Counseling Tell me my story

You must be in a bad mood: you can't get your diploma, her sister-in-law looks down on you, and you're worried that you don't know how to get along with her. Also because your boyfriend's family pays for college and food, you feel like you're being given to by someone, which also makes you uncomfortable!

In fact, there are still some that you haven't said: your relationship with your boyfriend is not so sure, and you mentioned twice that "you may not go back, for fear that he will be sad" shows that you do not have a good grasp of him.

You still have some contradictions: since you have already accepted financial support from your boyfriend's family for your mother, it means that you have made a decision, but why do you easily decide to change schools in a year? **The school entrance examination should be at least better than the original major before you transfer, but you will be suspended after a year!

How much will that affect the family's economy! If it's a normal person, it's incomprehensible! I can only think that there is a little confusion in your thinking.

Your feeling of being given to others is not given to you by them, but from your own heart, you obviously have an inferiority complex since you were a child (it should be brought about by not having a father and being poor at home), your inferiority complex is very heavy, and it is the most critical factor affecting you to get along with his family (such as sister-in-law). Your inferiority complex is so severe that it has seriously affected your thinking judgment and emotional response. You said that you were afraid that you would study well and not go back to marry him, but how could it be?

It's just an illusion.

So, it seems that you need to seek psychological counseling help in a timely manner.

It's a pity to give up college, you should apply for a student loan from the state, the probability of buying and selling a happy marriage is not high, think twice. Love should not be strings attached.

I'm a student like you

You're definitely better at school than I am

Let's learn well

On their own later

Girls also have to be independent

Is it up to men?The independent woman of this era is beautiful.

I'm not just talking about economic independence, I'm talking about spiritual independence

There are no ugly women in this world, only lazy women

You still have to rely on yourself for everything, it's useless to rely on others, it's best to finish your studies persistently, then you will have the capital to be proud.

What are you afraid of, not to mention that you are a college student, it's a big deal, after graduation, find a good job and live a good life on your own!

Psychoanalysis: Hug (

Seeing the subject's question, I understand your confusion very well.

Significance 1: Safe and practical.

Many times our inner difficulties, difficulties and questions are inconvenient to tell our friends and relatives around us, at this time the psychological counselor is a very good medium, it is very grand, safe, and very practical.

Meaning 2: Peel back the cocoon.

The psychological counselor is a good confidant, he can find the main line from the many complicated and bizarre statements you confide, each different school of psychological counselors look for different directions, but these are from the client's main complaint to find clues, when we express more, state more, it is also convenient for the psychological counselor to find what is the main line we want?

Significance 3: Guide combing.

Through this line, extending this line, and enriching this line, the psychological counselor can follow this line to help you and guide you to sort out your current difficulties and doubts, so psychological counseling is not a simple confiding, nor is it a simple catharsis of the client's emotions.

Meaning 4: Meet your unknown self.

The counselor will not only listen in the counseling room, not only empathize with you, but also discover your unknown self with curiosity, respect, and exploration. This is completely different from confiding in a friend, because the counselor has professional quality, self-awareness and the accumulation and practice of a large number of cases, which is helpful for the work of the psychological counselor.

Today I will briefly share with you here, not exhaustive, please understand, I hope I can let you have some understanding of psychological counseling, the detailed situation, you can also consult me, you can also find professional answers.

The world and I love you.

First, "I was a little nervous all day, and I was very careful in doing things, but I seemed to be a little too careful." If you don't work for a long time, it's natural and normal to be careful and nervous. "Be careful" It's just that you're not getting the right measure.

Second, "I can be sure of something, but I am not sure yet." This shows that you are more hesitant and indecisive.

Third, "I was a little suspicious, and I felt like no one looked down on me." I'm superfluous." This shows that you have a suspicious personality. Even you have to doubt yourself. Severe lack of self-confidence.

Fourth, "sometimes I go to other places to set off, and occasionally I encounter a place in the mountains and forests, and I want to go there to retire and wait for death." This shows that you are introverted and like to be quiet.

Fifth, "Sometimes there is a strong desire to know what will happen when I die. What becomes after death". This shows that you have a cowardly personality and want to escape from difficulties and reality.

As a result, you do not have serious mental illness. All your problems come from your character. So, from now on, by changing your personality, you can change your mind, change your concept, and change your life.

I would like to ask, how old are you? Probably one. That's normal, it's not like you have a mental illness.

Your child is not big and often has to coax him, which is why you feel like you don't have to talk through your brain! You often coax your child, and your thinking is always in a state of relaxation, so it is normal to feel that you have not thought about it when you speak. In addition, you said that you feel that your husband doesn't like you so much, which is also a normal situation.

You're probably married.

Nine, ten years, but also into the marriage cover marriage tired period, during this period of both parties will have some changes, at this time the two sides should be more exchanged, understand each other, and get through this together! Rest assured, this is not a psychological problem, nor is it any problem, it is normal. Finally, I wish you to get out of your mental distractions as soon as possible, and I wish you and your family a happy life!

Absent-minded, go to learn dance, dance, or free clan royal fight sweat, or high temperature Yu and ruler. It's going to be a lot more comfortable.

You're very normal in your heart, but it's too idle to be in the middle of nowhere. You can also look for online entrepreneurship projects.

Condition analysis: First of all, there is one thing, what I want to say is the problem in the family, don't get into the work, especially not to find a leader, this is a great harm to men, don't do this in the future, your husband is more sensitive. In addition, life is a little thing, don't worry too much, if you can take care of it, think more about the good of others, your own shortcomings, often make life happier.

Talk about round branches. Suggestions:

Psychological Story:

A person was reunited in a psychiatric hospital, and suddenly a neurotic patient chased him with a kitchen knife, and the person turned his head and ran until he ran to a noisy dead end, and his heart collapsed and thought that this was over, and the patient said: Give you a knife, it's time for you to chase me...

Some difficulties are set up for ourselves in our hearts, and sometimes the difficulties are not as big as we imagined. 】