Am I a selfish woman?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-05
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What you say makes a lot of sense.,Girls want their boyfriends' money to save more for their lives in the future.。。。 It's not that you're selfish, and your boyfriend himself is unreliable, and he found some people who only take money and don't work... You'll be watching your boyfriend for a while, and if he really gets the benefit of his so-called acquaintances, then the money will be rewarded...

    If there is no return ... Then you will see if you want to stay with your boyfriend.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    How can this be called selfishness? Although your boyfriend's sentence that acquaintances are easy to do things is right, but it must also be a useful acquaintance Maybe your boyfriend is also helpless Everyone is so familiar and embarrassed to say I don't think it's a trivial matter They all say that brothers settle accounts and work together to be more careful Because you are now in the entrepreneurial stage Small money is very important Discuss it with your boyfriend In the future, there will be old borrowers who say no Don't do things for nothing and get paid Usually let them do it Don't be embarrassed People have to learn to say no! I wish you all the best in your career!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Men have their own plans, and maybe they are good friends. Maybe you don't know very well, you are just boyfriend and girlfriend now, and you should give him more freedom. You are also good for him, but you have to make it clear to him well, you can be tactful, and men also want to save face.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think there are no rules, the company should have the appearance of the company, no matter how many good friends you used to have, in the company is the relationship between subordinates, do well to reward, bad to punish! You're not a shelter! When recruiting, you should negotiate and find a job that suits them!

    Everyone has a specialty! What acquaintances are easy to do? It also depends on the person, anyway, what should be done according to the company system can be done.

    Some people don't have him, but they don't have him!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Of course, this "villain" is still up to you, after all, it is your boyfriend's friend, there are some things he doesn't say much, you can talk to them separately, just talk about the current situation of the company, let them put forward some reasonable suggestions, how to get out of the company's current predicament.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Be a vigorous woman! You take care of the finances, and you can't be a gangster in the company.

    Tell your husband that it's okay to use your own money for dinner, and it doesn't matter how much you use. However, the company's money can not be spent indiscriminately, as long as you control it, I believe that the company will soon improve, if you can't, just look for a company to remember, it is best for you to know, iron-faced, help you manage. And no matter what your husband says he is ignorant, you can't fire him, your husband is so easy to talk to, then it's not difficult for you to get him, right?

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm selfish, I need to remind my boyfriend more, but try not to meddle in the company's affairs.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think this is righteous anger or something. Forget about the mess, they won't be ashamed, what face do you give them.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Before you get married, don't worry too much, or your boyfriend will find you annoying.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't approve of my former colleagues being subordinates, because some things are inconvenient.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Not selfish, you have to be a treasurer, cashier and accountant.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Is it a company? Or is it a playhouse?

    Not as majestic as the boss.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's understandable that you're uncomfortable with the budget schedule your boyfriend has given you, as everyone has different perspectives and preferences when it comes to money and financial arrangements. However, this does not mean that you are selfish.

    Money management is an important topic when it comes to cohabitation or living together. There are different methods and philosophies when it comes to dealing with finances, such as the AA system (equal write-off), proportional apportionment, common accounts, etc. Everyone has their own economic situation, values, and preferences, and as a result, may have different opinions and feelings.

    If you are not feeling well, it is advisable to communicate openly and honestly with your boyfriend to express your feelings and concerns. It is important to discuss and find a mutually acceptable solution together. You can make other financial arrangements, such as pro-rata spending, sharing according to your earning capacity, or creating a common budget plan.

    The key is to establish open, honest and respectful communication, understand each other's perspectives and needs, and find a balanced and fair solution. Remember, money management is a shared responsibility that requires mutual understanding and cooperation.

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