Friends, ex and present, affection and love, which will you choose?

If it were me, I would choose family affection first, because blood is thicker than water. Secondly, I will choose the current one, because in the relationship, the last thing I believe in is to reunite after breaking the mirror!

Incumbent and affectionate.

Because my ex is already in the past tense, and now I and he have our own lives. Since I choose to start a relationship, then I have to devote myself to it, and I can't be sorry for the current one.

Family affection is my responsibility to my family, they gave birth to me and raised me, respect them is my most basic conscience as a person, and love is my own pursuit. I can't give up on my family because of myself.

Even if you remarry, the child will still be hurt, and you will still love your child after divorce, and divorce will actually be better for your child in a marriage without love. Another is that if I go back, I will be even more sorry for my incumbent, because he is innocent, after all, he also loves me, so it is too unfair to him!

Is the problem between you solved, and will history repeat itself when you get along again? People are very strange creatures, and after being separated for a while, they will always think about each other's good and forget the unpleasantness you had before. If your contradictions are still there, the shortcomings you hate each other have not been corrected or the other party is not able to tolerate them, even if you are together again, you will still end up tormenting each other, or even breaking up again.

Why did you break up or divorce in the first place? Love is originally a beautiful thing, if it is not for too many disappointments and unpleasantness, I believe everyone is unwilling to let go. Do you remember the mutual torture in your love, not all the pain, you can heal the scar and forget the pain!

The so-called love and family affection is just a very vague definition of your ex-wife and the current one, I suggest that you can calm down with all three people, or maybe all three of them meet to communicate, if you are a person with good IQ and emotional intelligence, I believe that when you are alone, who is your ideal heart, then your heart has already told you the answer. If you also have emotional trouble, you can follow me, or you can send me a private message. This is my own **, my headline number is Xia Wenxi.

I think that since you choose to divorce, you have already represented the past, and the so-called relatives can only be purely in a relationship and state with which you lived with her in the past, of course, if you still have feelings for your ex-wife, there will be no such situation as divorce, since you have chosen to divorce, and you have also started your current love life, then you should be responsible for the current one. This involves a moral level of responsibility.

Do you really love the present, are you happy together, I don't quite understand that there will be two people in a person's heart at the same time, if you are true love for the present, you should let the past feelings pass, don't let your past hurt the person you love now. Marriage should be considered rationally, consider the following, will you and the current one be happy together?

Divorcing your ex should be well thought out. Facing the ex and the current one, and then choosing the ex, can only show that your emotional intelligence is seriously flawed.

I can give you a yes, if it were me, I would definitely choose the current one, because I have already divorced, there must be reasons for divorce, they are all adults, divorce is not a trivial matter, it must have been carefully thought out, before making this difficult decision, if my ex-husband (or ex-wife) even if he kneels down and begs me, I will not go back, because I don't want to go back and repeat the mistakes of the past and hurt again. Such abounds after remarriage, and the good times will not last long, and they will soon return to the past.