How can I get along well with my dorm friends?

There is an old saying in China that when you go out, you follow the customs of the locals. Actually, it is"Respect and acceptance".In fact, the same is true for getting along with friends.

1: Learn to respect。When you go to university, you will meet people from all over the world, with their own dialects, their own geographical cultures, and their own quirks and customs.

Just as the Hui people do not eat pork, we must learn to respect their habits and not to talk about assemblies in ethnic areas in front of them.

2: Treat people equally. After going to college, each classmate's economic situation is different, may be due to regional development, there are also family factors, so when getting along, there may be some differences in values and consumption views, at this time you should understand each other, treat others with equal eyes, don't look down on him in your heart, or give him a sense of superiority.

3: Learn to accept. Everyone has unique habits, for example, some people like to be quiet, some people like to be noisy, some people will ask themselves about their stinky socks, some people like to play games, etc.

Anyway, there will always be something you can't accept, at this time you have to learn to accept, with the help of Prime Minister's words "seek common ground while reserving differences". Find the balance between you, this kind of getting along will be more harmonious, people are to accept each other, tolerate each other to become friends.

4: Learn to listen. Learn to listen to the dormitory person's point of view, things, and let him feel that you respect and understand him.

5: Help each other。Help each other in the process of getting along, and your kindness will become the best glue in the process of getting along with you.

Finally, there are some trivial things, don't worry about them. In fact, communication is a circle, and getting along with people is to find the intersection of circles, and slowly expand the intersection and understand each other. As for things outside of the other person's intersection, you can choose not to accept it, but you must respect it and don't say too much about things outside of the intersection.

In the process of getting along, we should give each other an appropriate amount of space, distance produces beauty, and appropriate self-space is a good way to maintain the freshness of friendship.

If you can't get along with it, you don't need it, you sleep with it, buy earplugs, eye patches, you have to remember that some people deserve to be everywhere, don't force yourself.

You also have part of the reason for the quality of your roommates.

I think it's better to keep the whole dormitory quiet after a student has a break. Because as a big collective, who will respect others will achieve better results, and everyone will be more united and respect each other. Therefore, it is very important to learn to communicate with others more and respect others, and you must learn more from professional teachers and master the correct communication methods.

Learning from the teacher and asking questions if you don't understand is the best way to learn knowledge. The most important point in learning is to ask more questions, so students who can often seek support from teachers and ask more questions from teachers are characterized by their tendency to like to ask questions, so their learning effect is also obvious. Because professional teachers are close to us, there are teachers who are proficient in various subjects in the daily learning classes of students, which is also the most beneficial condition and must be fully used.

Many students do not know how to actively ask questions with teachers, and always learn by themselves, in fact, this is not right, it is also very important to absorb knowledge, and their own efforts are one aspect, but if they make up for their own shortcomings by relying on the knowledge of others, it will be more effective. When some students get out of class, they will run to the teacher and ask the teacher their questions, and the teacher will explain carefully. In fact, this way is very good, students who are good at asking the teacher, they are very positive and optimistic in terms of expression ability and finch personality, and they can get along with the teacher and the school are very harmonious.

Ask each other questions, dare to ask, dare to speak, understand your own shortcomings from the questions, and acquire knowledge, but you will remember better. Secondly, ask questions to the main content, ask your own doubts, understand whether you don't understand, which knowledge point has an aspect that you don't understand, so that the teacher also knows how to help you answer the knowledge.

How to maintain a good dormitory relationship.

First, empathy, heart to heart, mutual tolerance, mutual understanding.

When we are angry, we want our roommates to see and comfort us; When we are happy, we hope that our roommates can be happy with us.

It's just that when you're angry, your roommate may be having a happy time. While you're happy, your roommate may be in the middle of a broken love.

All you have to do is be honest with each other and don't hold it in your heart. You can tell everyone about your emotions instead of letting them guess. Because, you will also often ignore other people's emotions.

If you tell everybody, I'm out of love. Your roommates will surely come over to comfort you. If Lu Shi tells everyone something very happy, everyone will be willing to be happy for you. Roommates are like family.

I'm afraid that I won't treat my roommate as a roommate, and treat my roommate as an outsider. When you treat them as outsiders, they treat you as outsiders.

Second, don't complain about your roommates with mutual friends.

How do you sometimes get misunderstandings with your roommates?From person to person. No matter how difficult it is to get along with the dormitory and hail system, it is even more difficult than the workplace relationship.

The competition of interests between colleagues in the workplace should be more acute, and the problem of the dormitory will be where it is. Why not use the dormitory as a training ground, if you can handle the dormitory relationship well, these experiences will also help you enter the society.

I remember when I first stepped into university, I was very excited, I felt that I was finally free from my parents' jurisdiction, I could be free to let myself go, and I could live with my roommates.

The four of us were blind friends in each other's dormitories, and we've been living together for almost two years.

At first, I was inseparable from one of my roommates, but after a trip with the four of us, I had some small conflicts with her (it may have been that I had more problems at the time), and she and my other roommate played closer than Chenchong, and it was really sad for a few days at first, but then it was okay to meet a new friend, and I maintained a normal roommate relationship with her, and we would still laugh together when it was time to laugh, and it was really comfortable to get along like this.

From my standpoint, it is really recommended not to get acquainted with your roommate too quickly, just start to respect each other and be okay, and when you understand her character and three views, it's not too late to make a deep friendship, really!If you are unlucky enough to meet a roommate who is very good at first but slowly begins to reveal your true nature, then you will encounter endless ...... next moment

These are all real cases that I have encountered with the people around me, and of course, there are also three views that are very compatible and have always had a good relationship. ～

Choose a way to get along that makes you comfortable, after all, you have to get along for four years, and if you don't get along, it doesn't matter if you get along peacefully.

I also learn to drink and learn to be speechless tonight.