After the blind date, whether to accept such a loss and regain 35

I don't think it's good either, first impressions are important.

Even if he didn't have a lot of fancy things at first, but it became so fast, and this kind of person was a little bit unkind.

Maybe he's a little unhappy with you before, or he doesn't want to have a deep relationship for some reason.

Maybe he didn't see you well after that, or maybe he heard something from others.

I think you're a good fit, so I'm looking for you again.

It is recommended that the landlord find someone who feels with him, at least the person who feels very simple after meeting will not make you tired. After dating, you will find that it is difficult for you to understand troublesome men.

You won't be okay in the future.

Hehe. That's how men are! Easily obtainable things are often not cherished! Things that are not easy to get hold of always want to get!

You take the initiative to ask him out! He'll think he's amazing! Will be curled pigtail drops!

A man like him! You'd better be lukewarm!

Hello. Xiaomei's professional love consultant asks you to solve your confusion.

a.At first it felt like you weren't up to his standards.

b.After that I think you're okay. So wanted to give it a try.

c.Playing ** again means that he is indeed sincere.

Xiaomei presents :)

Friend, I don't think people can show that they don't care about you from these few small points, you see. You make an appointment with him first. He may have a hard time to get out of his body that day, maybe he doesn't want to share it with you when he encounters something unpleasant, or he may have a pimple in an obvious place on his face, as if he can't take it, I have this experience, so he refuses.

As for your rejection of him, it is obvious that you don't give me face, I don't give you face, in fact, love can't be angry, you should go, he may say the reason for rejecting you that day, he was sad and said [sorry to bother], did you feel uncomfortable did you hear his explanation. Love well. I wish you success!

I think he's just showing people, maybe it's perfunctory to his parents or maybe it's a perfunctory introducer, you better ignore him, break it off early.

It's nothing, just a meal!

It's not for you to make decisions and determine relationships.

There's nothing to lose by going and seeing.

2. Self-righteous embarrassment.

I would like to analyze these two diagrams from the perspective of linguistic logic.

The boy's message here is summarized: Hello, I didn't believe it, but now I have to believe it. They are all honest and trustworthy people, and I am also their brother, and they will not lie to me.

Logically speaking, if the next bunch of words that seem to want to show their good popularity are true, then what is the reason for the first sentence of disbelief?

And then how did the original unbelief turn into having to believe?

Am I their brother? This sentence probably wants to pretend to be casual and emphasize that he is very popular.

But with the initial words of suspicion, these are difficult to hold.

There is one possibility that you want to overturn this skin: you are a suspicious person.

So even if it's a brother, even if it's an honest and trustworthy brother, you won't believe in them at first.

In this way, if the purpose of embarrassing the other party is not achieved, he will make himself a suspicious character.

It's nothing to be suspicious, to be suspicious and then have to believe... This sharp turn, the change is too fast, and the idea is changed without verification, and there is a suspicion of fickleness.

A few sentences reveal two shortcomings – not necessarily real, but that's what it looks like from the linguistic message.

Insincerity is a matter of character, and failure to express one's meaning is a matter of ability.

Most people who can't chat are stuck in the area of words.

In addition, the risk of embarrassment is high, so use with caution.

I have a relative too, the first time I chatted with the blind date on WeChat, I knew that there was a word Ting in the name of the other girl, he didn't wait to see **, and immediately dropped the book bag: The word Ting is so wow, the old saying has a cloud The woman is slender and beautiful for Ting.

He didn't know what to do, and he was intoxicated: he could afford it, he could afford it.

The fact is that the girl is sick and takes hormones, her weight has surged, and she is a fat type, but other conditions are fine.

But it's a pity that the first few embarrassing words made the girl disgusted, and she refused to give him a chance again.

It's a shameful old lease.

<> one. Introducer's Question 1This problem is also the problem of the elders, and it is very direct that most of the elders do not have a clear understanding of the real interests of the younger generations when they introduce them to the younger generations, but only match them according to the very superficial one, family conditions and personal income, in fact, most people lack understanding of the two parties he wants to introduce.

2.In addition, many elders are not seriously introduced, but spontaneously, and when they talk about gossip with relatives, neighbors and even colleagues, they arrange blind dates as they wish. You must know that even professional matchmakers may not do a good job in blind date introduction, and they are introduced at will, of course, the success rate is not high.

3.There is another point, sometimes the blind date introduced by the elders may be deliberately arranged to fail. In order to get married to their children, many elders have also put a lot of thought into the blind date.

In the conventional practice, I will deliberately find a few people who are not suitable or whose conditions are lower than the child's vision, let the child feel a round of frustration first, and then arrange themThe question of the person being introducedThe young man and woman who was introduced to the blind date actually have some problems themselves. Many people are singled because they have problems, or even problems with the opposite sex.

Of course, there are many people whose own conditions are not very good, and they do not recognize their own situation, and they have too high requirements for others, and they can't look down on them everywhere. In addition to the above two points, it is also very important that many young people are more exclusive to blind dates, and many still have expectations for themselves to find a partner, of course, there are also people who do not want to get off the list, and they will not succeed if they are forcibly arranged. Of course, putting aside these problems, it is not easy to find a partner by itself, otherwise everyone will not always say that fate is rare.

The blind date is actually a quick match of marriage, and when you fall in love, you will often find that there is no match and you will be separated and replaced, not to mention that marriage is a more prudent life event? The blind date itself is a quick marriage match, and it is naturally inappropriate, so it is normal to fail often.

Maybe it's because your appearance is not very handsome, and your job is not very ideal, your family conditions are not very good, and you are not very good at expressing yourself, so you will fail many times.

I think it's because I have higher requirements for the opposite sex, so it's difficult to meet someone I really like, or maybe it's because I'm not good enough to get the other party's appreciation.

Maybe it's because his personality isn't a very likable type, so the other party doesn't have any good feelings for him, and he fails more often.

That may be because of their own reasons, the first is that the appearance is not up to par, and the other is that their financial ability cannot meet the requirements of the other party, such as the requirements of the garage do not meet the requirements of the other party, and the most important thing is that it may not be so good to speak, which provokes the other party.

Maybe it's because your conditions are not good, and you can't speak, and you are particularly ungentle with women, so you end up failing.

It's mainly because I have too high requirements from the bottom of my heart or I don't want to find a partner, so I've experienced so many times and haven't met a suitable one.

It's because your own requirements are very high, and the other party's requirements are also very high, and you can't meet some good people, so you will end up failing.

I think it's probably because your current mind is not on blind dates, or because you haven't met someone you like, so you always fail.

It may be because of your own reasons, so you must find some problems in yourself, and the blind date has not been successful so many times, and you must have some of them.