A boyfriend who has just been dating wants to end our relationship under the arrangement of his pare

Updated on psychology 2024-04-19
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I feel that it takes a long time to get to know someone, and it is recommended that you should observe him carefully. It's true that parents are a big consideration, and I'm struggling with that as well. But parents feel sorry for their children, and no parents can bear to force their children to give up the person they like, provided that he really loves you.

    Therefore, if you are willing to go back with him to settle down, and he really likes you and is willing to marry you, his parents should not have much of a problem.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not a matter of affection, love.

    It's his own problem, don't blame me for saying bad things about him.

    First of all, if he is really filial enough, then he must know the type of girl that his parents like, since he is not with you because of his parents.

    Then he must consider his parents' tastes in advance when choosing a girlfriend.

    Don't use family affection to prevaricate love A man who has no ability to make decisions at a critical moment is a waste Congratulations on leaving a man who likes to make excuses and has no ability to make decisions.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Men who can't stick to the end, don't do it!

    It only means that he is not your cup of tea

    What is yours is yours, not yours, and you can't grab it.

    Relax. Don't torture yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I hope you can give up, and starting a new relationship again will make you slowly forget about him!

    He doesn't deserve you!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Loyalty and filial piety cannot be both.

    Encountering such a person will only make one's heart ache.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Totally an excuse! This is also believed??!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Okay, then you listen to them, go to meet, anyway, you love your boyfriend so much, you just go to see them, and you won't fall in love with them, they let you see you, you can't look at it, that's your own business, they toss for a long time, and they can't toss up, in fact, some parents are like this, not so much to find a partner for their children, it is better to find a son-in-law for themselves, to choose a son-in-law for themselves, parents are sometimes very selfish, They are because they don't like what you're looking for, and they think it will make them lose face in the future, so they won't be willing, and after a long time, you see more or don't want to, then they won't toss, but you also have to tell your boyfriend that you go to see them because you don't want your parents to be sad, and you will try to convince your parents.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Little sister, whether you resist or not, the result will not be too good Listen to your parents, your parents will not harm their children I am a person from the past, and the emotional matter will slowly fade Everything will be natural. . . Studying well is more important than anything else ...

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Parents are also for the good of their children, and they must also understand them, such things can only be patiently told to them, do a good job of ideological work for them, and then let them see that your boyfriend is a potential stock, and be good to them.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If your boyfriend's parents don't agree, you can ask Shao Weihua's apprentice to help you calculate a hexagram, his accuracy rate can reach more than 90%, and his QQ is Qi Qi Qi Jiu Jiu Zero Two Jiu Zero.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    To be honest, your social status is indeed a bit different, and in your mother's eyes, everything is centered on you! It's natural to love you and love you! It is unlikely that you will marry someone who is not as knowledgeable or socially as you are, even though you don't think these things matter.

    I think the first thing you need to do now is, number one: be yourself. That is, to find a job seriously and stabilize yourself.

    Second: Test your boyfriend. See if he is self-motivated, responsible, whether he truly loves you, and whether he is worthy of your love.

    Third: Let your mother give you the chance to prove yourself to him you like!

    Finally, bless you!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Find a job first. This academic qualification is not absolute but has an impact.

    Alas tragedy the minds of the elders are stubborn.

    I also have a headache

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Let's find a job first, and when you enter the real society, you will know that your love will not stand the test.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In the eyes of the woman's parents, as long as they can let their daughter live a good life, so take out the material, and no one will pay attention to you in the real society by vows.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The decision is up to you, and if you think it's good for him, you can continue ...... secretlyBut don't contact too often; If you don't have a good score, you can just divide it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    As long as he is really good to you, I don't think it's a big problem, because pity the hearts of parents in the world, that parents are for their children, you can ask the south to buy a good house in the county, so as to avoid the trouble of your parents, as for the hukou in the countryside or the city, this problem is not big, now many people who are not rural hukou want to change to rural hukou, now the country's policy is very good for rural hukou, your parents are mainly worried that you are married, they will not buy a house in the city, afraid that you will suffer, ask the south to buy a good house, You should also communicate with your parents, I believe that every parent wants their children to live happily!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The above netizens are all good and agree. Add two points, make it clear to your parents that if you buy a house in the city, as long as you go to the community where the house is located with the real estate certificate to issue a certificate, and then go to the police station in the jurisdiction of the community to transfer the hukou, you will become a city hukou. However, I recommend not to transfer your account for the time being.

    Just as the third floor Yun Yi said worriedly: "Now many people who are not rural hukou want to change to rural hukou, and the current state policy is very good for rural hukou." In addition, you should not be refreshed, you should work with your boyfriend to respect your parents, care for your parents, and handle the relationship with your parents well.

    Talk a little more, have a gentle temper, and smile a little more. If you have relatives and friends that your parents trust more, you can ask him to intercede for you.

    I hope you are happy and smart in handling relationships. I wish love sweetness and family happiness!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As long as you are firm in your belief that you are with him, your parents will not be a problem at all, as long as you don't discuss with them, just do everything according to your own ideas, and in the end they will not say anything when they find out that you are happy, and parents like you who oppose must be firm on both sides to come together, and one party will not be together if it is shaken.

    Tell me, and you'll find out sooner or later.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Every parent is for the good of their children and a good life, and this depends on whether you are really reluctant to your boyfriend, if you are not reluctant, communicate well with your parents, let your parents know what you think, and believe that they will respect you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Take your time, my family didn't approve of me being with my boyfriend at first, but after a lot of hard work and my boyfriend's performance, I finally won the heart of my family, and I no longer objected, and now we are married. In fact, the family just hopes that you can find someone who is really good to you and wants you to marry better; It's up to your boyfriend to behave! Hee-hee, bless you

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It depends on what you mean, listen to your parents' words but not blindly, make your own decisions, and don't let yourself regret it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Parents want their children to live happily, they are also from the past, and many times they still have to listen to their opinions, and a marriage that is not blessed by their relatives is unhappy.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    What is harm to parents? Know that they are hindering the happiness you want, that is, they are hurting you, and if I were you, I would run away from home for a while, so that they will think that you are already strong-hearted, and at the same time, they will prefer to see you and compromise. There is also the matter of engagement, which may be that someone else has already given a gift money, or your parents estimate their own face.

    Ask them how much money they were getting, and think about how they got the engagement off. Tell them that you are very happy with your boyfriend, if you separate like this and marry someone you don't like, you will definitely not be happy to live like this, maybe it will become an extramarital affair because of him, how embarrassing it will be, do you want me to live an unsatisfactory life. You just take this as a test, I hope you can also stick to yourself, hard to the end, don't give up because they are parents, parents are not you, they can't decide your life.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Follow your heart, don't force yourself with your parents, that's your parents, or you'll regret it later.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's too general, let's go into more detail. Do you want the two of you to continue to develop? Or do you allow you to develop, but don't want to let you meet?

    If it's the previous one, you have to see if this man is worth it for you to go against your parents for him. If it's the latter, it may be that you think this man is unreliable, or he will affect you or something. Take it easy, grasp the proportions, and let your parents rest assured that it will be fine.

    The point is that the person is worthy. Wishing you happiness!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This depends on the weight of your boyfriend or your parents in your mind, and sometimes, it's best not to be too persistent.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    He must go beyond the current conditions.

    You are his goal, and it takes effort to reach it.

    Whether he wants to go to school more or come out to do business, in short, he wants to go beyond the present to get you.

    You have to encourage him to support him to do beyond his comfort zone, and you still have to support him if she fails.

    But if he doesn't have the heart to do it, you'd better be prepared early.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's right to listen to your parents, they won't hurt you, but you can't give up what you love, then you let your parents know about your boyfriend, ask them to accept it slowly, and you can also test your boyfriend's strength.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Confused, I know that there is a road under my feet, but I don't know whether to go. Depressed.

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