What is it like to find a partner in college?

Updated on society 2024-05-11
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I feel that I used to be busy with my studies and didn't have the time and energy to be busy with the things of my partner, so I found a suitable partner for me in college.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's normal to find a partner in college, because I was busy studying.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I was relatively backward in my thinking before college, and I was too busy with my studies to think about that little thing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I feel that it's a pity that the university doesn't look for a partner, and no matter how it ends, the experience should still be there.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's useless to find a partner too early, just find a suitable one in college.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't know much about some emotional things, and I'm a little nervous, but I'll learn a lot over time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It shows that you are still a place, either shy or ugly. But as a man, I really hope that girls don't give their first time to someone else so early, because it sets the stage for your later abandonment and divorce.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    My object is in college, and I always think that before high school, I should only study, but when I get to college, I realize that it should not be this.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In order to catch the last train of youth, there will be no such good opportunity if you don't look for it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Ask the classmates around you, I have looked for more than one in junior high school and high school, and I don't feel like I'm on the same channel.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's normal, after all, junior high school and high school are still obsessed with studying.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's embarrassing to feel that 18 is your first love, and everyone else has become an old driver.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Why do you want to say it, why don't you say it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Can I say what it's like to be a university not looking for a partner?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Whether or not it is difficult to find a partner in college depends on many factors, including personal circumstances and life circumstances. Here are some of the factors that may affect who to look for:

    1.University Setting: A university is a key location for a social circle. Some universities may be more difficult to find a match than others because of their small social circles.

    2.Personal circumstances: Some people may find a partner more easily than others, which may be related to their personality, hobbies, lifestyle, personality, and family background.

    3.Social skills: Some people may be better at socializing with people than others, which is also an important factor in finding a partner.

    4.Age: People in college are often more mature and open than they were in high school and middle school, so it may be easier to find a partner.

    5.Environmental factors: such as the city, the location of the university, the student's family background, etc.

    Finding a partner in college may be more difficult than at other stages, but that doesn't mean you can't find a partner. Finding the right partner requires some patience and effort, an understanding of your needs and expectations, and connecting with potential partners. You can increase your social circle by joining social groups, attending social events, participating in events, and volunteering, and try to connect with potential partners.

    At the same time, you can also use your own way, such as sports, studying, **, art, etc., to attract potential partners. The most important thing is to understand your needs and expectations and respect your feelings and choices.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Personally, I don't think it's ideal to find a partner during college. The first is to affect the studies of both parties, and the second is that there are many variables in long-distance marriage. The journey of life is high and wide, and the end of the world is far away; And the small ones are always easy to get lost, so that they make wrong choices, but no matter what kind of mistakes, as long as they have the courage to bear and correct, it is not too bad.

    Buddhism has clouds: the sea of bitterness refers to the boundless chaos, and the back is the shore. "No matter how far we go or how wrong we are, as long as we are willing to turn back, there will always be a better way out.

    To err is human; Moreover, making mistakes is indispensable for a long life; Life needs to make mistakes, because there are mistakes, will be self-introspective, self-awakening, self-realization; So as to be better treated with life. Don't doubt your own ability because of a momentary mistake, and don't deny other people's lives because of a momentary mistake, people live a lifetime, not because of a mistake can be changed. Don't be easily discouraged and compromised, because all the mistakes today are indispensable tests in life, and they are also for that more wonderful tomorrow.

    Life in the world is always half good and bad, right and wrong; There is no need to be sad about some things and mistakes, and there is no need to panic when some roads and mistakes are taken. The journey of life is long, there will always be some ups and downs on the road, and there will always be some mistakes and regrets. We should be glad that every mistake in the journey forward is another growth in the life of Weitang.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's not difficult, as long as you want to find it, you can generally find Shengkai. In addition, university classes will hold a social event, referred to as a "blind date meeting", and it is generally a class with more boys and a class with more girls answering the mountain.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not that it's hard to grind carefully, and Kuanyu Dou is not so ruined.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No. But it shouldn't. School is a place of learning. Love can work afterward.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    From the perspective of developmental psychology, college students are in the early stages of adulthood, which is the stage of learning and cultivating how to love people, and love can be said to be the best way to eliminate the square jujube hall, if this stage passes, it will generally enter the adulthood and late adulthood that need to think more about career, breeding and raising offspring, and it is difficult to find the years that can make you simply love.

    Common concerns and questions that college students have when they fall in love are:

    1. Young age, lack of correct understanding of love;

    2. Worried that falling in love will affect your studies and delay your next development;

    3. Excessive sense of responsibility and dedication to the results of love, feeling that their current ability cannot give the other party a better love experience and results;

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Different people have different opinions, and I would like to share my personal opinion here. Personally, I am more in favor of engaging in a partner in college and experiencing campus love. Because the love on campus is pure, there is no conflict of interest, and there is no need to consider the other party's family background or anything.

    The person you like has the strengths of the place you like, and you can chase it if you think it's good. I don't think college love can be messed around, you have to find someone who can study with you and have the same interests, and you can also share your learning content if you become excellent together. Promote each other's learning and enrich your own university life.

    And I can't think about having an object, and I indulge in gentle township every day. When two people are together, they can supervise each other to learn and learn. So Yu Yuan said that engaging in objects delays learning, and I think it's only people who want to have fun who delay learning.

    When you enter the society, you may no longer be able to find a pure love like college, which will bring some benefits. So my advice is to find someone who can progress with you, and don't let yourself regret it when you graduate later.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It is still suitable for college students.

    Of course, most parents may think that the most important task of students in the school stage is to study, and there should not be any messy ideas. Therefore, campus love has also become a taboo topic, not only students dare not discuss it, but parents are even more discouraged.

    However, compared to secondary school, the university environment is relatively relaxed. The gradual growth of students also makes them more curious about the opposite sex. After three years of hard work in high school, many students enter college and enjoy the sweetness of love.

    College students may be looking for a partner for the following reasons

    1. There are more college students who are interested in falling in love in their spare time, in the final analysis, because the time in college is relatively abundant. College students have relatively more free time, and after three years of depressive life in high school, they are in a state of physical and mental exhaustion. Entering a less stressful university will also reinvigorate their attention to the opposite sex.

    It is this state that makes them enter the stage of falling in love and finding a partner in college.

    2. It is easy to have a common discourseAfter three years of high school baptism, most students will pay all their attention to studying, and the good bridge of external things and the yearning for college life are all buried deep in their hearts. When I entered the university, I had a common three-year high school experience, had the same goals, and gave a strong yearning for my future life. These have become common topics that college students cannot ignore, so that when they get along with each other, they have more to talk about and look forward to their future life.

    They are in the emotional germination period, once they can feel that the vitality shown by the other party is similar to their own, they will also sprout a good impression of the opposite sex, and thus enter the stage of falling in love.

    3. It will be more stable after graduation. Nowadays, the reason why so many college students choose to fall in love on campus is not because they are not doing their jobs, but because they know that they will face cruel competition after graduation, and the pressure of employment is also very high.

    The years of youth are limited, especially the 4 precious years of college life, if you don't cherish it, it will only pass in a flash. They choose to fall in love in college in order to be more stable in employment, without any worries, and having like-minded alumni by their side can also reduce the hardships in the process of struggle. No matter how Min Zhonghong is a college student, falling in love has become an unavoidable phenomenon nowadays, however, the following precautions for falling in love at the college stage must not be ignored, otherwise it is likely to affect your studies.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Suitable for students with the same qualifications or better.

    Consider the time and energy through the model, the concept of love, and then find a suitable person with good character.

    Society is a Shura field, and relatively speaking, finding a partner in college is often more simple. When you enter the society and then look for Hui Ran Mountain, it is really a strange shape.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    College students are in their prime, and it is the best time to fall in love. ......However, there are many girls who would rather hide in the dormitory and chase dramas than find a partner. They are like this because they pursue idealized love, they don't want to fall in love too early, and they are not ready to fall in love.

    1. Pursue idealized love.

    Love in film and television dramas is very romantic and idealistic. Those girls who would rather chase dramas than fall in love pursue that kind of idealized love in their hearts, so they will hide in the dormitory to chase dramas instead of talking about love in real life. ......If they never get out, they won't be able to find true love.

    2. I don't want to fall in love too early.

    Some girls think that they are still young and do not want to fall in love too early. ......Because of this, they don't fall in love, but choose to live the life they like. ......Chasing dramas is just one of their favorite lifestyles, and it has nothing to do with not being able to find a partner.

    3. Not ready to fall in love.

    For some girls, they actually want to fall in love. However, they are not ready, so they are evasive about love, sometimes hiding in the dormitory to catch up on dramas, and dare not take the initiative to fall in love.

    After a period of preparation, these girls will eventually break through themselves and take the initiative to find their own love.

    The above is the reason why some girls choose to follow dramas in the dormitory instead of falling in love. ......Over time, they will eventually be ready and choose to take the initiative to find their lover and live a happy life of their own.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Yes, you are of marriageable age.

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