarily do all of these things, but they don't do nothing.

    10. Have hobbies: They are not robots who only know how to work, they know how to use hobbies to regulate their tense nerves, and work and leisure are not wrong, which makes them interesting. No wonder women say: Men with hobbies are not easy to become bad.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Mentality or appearance.

    The latter is easy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I have been like you in the pursuit of maturity.

    Generally speaking, when I start to pursue maturity, it is often due to love reasons, or girls say that I am not mature enough. will think of going to maturity.

    Hehe, for some reason, little girls like mature men, like Song Siming.

    I've been looking for maturity.

    However, this thing can't be chased.

    This thing can't be loaded either.

    It's been three years, and my classmates saw me and said that you were quite naïve back then, but now you look much more mature. Well, there's a sense of maturity.

    Why, in the past three years, I have experienced a lot of failures and pains, and I have put in a lot of effort.

    That's why it's become more mature.

    Experience makes a man mature.

    When you have experienced something, you will think, you will sum up your experience, you will draw conclusions, you will choose to continue to persist or give up, and you will draw some insights from it, which is called experience.

    The more experience you have, the more mature you are.

    How can I gain more experience? There are two things I can think of:

    First, experience things, take the initiative to meet challenges, pursue challenges, enterprising men mature faster, more challenges, more successes, more failures, more experience.

    Second, read books and enrich yourself with the help of other people's experiences. Mental maturity is an important aspect of a mature man.

    Hehe,Original post,Typing is very hard.,I have to give points.。

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The quickest way to mature, but try with caution.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    How can a girl become mature? First of all, I don't care too much about what others think of me; learn to control your emotions; Don't judge people by their appearance; Likes to think independently.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    1. Be humble and cautious. 2. Be a down-to-earth person. 3. Be reflective. 4. Don't talk about people behind your back. 5. Be cautious in words and deeds. 6. Be generous.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Maturity does not come out overnight, it is an accumulation of time on pain, and it is an accumulation of essence. If you want to be mature, it's better to find something to do. When you have experienced something, you are mature, in fact, whether you are mature or not is largely affected by your personality, but your personal experience has a very important impact on this.

    I think you need to be more composed when you do things. Maturity seems to be a cruel thing, it represents the loss of youth and the fading of dreams. However, the maturity of life is the direction of life, and a peaceful and happy life belongs to a mature life.

    1. What is maturity and maturity is not philistine and vulgar, this mature core spirit is nothing but compromise and obedience, stealing and stealing, and mercenary. This is the wisdom of the villain. But this is the mainstream of society.

    This maturity is not to be envied. Of course, maturity is not paranoia. It is difficult for a person to mature.

    It takes time and a price. The road to maturity has no end, only a journey. Maturity is relative, while naivety is absolute, maturity is not not not to make mistakes, but to be able to really learn from mistakes.

    Maturity is not maturity, which is a common problem between young and naïve people. A serious problem is that age, experience, or even the vicissitudes of life do not ensure that a person matures. Maturity requires a healthy and free social environment, as well as the ability to think independently and to be self-reflective.

    Maturity does not exclude innocence. True maturity is the unity of rational wisdom, innocence and morality. Maturity is not vulgarity and philistine, but this often becomes the standard for Chinese people to judge maturity, and to imitate and pursue it as the goal.

    Compromise and obedience, reluctance to steal life, tendency to inflammatory, mercenary is from this vulgar and servile maturity is not worthy of envy, this is only the wisdom of the villain. The wisdom of the fly camp dog and the villain only gained a small profit, and it did not make much progress.

    Second, maturity marks a person's words and deeds, and even through a small event, often reflect a person's mentality and cultivation. And from different perspectives to interpret maturity, maturity also has different signs. Maybe people in love can't keep their sobriety as they should, but in daily life, we can often see people's gaffes in front of the opposite sex.

    Not taking the opposite sex seriously is not about making you lose your enthusiasm for life, but about being less disappointed, less hurtful, and being able to behave naturally and calmly. 2. Self-denial, self-denial, and continuous self-denial are necessary conditions for maturity and an important sign of maturity. Self-denial is a profound ideological activity, which is motivated by the knowledge of truth and self, not by self-effacing and self-contempt.

    Denying oneself is the result of thinking, not touching the situation. As long as you reflect and face yourself from time to time, you will deny yourself from time to time. It is not easy to know oneself, it is equally difficult to deny oneself, and people are most likely to be self-righteous and stubborn.

    In reality, people almost always think that they are jealous. No one has the right to be conceited before the truth. As the saying goes, what we need to change the most is probably what we insist on the most.

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