It s really like a divorce, is this really a divorce?

What you need now is to endure it, after all, the child is still young, your career has not yet started, if the divorce is successful, then there will be more troubles behind, and the man is very bitter, but you have to hold on, think more about how to make money, and find out the reason why the breakfast shop business is sluggish or whether the things you make need to be improved, and use more energy. If your wife can share the ups and downs with you, then you can continue to live with her, and if not, when you are better in all aspects, then resolutely divorce her. Good luck.

What is the separation, the poor couple mourns everything, just get through it. Who will take care of the children after divorce, and if you insist on it, after you make money, your little sheep will come back. Hehehehehe.

You can see that your life is quite stressful. We are all young people, and we have been through times like you. The most important thing now is to stick together.

Divorce is not good for children, if you are really good for this family, you tell your wife that marriage is run by two people, each family has its own different situation, now it is useless to complain and abuse, a good life is created by two people, let your wife also actively participate in work, don't live like a resentful woman, children have no parents is very hard! Do a good job in the breakfast shop, the business is guarded, it will be good!

China's divorce rate has indeed risen in recent years, but not as high as 40 or 44 percent as many claim.

These figures refer to the ratio of the divorce rate to the marriage rate, not the actual divorce rate.

The true divorce rate is the ratio of the logarithm of divorces in a given year to the average population in a given year, and according to this calculation method, the divorce rate in China in 2020 is, that is, there are couples divorced per 1,000 people.

Although this figure is much higher than in 2000, it is still lower than that of some developed countries. For example, the divorce rate in the United States in 2019 is, that is, there are couples divorced per 100 people.

There may be many reasons for the increase in the divorce rate in China, such as changes in social development, economic development, legal system, personal perceptions, and so on.

However, this does not mean that Chinese people do not have confidence or responsibility for marriage, but it shows that Chinese attach more importance to their happiness and choice, and are not willing to endure an unsuitable or unhappy marriage.

At the same time, there are many stable and happy marriages in China, but they are not counted or reported.

Therefore, we cannot generalize that there are many divorces in China now, but we should look at this issue from multiple angles and levels.

According to the data, the divorce rate has indeed been on the rise in recent years. In China, the divorce rate has gradually increased from less than 1% in the 80s of the 20th century to about 3% now. At the same time, with the development of social economy and the change of family concept, the social recognition of divorce is getting higher and higher, and many people are willing to choose divorce to solve their marriage problems, so the number of divorced potatoes is gradually increasing.

However, it is important to note that divorce is not an ideal solution and can have many adverse effects on couples, children and families. Therefore, when facing marital problems, couples should actively seek ways to communicate and solve problems to maintain the stability and happiness of the family as much as possible. If you can't solve the problem, you can also try to seek professional marriage counseling or psychological** to help the couple better understand and deal with each other's problems.

Many, just look at the divorce, there may not be so many marriages.

The divorce rate is really high right now.

It can also be seen from the data that since 2019, the number of divorce registrations and the divorce rate in China have begun to decline. In 2020, 10,000 divorces were registered, a decrease of 10,000 couples from 2019, and the divorce rate dropped from 2 to 2 in 2021.

Some experts said that the decline in divorce data after 2019 is in line with the law of social development, and the decline in China's divorce rate after 16 consecutive years of continuous growth indicates that it has reached a peak and has begun to transition to a stable state. On the other hand, the setting of the cooling-off period for divorce also provides a "soil confidence" for the decline of the divorce rate to a certain extent.

The Civil Code of the People's Republic of China, which came into effect on 1 January 2021, has set up provisions on the cooling-off period system for divorce, and the Ministry of Civil Affairs has also adjusted the marriage registration procedure to add a cooling-off period to the divorce procedure.

In 2021, the number of divorce registrations handled by the civil affairs department was 10,000, a decrease from 10,000 couples in 2020.

In contrast, the number of registered marriages began to rise in 2002 and remained until 2013, and since then it has begun to decline.

Just compare it :

There are two pathways:

To register a divorce, the husband and wife can go to the marriage registration office to register the divorce if they reach a consensus through consultation. The content of the consensus should be reflected in the divorce agreement, including but not limited to the following: expression of intent to divorce, ownership of custody, payment of alimony, division of property, etc.

In litigation divorce, the husband and wife cannot reach an agreement through negotiation, so they can only go to the court to sue for divorce, and the court will decide whether to grant the divorce, and at the same time will decide on issues such as the ownership of custody, the payment of alimony, the division of property, and the ownership of creditor's rights and debts.

The relationship has indeed broken down" is a substantive requirement and a legal condition for granting a divorce. "Failure of mediation" is a procedural provision and cannot be regarded as a statutory condition for a divorce. Mediation should be carried out in the trial of divorce cases, and many cases in which mediation is ineffective are cases where the relationship has indeed broken down, and in this sense, "mediation is ineffective" is a reflection of "the relationship has indeed broken down".

In some divorce cases, although "mediation is ineffective", it is not "the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down". In mediation work, there are often differences between focus and ineffectiveness, in-depth and in-depth, etc., which directly affect the mediation effect. Years of civil trial practice have shown that the meanings of "mediation failure" and "relationship has indeed broken down" are not exactly the same, and "mediation failure" is not the same as "relationship has indeed broken down".

Therefore, "ineffective mediation" should not be used as a basis for determining that "the relationship has indeed broken down". In trial practice, it is not necessary to completely equate "the relationship has indeed broken down" with "mediation has failed". Nor should "mediation fail" simply be used as a sign that "feelings have indeed broken down".

Don't even use "ineffective mediation" as a legal condition for deciding a divorce. The legal condition for a divorce is only that "the relationship has broken down".

It's obvious that the attitude is resolute, and it's the kind that can't turn back. It is said that it is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy a marriage, in this case, most of the time the woman has already found a good home, I hope to be able to see it open, and mourn!

This is mainly related to many young couples born in the 90s, most of whom were only children back then, and they were more favored since childhood, and have a certain relationship, so the lack of this is mainly related to the fact that many young couples born in the 90s are mostly only children, and they have a certain relationship with being more favored since childhood, so there is a lack of experience in effectively managing marriage.

Actually, I think this situation is already very good on the other side. The clear attitude is that I want to divorce you and don't plan to live with you. Strong twisted melon is not sweet so. Yes, it should be carefully considered.

It feels like your marriage has come to an end, and the woman doesn't leave you any room for language! It shows that the relationship between you is irretrievable, and the woman's resolute attitude can be felt! What is the reason, maybe you should really calm down and think about your own problems!

But don't give up completely, the opportunity can still be fought for!

If you have a marriage certificate, you don't turn the marriage certificate into a divorce certificate, it's useless to say this, legally speaking, you are still husband and wife, if you don't have a marriage certificate, and the two people are just living together, then they are not considered husband and wife, and there can be no divorce, just a breakup.

It seems that the other party has made up his mind to divorce, and you have to be mentally prepared. It's good to get together and disperse, but I can't negotiate and sign a divorce agreement and go through the formalities.

The other party is determined to divorce, does not give you any chance to explain, does not want to live with you anymore, even if he goes through the legal process to divorce, at this time your retention will only make him more disgusted.

Is there any fake divorce? Since you don't have feelings, don't torture each other, go find your own happiness!

The woman's attitude, most of them have already been in love, the twisted melon is not sweet, you still look at it, when the break is constant, it will be chaotic, and it is wiser to break up.

The attitude is very tough, it may be that you have no feelings for you, or you have hurt her, she is dead, and she can't keep it, don't force it, the twisted melon is not sweet.

From the message, I can see that it is impossible for the other party and you to reconcile, and the will to break up with you is very strong, and I want to divorce you

Definitely, the other party has an intentional crush, and he wants to divorce you, since it is irretrievable, then don't force it.

I don't know if it's angry or what, but I can see that the other party's attitude is still very tough in the conversation. After a while, calm down and think carefully about the major matters of marriage

When the heart is gone, it will not be kept. Even if you can't leave this time, there will be a next time. So just look at the opening point and do your best, earn more money and talk less about feelings.

This is really wanting a divorce and there is no chance to keep it, it can be seen that the decision has been made, even if it is a legal process, it will be divorced.

In this case, it seems that you have really made up your mind, and it is best to be prepared for divorce.

I don't like you anymore for him, maybe it's been a long time and there is no novelty.

The heart is no longer there! Hurry up!

Don't have any illusions, she is very resolute.

Wang Leehom's suspected marriage case has entered the hot search. Recently, two couples with deep feelings in the entertainment industry have divorced one after another. Many netizens found no interaction between Wang Leehom and his wife, Li Lianglei.

Because Wang Licha, Lu Daihong and Li Lianglei once confessed, but now they have not interacted for almost two years. What is the relationship between Leehom Wang and Li Lianglei now? Leehom Wang's agent denied that Leehom Wang and Li Lianglei divorced.

In addition, some netizens revealed that they felt good when they saw Li Lianglei and Wang Leehom going out together in April. Wang Leehom and Li Lianglei got married and grew up in 2013. Although Leehom Wang was not well understood, he was still blessed.

Li Lianglei is a true witness to her growth. Although she was in love with (Leehom Wang), she ended up with (Li Lianglei), and she always knew each other (Li Lianglei). The two are a good match in terms of time and family background.

What's more, Li Lianglei still grew up watching Wang Leehom watch her. What kind of person is she, Wang Leehom knows her roots and shouts roots very well, so he can feel more at ease.

No one's life is smooth sailing, you can't self-deny because of a momentary setback, it is completely possible to live happily after divorce, focusing on your mentality and self-regulation ability after divorce.

If you just blindly complain about others, have an extremely negative attitude towards life, and are always immersed in the sorrow of divorce and are unwilling to come out, then the possibility of you achieving happiness is too small, because your three views, that is, the world's outlook on life and values, have collapsed because of a divorce, and you will be extremely unhappy, because you have lost the pursuit of happiness, and the blow of divorce will overwhelm you.

On the contrary, if you see this divorce as just a small episode in your life, no big deal, and a new life after the divorce, and pursue happiness with a positive and optimistic attitude, you will continue to reap happiness.

Therefore, it is not necessary to take divorce as so important without destroying your family, do what you should do, cherish the people in front of you, cherish the things around you, and embrace life with a positive and sunny attitude, so that you will have more happiness and joy; There is no need to immerse yourself in the grief of divorce all the time, it is not worth it, whether it is because of the person you can't forget, or those things you can't forget, you shouldn't continue to dwell on it.

We should continue to stride forward with our heads held high, why are we stagnating in one place when the road of life is so long.

If you have been stagnant, you will miss out on other scenery on the road of life, and there are better people and better things waiting for you ahead.

It's not terrible, when the horror of marriage outweighs the horror of divorce, it's time for divorce.

Marriage itself is a practice.

It is necessary to constantly reflect, run-in, tolerate, understand, and self-restore.

1. If you don't have children in the divorce, it feels relatively simple when everyone agrees on the division of property.

2. If you have children, it is recommended to consider the problem with the child as the core. For example, how to make more use of children's healthy growth. No form of education can replace the family's loving nurturing of children. The affection of husband and wife in front of their children can give them the greatest sense of security.

3. Marriage is the most taboo to find your own happiness from other people's marriages, because while you see the happiness of others, you must also see the quarrels, and marriage sometimes needs to have unlimited tolerance from one party. (except for optional questions).

4. The most feared thing about marriage is that there is no dependence on each other. Whether it is spiritual or material, psychological or physical. The absence of dependency is an important sign that a marriage is falling apart.

5. Marriage itself is a balance. Once you learn it, you will naturally know how to control it.

6. In a good job, I have had the urge to resign countless times. No matter how good a marriage is, there have been hundreds of impulses to strangle each other. When the impulse passes, the class has to go to the marriage and continue. Because impulses are impulses, and they can't replace reality. Otherwise you'll pay for impulse.

To sum up, divorce must be an unbearable thing. I started my marriage journey sensibly and seriously, and managed our marriage with kindness and tolerance. I believe that tomorrow may not be beautiful, but a better tomorrow will come.