After the two quarrel, who usually gives in first?

Updated on society 2024-04-26
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Generally speaking, it is the boys who take the soft first.

    A girl's psychology and independence, when you make a big noise, she may realize her own problems, but she still can't open her mouth. She wants to save face in this war with you. Girls don't like to grovel, it's just a position.

    For boys, they love their partner, they can't bear to see her cry, they can't bear to see her groveling, they like to take the initiative to admit their mistakes, because they love so they take the initiative. It is not that a man is soft first, but that he is generous and dares to take responsibility. They are afraid of losing.

    Possess the best tolerance.

    In my house, I'm used to the two of them arguing. But every time my father would go to please my mother, and I was reconciled. Dad loves Mom, he will be considerate of her and take care of her, but sometimes society overwhelms him, and he can't do anything about it.

    Mom will complain and will be disgusted. But Dad's sentence I love you is worth a thousand words. <>

    There is no right or wrong in love, it is tolerant and humble. It doesn't make sense to each other, but it depends on the final memory. Even if you are a loving couple, you will quarrel without leaving a trace.

    Don't you say it, real men don't lose their temper with their women, they will be spoiled, but after a long time, the days will be noisy. The noisier it is, the warmer it is.

    But every family has its own rules. I always think that girls should be independent and save face. Be dignified. The moment you start to be a couple. You are going to occupy the main position so that in your later married life.

    I will never be angry.

    On the contrary, groveling at the beginning, there will be no good ending, and it must be you who will please the other party.

    It doesn't matter who is soft. You are both the ones you love the most. It doesn't matter, quarrels and reconciliation are still the ones who love each other the most.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is no need to think about this problem, it is necessary for the man to give in first, there is no doubt about it. The first is that we women are very patient, if two people quarrel, as long as you ignore me, then I can ignore you forever, it is so enduring, and there are many aspects to illustrate this problem.

    If the two quarrel, the woman will definitely not be able to cook, right, I think the average family is a woman cooking, if the woman is angry, hum, you still eat? If you want to eat, cook it yourself, who will cook for you, really, that's the point, the man will usually give in first. Otherwise, if you don't accept the softness, you won't have anything to eat, right?

    Don't think that the woman doesn't have a big status in the family, it's not like this, and you will know the role of the woman when the two of you are super together. For those who have children in the family, the man will only be softer faster, because usually the mother cooks, cleans the housework or something, if there is a quarrel, the mother must not do anything, then at this time the child will definitely let the father cook, do housework!

    The man is very lazy, and he doesn't want to do these things, so he will take the initiative to give the woman soft, it's so effective, if you don't do it yourself, you should ask others to do it, let the woman cook, of course, you have to be soft with her, right!

    My family is like this, every time my dad and my mom quarrel, my mom doesn't do anything, just go back to the house to sleep, but a few of us want to eat, my dad also wants to eat, and when my dad is hungry, my dad will take the initiative to talk to my mom, my mom also ignores him, and then my dad's various softenings, and finally my mom will be angry.

    I also believe that many families are softened by the man first, otherwise life will not be over, and the family must be the priority.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The man, because the man will be angry for a slightly shorter period of time, and the man's gas will be larger.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After the two quarrel, under normal circumstances, the man is soft first, because the man doesn't care.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Softness will be more conducive to long-term family harmony.

    If both sides are stubborn and stubborn, it will only be endlessly quarrelling, which affects the relationship between husband and wife, and is just another way to deal with the problem, and then everyone is calm down and then ** this matter, there is no need to keep entangled in who is right and who is wrong, even if you win, but you lose the feelings, the gains outweigh the losses.

    Husband and wife.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When I quarrel with my boyfriend, I will take the initiative to give in, because feelings are not a person's thing, and I need to learn to compromise so that I can get a good result. If you want the feelings of two people not to be answered, I think that taking the initiative to soften will ease each other's feelings. 1. It is normal for two people to quarrel together, but after the quarrel, they should learn to take the initiative to solve the problem of staring and fighting, otherwise it will affect each other's feelings.

    For me, it is not the key question who takes the initiative to submit to the softness, the most important thing is to be able to solve the problems of the two people in a timely manner. Since the other party doesn't have any practice, it is not a shame to take the initiative yourself, so that you can restore your deep feelings as soon as possible. Second, don't let the problem stay for too long, quarreling will definitely affect each other's feelings, if you don't take the initiative to soften, the conflict will escalate, I am an anxious person, I don't want to leave the problem tomorrow otherwise I won't sleep well at night.

    When there is a quarrel, even if it is your own problem, but you will take the initiative to communicate with the other party, you don't want the two people to be in a silent state, and the first softness does not explain what the problem is, just an attitude problem, which will make it easier for the other party to calm down. 3. Cherish the opportunity to be together It is not easy for two people to come together, if you really love each other, I think it is not a big deal to take the initiative to be soft, you just need to have the courage to let the other party see your sincerity. I believe that if the other party really loves himself and sees that he is willing to bow his head to face this matter, then he will also self-examine, so that the conflict between the two people can be resolved.

    Feelings are a matter of two people, as long as you are willing to take the first step, I believe that the remaining ninety-nine steps will be accompanied by the other party. When two people quarrel, they will sell themselves and take the initiative to submit to softness, which will make the other party unbearable, so that they will cherish themselves more, and they will review themselves together, so as to obtain the greatest happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Answering who admits mistakes first when husband and wife quarrel, first of all, it should be a man who admits his mistake first, a manly man, can bend and stretch, it is impossible to worry so much with his wife, just say a few words, women generally do not admit their mistakes first, but think in their hearts that their husbands will admit their mistakes quickly, don't say it, and still wish that their husbands would admit their mistakes first, they have face, and they have under the stairs, if they are two dead and carry one to say soft words, it is likely to cause contradictions, sulking, you ignore me, I ignore you, it will be troublesome, so say, There is nothing wrong with a man admitting his mistake first.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's normal to quarrel But as a man, you should have a big measure Don't be serious with your beloved wife There is no right or wrong in trivial matters in life As long as it's not a matter of principle Even if it's a matter of principle, you have to ease your emotions first and then be reasonable In fact, people understand the truth It's just that it's not reasonable with you Who makes you spoil her the most.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Depending on the situation, generally boys will coax girls first, but it can't always be boys who compromise first. Girls can also compromise appropriately. In this way, the two of them will get better and better, and the quarrel with the Cold War hurts feelings, so it is better to deal with it early.

    Two people can sit down calmly and talk.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It depends, if I'm vexatious, I'll take it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Those who value this relationship more, take it first'

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Softness will be more conducive to long-term family harmony.

    If both sides are stubborn and stubborn, it will only be endlessly quarrelling, which affects the relationship between husband and wife, and is just another way to deal with the problem, and then everyone is calm down and then ** this matter, there is no need to keep entangled in who is right and who is wrong, even if you win, but you lose the feelings, the gains outweigh the losses.

    Husband and wife.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Not necessarily. If it is the woman's problem, then the woman should be soft first. The man has to give the girl a step. That way their relationship will be better.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Generally speaking, this is the case, because husband and wife must quickly reconcile their quarrels, and wives are generally weaker, and they care more about their own feelings, and always want their husbands to love themselves more, and then they are soft.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't think it's necessary for the man to give in first. First of all, we must see where the fault is, don't be unreasonable, learn to communicate reasonably, and solve problems together, instead of blindly asking the man to be soft, but also to take care of the man's feelings.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think so, but most of them are better for men to be soft, but I think men and women are equal, and whoever is at fault should apologize, and you can't keep the man bowing his head.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Not necessarily. Because whoever is justified does not need to apologize, and if the man is reasonable, the man does not have to be soft.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This is not necessarily, you can also see what the source of the problem is, who is wrong, and then the wrong party can apologize first, so that the two can live for a long time.

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