Little Huanxi Yingzi s suicide attempt woke up Song Qian, what practices are worth learning from p

The first is to learn self-reflection, and to learn to communicate, and to respect and interact with Yingzi.

Don't blindly force your children to learn, don't blindly guide your children's lives, let your children have their own ideas and realize them.

When your child encounters some problems and becomes very stressed, you must communicate with your child more so that he does not have too much pressure.

Don't pay too much attention to your child's learning, give your child the opportunity to choose, don't control your child with your own ideas, and leave your child a little personal space to understand what she really wants.

I don't think it's good for Yingzi's management method, which will make Yingzi lose her fun and make Yingzi a tool for learning.

Too harsh. Song Qian forced her thoughts onto Yingzi, wiped out all Yingzi's thoughts, and Yingzi was depressed.

I don't think it's appropriate. Song Qian is too strict with Yingzi, and Yingzi has no personal space of her own. Yingzi is very sensible, and in the end she will only hurt herself.

Re-brushed "Little Huanxi" and said that Yingzi is not worthy of being Song Qian's daughter, this is because Yingzi's psychology is not particularly healthy, and she is relatively inferior in life, although she studies very well, but her daily mentality is not particularly good, Yingzi's mother is a woman with good character and ability.

This is because as Song Qian's daughter, Yingzi is not only hypocritical but also very pretentious, and some of her behaviors are particularly selfish, without taking into account his mother's feelings.

is because Song Qian is very spoiled by Yingzi and has given him the best since he was a child, but in the end Yingzi chose to betray his parents.

I don't understand my own mother. Her mother was willing to do anything for her, but Eiko always felt that she was forcing her to do things she didn't like.

Because Yingzi is more rebellious, she didn't go to college according to her mother's wishes, and she always went to find her father.

Yingzi is already very well-behaved, how do you watch the TV series.

Song Qian is not worthy of being Yingzi's mother.

Because she couldn't understand why her daughter was like this, everything she did was for her daughter, she gave everything she had to her daughter, but her daughter suffered from depression.

Because as a parent, Song Qian can't fully understand the child's mood, she thinks that she has given Yingzi very well, and she doesn't understand why Yingzi is still depressed, so she thinks it's pretending to be sick.

Song Qian never thought that her daughter would suffer from depression, in fact, this has a certain relationship with her love, she cares too much about Yingzi's academic performance, which also leads to an increase in Yingzi's psychological burden, so this happens.

Because she herself was too suspicious, she didn't have a sense of security, she didn't pay attention to Yingzi's change of thinking at all, she just imposed her own thoughts on Yingzi, and didn't really think about what Yingzi needed, but gave her what she felt Yingzi needed.

Because she understood why Yingzi had to go to NTU, she ran away from home and jumped into the sea in order to go to this school, and she didn't understand Yingzi's thoughts at this moment.

Song Qian originally thought that what she gave to Yingzi was what she thought was the best, but why didn't Yingzi like it, Song Qian didn't really understand Yingzi's heart and give him enough freedom to cause Yingzi's impulsive behavior.

Because Song Qian didn't want Yingzi to go to NTU, although Song Qian gave Yingzi the best, Song Qian still didn't understand that Yingzi was still knowing that she was a consultant!

Because Song Qian is too focused on love, in a single-parent family, Yingzi has become her only hope and support.

Song Qian wants to give her daughter Yingzi the best of everything, so she ignores her daughter's feelings and blindly imposes her thoughts on Yingzi, which is the failure of education in the play!

This is because Song Qian didn't understand her daughter at all, and asked Yingzi why she went to NTU at such a time of crisis, thinking only about studying and never considering Yingzi's feelings.

In Xiao Huanxi, when Yingzi jumped into the sea, the reason why Song Qian asked so was because he felt puzzled, he couldn't understand why Yingzi wanted to jump into the sea.

In "Little Huanxi", when Yingzi jumped into the sea, the reason why Song Qian kept asking why was because she had never thought about it from her daughter's point of view, and she really didn't know why.

I think it may be because Song Qian is a very strong person, and she also puts her ideals on Yingzi, so she wants Yingzi to be the first.

They are all very far-sighted and knowledgeable families, and the money in the family is only a temporary amount, and it cannot be useful for a lifetime, and knowledge is a lifetime of wealth.

Because Song Qian believes that a person must be independent and have his own career. Only when you are strong will you have a happier life. So she hopes that Yingzi can live the life she wants on her own.

"Little Huanxi" is on the air, this modern urban drama starring Huang Lei, Haiqing, Tao Hong, Sha Yi and others has attracted waves of discussion since it was launched. Several children who are about to take the college entrance examination, and the anxious parents behind the children, many people can find their own shadows more or less when watching this drama. Yingzi's family is also the most complicated, her parents have been divorced for many years, and her mother is very strong.

Yingzi, who grew up in such an environment, is destined to have a lot of helplessness.

Song Qian's consideration is based on the following two starting points

First, she needs her daughter to be admitted to Qingbei to prove her ability; Second, she doesn't want her daughter to leave Beijing to go to school in other places;

Song Qian basically didn't work the cultivation and guidance of learning methods in the process of cultivating her, and basically relied on her own strong intervention and participation to force her daughter to move forward, and her level of about 650 points is estimated to be close to the peak of her and her mother's learning mode.

Song Qian is a person who has very high requirements for herself and others, and it is very common for such a person to be a teacher or become a teacher in life. We cannot say that this kind of person is wrong, but according to the traditional Chinese teachings and some consensus in contemporary society, "being strict with oneself and being lenient with others" is a better philosophy of life.

Yingzi can't say it, she knows her mother's character, so she has always hidden the fact that she wants to go to NTU. Until she couldn't hide it anymore, Yingzi tried to communicate with Song Qian, but was opposed by Song Qian for the first time. Song Qian thinks that as long as Beijing girls can be admitted to local schools, no one will go to other places.

Self-righteous parents, the standard "I'm good for you" moral kidnapping. The result of divorce of a strong woman, the desire to control.

This is Song Qian's decades of experience, she knows that this is Yingzi's dream, but she also knows that dreams are cruel, so she arranged a day for her to be relatively conservative, but safe.

Parents don't want their children to be far away from them, especially a woman who raises her children alone after divorce, the focus of her life is on her children, and it is a loss for her to grow up and leave.

Parents have their own opinions and like to impose their own ideas on their children.

I think that if Yingzi is to be admitted to Nankai University, I support Yingzi!

In fact, in reality, many parents are like this, and they don't want their children to be too far away from them.

It's just that he doesn't want Yingzi to be too far away from him.

I think parents have their own considerations.

Ay! You can rely on it if you want to, and you should fight. If I hadn't come to that day, I would have tested whoever I wanted, and I would regret it after deciding my wish. Or you will regret it and choose your own industry.

I think Yingzi is very pitiful, and Song Qian is not easy.

The child is not sensible, and the parents attach too much importance to the child, which is caused by that kind of deformed love.

Yingzi's depression is really serious.

Yingzi was forced to jump into the sea by Song Qian, and it was also pitiful.

I feel like it's a bit strict.

I think it's pushing Yingzi too hard.

Parents can't put too much pressure on their children.

It's hard to be an adult, and it's even harder to be a child.

This plot is more dragging and comparative. than above. And then they were also forced to jump into the sea, well, it was also needed by the plot. The name doesn't match the plot a bit.