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The wise man does not govern the heart, and the fool governs the realm but does not cure the mind.

Don't cry over spilled milk.

Sanders, a teenager, often struggled with a lot of things. He often felt sorry for the mistakes he had made; After handing in the exam papers, I often can't sleep at night, afraid of not passing the exam. He always thinks about what he has done, and wishes he hadn't done it in the first place; I always think back to what I said, and regret that I didn't say it better.

One morning, the class went to the science lab. The teacher, Paul Brandwell, placed a bottle of milk on the edge of the table. Everyone sat down and looked at the bottle of milk ......After a while, Dr. Paul Brandwell suddenly stood up and slapped the milk bottle in the sink while shouting:

Don't cry over spilled milk.

Then he told everyone to go to the sink and take a good look at the spilled bottle of milk.

Take a good look," it said to everyone. "I hope you will remember this lesson for the rest of your life, this bottle of milk is gone - then you can see that it is leaking, no matter how anxious you are, no matter how much you complain, there is no way to save another drop. With a little thought and prevention, the bottle of milk can be saved.

But now it's too late, and all we can do now is forget about it, get rid of it, and move on to the next thing.

Yes, why waste tears? Of course, it is our fault that we make mistakes and negligence, but so what? Who hasn't made a mistake?

Even Napoleon lost a third of all his important battles. Maybe our average record isn't worse than Napoleon's, who knows? Moreover, even if all the king's men and horses were used, the past could no longer be restored.

So let's remember this simple truth: don't cry over spilled milk. Even if you could read all the books about anxiety written by scholars of all ages, you would not see a simpler and more useful "cliché" than "the boat goes straight to the bridge" and "don't cry over the spilled milk."

Simple truth: don't cry over spilled milk.

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Distress is giving.

One day, the lion, known as the king of the forest, came to the gods: "I thank you for giving me such a majestic physique, such a great strength, and enough power to rule the whole forest." ”

Hearing this, the god smiled and asked, "But that's not what you're coming to me for!" It looks like you're bothered by something! ”

The lion roared softly and said, "The gods know me well!" I have come today to ask for something.

Because no matter how good my ability is, every day when the rooster crows, I will always be woken up by the sound of the rooster crowing. O God! Please, give me another strength so that I will not be woken up by the sound of roosters!

The god smiled, "Go find the elephant, it will give you a satisfactory answer." ”

The lion hurried to the lake to look for the elephant, and before he could see the elephant, he heard the "thump" sound of the elephant's stamping feet.

The lion sped towards the elephant, only to see the elephant stomping its feet in a huff.

The lion asked the elephant, "Why are you so angry?" ”

The elephant shook its ears desperately and roared, "There is a pesky little mosquito that always wants to get into my ears, and I am itching to death." ”

As he walked, the lion looked back at the elephant that was still stamping its feet and thought, "The gods asked me to see the elephant and tell me that everyone is in trouble, and it can't help everyone." In that case, I'm on my own!

Anyway, as long as the rooster crows in the future, I think the rooster is reminding me that it's time to get up, so when I think about it, the rooster crow is still good for me? ”

Tips: An obstacle is a new known condition, as long as you are willing, any obstacle will become an opportunity to surpass yourself. On the road of life, no matter how smoothly we go, as long as we encounter some unpleasant things, we will habitually complain that God treats us badly, and then pray that God will give us more strength to help us get through difficulties.

But in reality, God is the fairest, and just like it is to lions and elephants, every dilemma has a positive value for its existence.

A piglet, a sheep and a cow are kept in the same corral. Once, the shepherd caught the piglet, who screamed loudly and resisted violently. The sheep and the cows hated the cry of the piglets, so they said:

He always catches us, and we don't scream. The little pig listened: Catching you and catching me are completely different things, he only wants your hair and milk when he catches you, but when he catches me, he wants my life!

It is difficult for people with different positions and circumstances to understand each other's feelings; Therefore, it is not appropriate to gloat at the frustration, frustration, and pain of others, but to have a feeling of care and understanding.