Did you realize for a moment that your parents were getting old, and were you scared at that moment?

Yes. Very scared.

Maybe it's because the older you get, the more uncomfortable it is to see topics involving your loved ones. I think I first realized the concept of my parents getting old when my parents drove five hours to accompany me to report in my freshman year. At the same time, I realized that my parents are really the people I love the most in the world.

On the night they finally drove back, I saw my mom holding my hand and crying silently for the first time. Actually, it's not a big deal, but I don't know why it's very, very reluctant, I don't want to be separated from them for even a second, and I feel very relieved wherever I have them.

Aging has never been about physical appearance for me, what really scares me is the change in the mentality of my parents. Because my major was finally decided in my junior year, and I had two directions to choose from, my parents especially wanted me to study economics and didn't want me to study management, but I still chose management despite their dissuasion. If I was choosing arts and sciences in high school, they would definitely not take into account my ideas and help me choose, which can be said to be very strong; But for now, the last thing they say about it after learning of my final choice is:

Mom and Dad will always be your strong backing. "At that time, tears came down when I saw it. Maybe they've realized that I've grown up and have my own independent mind, and I can't decide anything for me anymore like I used to.

This touched me both and inexplicably.

I have had many dreams about my loved ones dying of old age, and every time I wake up, the pillow towel is wet. fear that death will take them away, fear that old age will destroy them; I am afraid that after a few decades, their once wise eyes will no longer be there, and I am afraid that after a few decades, all they can feel is a pinch of loess. So every time I hold my mother, I feel very sad at the thought that such a warm embrace may be difficult to have in the future.

I also had the problem of death with my parents, but unexpectedly they were very free and easy, telling me that when they were old, they would help me take care of the children, take a walk, play cards, dance, and comfort me not to think about these things too early, just let it be. I am grateful that they have always been optimistic and positive in the face of unknown aging and death.

I used to just want to grow up quickly and have my own family and life, but now I just want to cherish the moment and every day with them. No one will love you more than your parents. It's a cliché, but it's true.

Parents will grow old one day, we will grow up one day, I know we are all afraid of that day, but all we can do is not let it"The son wants to raise but does not wait".It happened to us. Take advantage of today to express your love to your parents. it's never too late to say that.

When I was a child, I felt that my parents were superhuman and would never grow old, and I would never grow up myself, and they would always be by my side, cry with me, make trouble with me, and protect me.

But the fact is that I have indeed grown up, and I have slowly realized that my parents are indeed old, and at this time there is a trace of fear in my heart, afraid that my parents will grow old, and that my parents will leave me one day in the future.

When did you realize that your parents are old, probably because you see that your parents have more than one or two gray hairs, and before going to college, you have been living with your parents, living together, and getting along day and night, so you look at it every day, and you don't pay special attention to the changes in your parents, but now that you are in college, you go to college in other places, and you only go home once a semester, and when you come home after the first semester of your freshman year, you suddenly see your parents who haven't seen you for a long time, and the biggest feeling is how your parents suddenly got old, and there are more gray hairs. In fact, my parents are not getting old all of a sudden, the years are fair, every day we grow up, our parents will grow old one day, but we usually don't pay attention to it, at that moment I was very touched, I really realized that my parents are getting old day by day.

I used to be beaten by my parents when I was a child, because I was disobedient and I didn't have the ability to resist at that time, but now that I'm older, my parents don't beat me anymore, they all reason with me, or maybe they can't beat me, because I have the ability to resist and defend myself (haha kidding).

When I was rebellious in adolescence, I always quarreled with my parents and made them angry, but now I have learned a lot since I realized that my parents are old, and I will not make them angry, thinking about my parents' love for me, and thinking about my parents being aging day by day, my heart is still very sad.

I'm really afraid of my parents getting old, but this is not something I can control, so I can only try to honor and love my parents while they are still with me, and never let my parents grow old faster than I grow.

My parents grew up with me, they were by my side every day, and I could see them every day, so I felt that my parents would not change much. Gradually, I came out to go to college, and I went home less and less often, and I didn't look at my parents every day, and I could see the changes every time I went home.

I myself am constantly changing, my external and internal are maturing, towards the path of maturity and stability, but at the same time, my parents are slowly aging, and my parents' young time is slowly decreasing.

In fact, I saw my parents getting old early, when I was in high school, my mother's hair had climbed on the gray hair, sometimes there was still a lot of gray hair, and my mother went to buy hair dye to dye her hair black every time she waited for more gray hair. Because my classmates around me also have gray hair, that belongs to the hereditary less white head, at that time I thought it would not be very serious, I think my mother is not so old, how many gray hair, sometimes she dyes her hair can not see the place let me help her apply hair dye, I am also very relaxed and feel like nothing to help her get it, when I see the white hair, my mother always says that she has more things to worry about, so the hair is grayer faster and more. At that time, I believed it and didn't think too much about it.

It wasn't until I received the acceptance letter that I gradually became more sensible and noticed the changes in my parents when I started to prepare for a long distance away from home to go to school, but I didn't pay much attention to the things I just thought about and didn't pay much attention to. On the night I left home on the way to school, in the dim light, I could clearly see that the mother I was holding had a lot of wrinkles on her face, and the father who accompanied me to the school to report saw his back when he left me and went home, just like the description from Zhu Ziqing's "Back", at this time I suddenly realized that my parents were really old and did not have the temperament they had when they were young. When you go home or chat in the future, you can see the status of your parents more clearly.

A sour taste welled up in my heart. Thinking of that sentence, you raise me young, and I raise you old.

First of all, when you are immersed in work.

I remember when I was a child, there was always such a picture in my mind: my parents were buried in the fields, and their clothes were soaked with sweat. But staring at the scorching sun, the parents still buried their heads in hard work.

At that time, I was a little kid, I could only sit on the sidelines and watch my parents, although I didn't know how to understand my parents at that time, but the picture of my parents working hard was deeply engraved in my mind. Later, as I grew up, I felt more and more that it was not easy to be a vice president, and I will never forget the picture of my parents burying their relatives and working, and that moment is the best proof of my parents' dedication to the family and children.

Secondly, see the gray hair of the parents.

I don't know when, I found out that my parents had gray hair on their heads, and at that moment I felt that it was too difficult for my parents, and the fatigue of life made them have white hair prematurely. My parents, who were young and strong in front of me, suddenly turned white, and I felt very guilty and uneasy. I don't feel comfortable accepting my parents' aging, and I also lament that life is not easy.

Again, see the wrinkles of the parents.

Also, the moment I noticed that Zen Zhihao's parents' faces had wrinkles, I suddenly felt very sour in my heart. At that moment, I suddenly felt that life was too difficult, and at the same time, I felt powerless as a child. Parents congratulate the whole family, and they no longer care about their appearance and aging.

They feel that their family and children are the most important, and that they have only selflessness in their hearts, not themselves.

In the hearts of each of our children, there may be many moments of life, in which we find that our parents are old, that our parents are hunchbacked, and that our parents are always giving to our children. Love your parents more and go home more to spend time with your parents.

Parents are your armor and weakness. Was there a moment when you noticed that your parents were really old? In CCTV's "Hello Life" program, host Xiao Ni's narration touched many netizens.

Everyone has a story about their parents, and that story is often about regrets, just like you grow up and they grow older. On the good day of Qixi Festival, this time, we might as well throw our "love" to a different "him" and "her" - no matter whether we succeed or fail, we are willing to give a lifetime of love and never abandon our parents.

At what point did you notice that your parents were getting older?

The following is compiled from netizens.

When the parents' faces quietly change.

There are college students who are working hard: One morning during the winter vacation, I accompanied my father to buy vegetables on a whim, and the vegetable market was all for acquaintance business, and I watched Dad Chain pick and choose among the enthusiastic greetings of the vendors. When I was about to leave, the girl who weighed me suddenly shouted to my father:

Uncle, wait a minute, there will be fresh beans soon! "I'm shocked, uncle? Looking at my father again, it is true that his temples are gray ......

I'm Xiao Zhan's brother: one day I came home and saw my mother clumsily dyeing her hair with inferior hair dye, and she proudly showed me that the hair dye was made with Aunt Zhang downstairs, less than 30 yuan, and the effect was better than that of the barbershop. This was the first time I knew that she had started dyeing her hair, and it turned out that my mother's black hair was not taken for granted.

When the parents finally admit that they can't do it.

Zhang Qiangqiang: My mother sent me a WeChat message one day and said that I couldn't see things recently, and I was suddenly scared and wanted to cry. My mother is old, but I have achieved nothing myself, and I have not even done anything worthy of her pride......

Commitment: I remember when I was a child, my father liked to drink a little wine, usually a pot of wine, plus a small plate of peanuts, in recent years I found that he began to think that peanuts were too hard, always said that he was bored and his mouth was useless!

The bridge is close to the end of the world: when I was a child, my mother took me for a walk to exercise, my mother walked fast, and I always complained: "Mom, you slow down, I can't keep up!"

Yesterday I walked with her in the neighborhood, and she said twice on the way: "You walk so fast, I'm so tired to follow." ”

When parents put down their favors and consciously maintain them.

Early Summer: When it was time to eat, Dad took the initiative not to eat so much rice, and he didn't want to eat any too much meat. He used to love to cook all kinds of big fish and meat.

He was really starting to grow old, so much so that the feedback from his body made him voluntarily compromise his appetite, and this feeling touched the door in my heart that I didn't want to face but was caught off guard, and I even miss the time when he could eat and cook, and the time when he was full of the smell of food.

At that moment, I began to feel that my parents were getting older. It was an ordinary weekend afternoon, and I came home to see my parents sitting on the couch, watching TV in the same upright posture as they used to. Their hair has become thinner, and there are a few more wrinkles on it.

I suddenly felt a wave of sadness, as if I had never felt it before.

My parents used to be so young, they were busy working every day, taking care of me and my siblings. They gave us a lot and used all their energy. We've grown up, and our parents have gotten older. But I never really realized the fact that they were getting older.

I looked at their faces, and the wrinkles and the marks of the years were deeply imprinted in my mind. I started thinking about their physical and health problems. I began to worry about whether their pension was sufficient, whether they needed better health insurance, whether they needed more attention and care.

At this moment, I began to pay more attention to my parents' lives, trying to make time to visit them on weekends and holidays. I started talking to them more and listening to their stories and experiences when I was younger. I started to help them with some of their problems and problems as much as I could, so that they felt that I was always there to support and support them.

At that moment, I also began to cherish my time more and cherish every minute and second with my parents. I realized that time flies, we all grow old, and the health of our parents also needs our attention and care. We can't change the passage of time, but we can do what we can to make them feel warm and happy as they grow older.

At this moment, I began to realize that my parents were getting older and that we had to cherish every day with them and make their old age as comfortable and happy as possible.