How to become apathetic? 10. How to become apathetic?

People who are too enthusiastic will make people feel very annoying, I have a colleague who is too enthusiastic, sometimes I am annoying, but I put up with it and never mentioned it to her.

First of all, don't talk all the time, when I was eating with my colleague, she kept telling me to eat her food, I was dizzy, change!! Actually, you just have to say it once!

Also, she likes to call me when she goes out to buy anything, in fact, I don't want to accompany her, so she keeps calling me, and says you can go see something too, dizzy! Change, do your own things, don't always call others, others will be annoying!

She moved too slowly, she got off work, I didn't listen to her get off work, she said wait a minute, call her later, wait a minute, it's okay to wait a minute, anyway, it's going to be a few times! It's very unhappy! Change!

If you're going to wait, you can ask someone else to go first, because there's a good chance they're in a hurry!

Anyway, don't force people to do something!!

Becoming indifferent lies in the real transformation of the state of mind, shouting every day to change, how to change is useless. Like myself, some time ago I also shouted that I wanted to become mature, but in fact, I haven't changed at all. Sometimes, I suddenly become ......It's not apathy, it's not mature, I don't know how to describe it, it's just that kind of ......Let the heart stop like water.

In fact, to become indifferent, it is actually a kind of maturity, a kind of maturity that lowers one's emotions and is buried deep in the heart, not without feelings, no one can enter your world. Experience more things, add more experience, and slowly transform, and there is also to force your vanity and don't show off. It's hard, but it's good to keep a normal heart.

This is my first question, and I'm usually the same as you. This is for you and for myself......

The enthusiasm was good. Maybe someone annoys you. However, why change yourself for them, it's not worth it.

If you want to make your enthusiasm closer to people, you can make yourself kinder and more considerate.

When you decide to be apathetic, people will miss your enthusiasm.

When I decided to treat others with indifference, the first thing I couldn't stand was myself.

In someone else's world, you may be an annoying guy, and indifference is very simple: when you see someone you hate, when he comes to talk to you, he only uses one or two words perfunctory, his face is expressionless, and he can't laugh.

Think before you say anything. It makes sense.

Don't be told anything, you just answer it.

The personality of an indifferent person: he talks little, he doesn't like to laugh, he doesn't know how to love people, he doesn't care about anything, and this type of person tends to have a small social circle.

Indifference is "expressionless, very cold, don't like to talk, don't know how to care about others, don't know how to love others, don't care about anything", the real character of the stool wide indifference, I think it should be like I set up a door for myself in my heart, lock a lock, and don't let others enter me.

The real character is indifferent and easy to lose his temper with others, and he is actually losing his temper with himself, but he wants to communicate with people, which is very contradictory, and this root has a lot to do with the environment in which he grew up in Zao Town.

In fact, people who are indifferent in their hearts are often more difficult to detect, and they will participate in various activities and gatherings like ordinary people, and behave like ordinary people.

However, at the same time of in-depth communication, it is often more difficult to find topics that the indifferent person will talk about, and it will be obvious that the indifferent person has few words, has always been in the position of an observer, and the way of speaking is different from the indifference of ordinary people, but an attitude that does not care about the feelings of others. When talking to people who are indifferent in their hearts, you can feel the coldness that emanates from the bottom of your heart.

Apathy is simple. Just don't sympathize with anyone. As long as it's not related to your own vital interests, you don't care.

Especially when you need to help Zhichang Qin and pay. You think of the other person like a frozen snake, and if you live it, it will bite you quickly. If you think like that, you'll be apathetic.

The real indifference is when you dangle in front of his eyes, and he turns a blind eye.