Emotional indifference, holding the right hand in the left hand, how to describe the situation after

It is easy to lose the freshness, especially after marriage, it is easy to quarrel over trivial matters, because two people lack secrets after a long time。Whether the other party is good or bad, they can see it clearly at a glance. There's no pre-marriage romance.

And two people are prone to quarrels. This is especially true when the economy is not well-off. Of course, I have experienced this kind of life before, but later because my husband has a heart, I got out of this situation.

Because later we have common interests, we no longer feel bored after marriage, and often because of discussions, the relationship is further developed. <>

It can be said that our relationship is quite good, but later, after staying together for a long time, the relationship changed. Because I often argue over trivial matters, I am very tired with him. Then they don't want to talk to each other.

It wasn't until later that I began to reflect on the situation, and he calmed down, and we asked each other about the situation, and learned that the other party thought the same as myself, and then it was easy to run in. <>

We start to create romance for each other. He would bring a bouquet of flowers after work, and I would pick out the right tie for him, and sometimes I would watch TV next to him while he played a game. We don't have to accommodate each other's habits, as long as we can see each other, we never leave.

Of course, sometimes we will take a weekend to spend separately with friends, so that the marriage will be fresher and we will not feel disgusted by getting along. So, I don't bother about getting married now. <>

But we did have a bad upfront game. That's because we never thought it would be like this. Although they used to love each other, their nature has changed later.

We begin to dislike being with each other, either because we dislike each other for not having an image, or because we are tired of living this kind of life. In short, we often have friction. But there may also be an emotional basis, so it's good to talk about it later.

We are also willing to try for each other, adding ways that we didn't have before, no matter what, I still trust him more, and I think he can give me a better future.

I think the situation after marriage is not only about holding the left hand and holding the right hand, sometimes it will become the most familiar stranger, and the two people can stay together for a day without communication and without any intersection.

Life after marriage is like chicken ribs, it is a pity to discard it if it is tasteless, and it will also make it very difficult for two people to get along in marriage, resulting in a lot of contradictions, and making each other feel very tired.

The situation after marriage is actually determined by the attitude of the two people, and if the two people can manage their relationship well, then the situation will be very good.