Do you think there is a pure friendship between boys and girls?

Of course. Of course, there is pure friendship between men and women, but I think that whether there is pure friendship or not varies from person to person, and it is necessary to discuss it on a case-by-case basis.

There are two kinds of situations where there is pure friendship, one is that both people belong to delicate people. Girls and boys are both quiet and can discuss skin care products together, study foreign literature together, and love small animals together. Often they live as plain as water, and they just recognize each other's similarities.

And often people with such a watery personality are more eager to complement the other half of the personality, so pure friendship exists, and this is the case of my roommate and her good friend.

The other is like me and my buddy.,The kind of good buddy type that masturbates together.。 We can criticize each other mercilessly, for example, I said that he was too big to die, and he laughed at me for being too healthy. I showed off to him how well-behaved my boyfriend was, and he shared with me his flirting process, which was very comfortable and pure to get along with.

It's been seven or eight years now, no matter how long we don't have contact, as long as we get in touch, we can immediately, roll up our sleeves and make hot pots, tell jokes, we just don't need to keep in touch, and we won't be afraid of friendship deterioration. <>

But there are some men and women who really dare not say whether there is pure friendship between them. For example, there is a girl in the high school class who is also more lively, her best friend is a boy, she will go to him when she gets out of class, and even hug him, but during this period she has someone she likes or has a boyfriend. Like me and my buddy, although we have a good relationship, we never have physical contact.

There is also a girl I knew before, she is more beautiful, she has a friend of the opposite sex who can't tell whether it is a boyfriend or a boyfriend or a spare tire, and when she is sad, she goes to him to cry and find him to comfort her, and she always jokes at each other in the space, and the relationship is more ambiguous, which makes people doubt the inexplicable relationship between the two of them.

I think that there is a higher probability that two friends of the opposite sex with similar personalities have a pure friendship. However, regardless of whether this proposition is true or not, at least one principle must be followed, that is, do not let your boyfriend or girlfriend be dissatisfied, friends of the opposite sex can have, but you must stop at politeness and avoid unnecessary trouble.

Personally, I don't think there is pure friendship between men and women. At least around me, the unjustified friendships between men and women that I have seen are the beginning of bad intentions.

We often say that companionship is the most affectionate confession, if the other person is not interesting to you, then what is the reason for him to spend his time with you? Is the other party very idle? Come on, time is life, and if you are willing to take your "life" to accompany you, the other party may not be idle.

Everyone has IQ and EQ**, there's no reason not to know the reason why the other party is good to you, right? Maybe at first, he doesn't love you deeply, but at least the other party should like you and don't hate you. and then stand by your side as a friend, and in the end, they will either accompany each other for a long time and look at each other and develop into a couple, or they have a thief's heart and no thief's courage to be ambiguous.

Some people may think that my idea is too absolute. However, if you think about it, there is always a cause and effect for what happens in this world. The other party is not your relative and doesn't want anything from you, so why should he be nice to you and always be with you?

What is the reason? Even if the other party is really too big, has no special feelings for you and wants to be good to you for no reason, and always accepts the help and companionship of the other party, as the party concerned, will you really have no abnormalities in your heart and will accept it with peace of mind? If you encounter a little twists and turns in this indifferent world, and the other party has a warm support, will there really be no change in your heart?

Therefore, I have always recognized that there is no hatred for no reason, and there is no love for no reason. I think it's harder to love someone all the time than to hate someone. Friendships between friends, especially between men and women, can easily be catalyzed into love by small things in this world.

I'm not completely denying that there is friendship between men and women, but I think that even if there is friendship between men and women, it is possible that there is often a turmoil in the heart and too many obstacles. In the end, he was forced to extinguish his blood.

There are several types of friendship between boys and girls: men and women are friends who grew up together, they share the same values and worldview, and they can cherish each other. The interaction between people, whether they are of the same sex or the opposite sex, in order to maintain a long-term and stable relationship between each other, must be the result of the joint efforts of both parties.

When friends get along with each other, they must know how to understand each other. Everyone is this independent, friends usually because of their own living conditions, can not often contact each other, busy, do not even have time to reply to each other's messages, when the other party is sad, can not be with each other's side, must know how to understand each other, do not rely too much on each other.

To maintain a long-term friendship between friends of the opposite sex, the most important thing is to grasp the distance and scale of getting along. In the friendship between boyfriend and girlfriend, you must figure out your own emotions, that is, whether you have more feelings for each other than between friends. Men and women can become good friends, both sides must appreciate each other, once this appreciation is invested in other emotions, then, this friendship will no longer be as simple as friends, both of you are likely to come together, if you both have no object, the probability will be higher.

Therefore, if a boy wants to maintain a long-term friendship with a girl, he must keep a distance from the other party after recognizing his feelings, and don't let the other party have unnecessary misunderstandings.

A boy is more rational in his external interactions, but it is difficult for him to grasp the distance and scale of his interactions, because he will not be as imaginative as women. Girls care too much about the opposite sex and are prone to admiration, while when boys treat female friends, Du Hui quietly treats each other as brothers, so it is very important to grasp the distance and scale.

I think there is still a pure friendship between boys and girls, for example, two people who have grown up are the same as each other and their families, and they don't have any ideas at all, and their feelings will be very pure.

I don't think there's really a pure friendship between boys and girls, because the opposite sex is attracted to each other, and if two people are on a particularly good relationship together, it means that two people may secretly love each other.

is believed, because there has been such a friendship in reality, for example, Xie Na and He Jiong on the TV station have a very good friendship.