How do you guide a selfish adult male to be considerate of others?

Selfishness is a relatively common psychological pathological phenomenon, and selfishness refers to looking out for one's own interests, not caring for the interests of others, their country and society. A person's personality concept, living habits and lifestyle, etc., are all cultivated all year round, it is difficult to change these things, it has been deeply rooted in the bones, becoming a part of a person's studies, suddenly jumping out of a person to let you change this and that, it's annoying enough to think about it, how can you change it. Everyone's family background, the things they have experienced are different, the view of things will inevitably be different, you don't have to stand in your own perspective to look at anything, respect other people's ideas, respect for differences is better respect for yourself.

So with a selfish person, we can only try to adapt to him and improve him, but to completely change him, it is almost impossible.

If you don't want to be a selfish person, you must first think about others everywhere. Only in daily interactions with friends and strangers, correct one's mentality, encounter problems related to interests, and consider problems from the other party's perspective in a timely manner. For example, what does he need my help with?

How can I help him? Have I done my best to help him? Always thinking about others, you will invisibly relax your state of mind and let yourself out of the psychological vortex of selfishness.

Then move him with your character.

People will have a selfish side, and they can't change all of them into a selfish person. However, through education and learning, we can improve our personal realm and open-mindedness; Through the handling of the relationship between people and people, people and society, let the self-interest be less and altruism more. People still have to have a little spirit, and this spirit is manifested in the spirit of sacrifice and selflessness.

Should we abandon the concept of being a man and doing things for profit, advocate a little dedication, give more roses, and let our hands stay fragrant.

It's really hard. A person's selfishness is the embodiment of his worldview, outlook on life, and values. This is a gradual formation in his long-term life practice.

There may also be a genetic factor). To change this kind of ideology, only by starting from receiving re-education, society, school, and family should re-engage with him, contribute to society, be enlightened by helpfulness, broaden one's horizons, and improve one's realm, so that one can transcend the ordinary. Of course, the environment in which he lives is also important.

A selfless, harmonious and helpful society is sure to educate and promote everyone.

Everyone is selfish, to varying degrees. If you are unfortunate enough to encounter a very selfish person who is only on guard, at least keep your heart away from him or her. If the degree is light, it's good to say, there is an old saying called learning from good people, I went to class for ten years, during which I met three people who were selfish (different time periods), others were reluctant to work with them because they used to love to take advantage of others, and later arranged for me to work with them, usually I use every opportunity to lead by example, subtly take out the patience of my brothers and sisters to teach it, the central idea is, you help others, others can help you, you are not helping others, but you are actually helping yourself!

After about three months, everyone privately commented that someone was not so selfish?! Let's hide our merit and fame!