Would you change your decision for the sake of someone else?

I will change my decision for the sake of someone else, but it depends on how important that person is to me. For example, I will change my decision for the sake of my family, and I will change my decision for the sake of caring for the people who love me.

I will change my decisions for the sake of others, because we have to think about others in everything we do, and we can't just go our own way.

I will change my decision in order to change for the sake of others, and of course that person has an important place in our hearts, and I will choose to change.

You have to look at the situation, if the impact on people is bad, you have to change your decision, if the impact on people is good, you don't want to change your decision.

To change one's decision for the sake of others, one must first look at that person's position in one's own mind, and if that person's status in one's own mind is high, it must be changed.

If the opinions of others are good, then we accept that it is also a wise act to take the opinions of others, which cannot be considered unassertive.

For her, I'm learning to watch this very childish game Lianlian, and for her, I'm watching Korean dramas and chasing Oba. I often say don't change myself easily, but it depends on who it is, and if it's for someone I like, I'm willing to change myself.

I will look at the meaning and importance of that person in my heart, and of course see if the change makes sense to us, and then I decide.

There are a few things to keep in mind about whether you should change yourself for someone else:

1. It should be a very happy thing to change for your beloved, but the premise is that you can't change qualitatively while changing, only a change in type.

2. You can't lose your true self while changing, if you blindly change yourself unconditionally, the final result is definitely his change to you, because the reason why he is with you is because of some of your own advantages and habits, if you become a boy to do what he thinks, although he will be very satisfied, but your status in his mind will slowly decline, because you are no longer a person he likes to read Chang, but a machine that changes for him.

Changing oneself begins with accepting what is already in life.

Because all existence is the natural manifestation of life, only acceptance is the beginning of change.

However, accepting it calmly is not resigned to it, and inner relief is not a helpless move.

Changing oneself is not about adapting to others, but about taking responsibility for one's own life.

Because many people do not understand this truth, they mistakenly think that changing themselves is to adapt to others and endure the various behaviors of others.

So it's easy to get the wrong idea: why just ask me to change while he or she can do whatever he wants?

However, these misconceptions and behaviors not only do not have any practical meaning, but also do not help solve any problem.

Moreover, it is not for anyone or anything to change oneself, but because one is responsible for everything in one's life.

Your body is your own, your marriage is your own, your career is your own, and your life is your own.

and even their own happiness, their own pain, their own wife, their husband, their own children, their own parents, ......Everything that exists in your life needs to be faced and responsible for yourself.

It's very simple: only oneself can truly enjoy one's own happiness, and only oneself can taste one's own pain.

In fact—whether you realize it or not—everything you do is not done for others, but for yourself.

Therefore, change yourself, not for anyone, not for anything, not even for any purpose.

Change ourselves just because we have to take responsibility for our own lives.

Many people will say: you can't change the environment, but you can change yourself. Or: you can't control the external environment, but you can control the inner state of mind.

These words seem to be true, but many people say that they want to change themselves, but in fact, the purpose of changing themselves is to change others. And it seems that it is difficult to change yourself, so in the end, you only want to change others. Because you always want to change the other party, and the other party doesn't want to be changed by you, you add too many unnecessary conflicts in the process of wanting to change others, and even can't clean up in the end.

Therefore, the concept of "you can only change yourself" is true, but in order to truly change yourself, you must first clearly know who "yourself" is. If you don't even know who you are, then how can you change?

And when you can clearly recognize the state of existence of the "true self", you will find that in fact, in this world, no one needs to be changed by you except yourself, and the only thing that really needs to be changed is yourself. Moreover, the only thing that can be changed by you is yourself.

If an individual wants to change his destiny, the most important thing is to change himself, change his mentality, and change his environment, so that his fate will also change, but he should not only pursue superficial and formal changes, but should first change his heart. Only by changing one's heart can one truly change one's fate, otherwise the more you change your fate, the worse it gets.