Would you compare your current with your predecessor?

This is not comparable, the predecessor is in the past tense and the current is in the present tense.

To say that there is no comparison is false, either to be satisfied or to be disappointed.

The weakness of human nature is more subconscious.

No. The incumbent is very good and charming.

No, he's him, you're you.

No, if you really want to have a little complex for your ex, it's grateful, grateful to me and him at that time, for adding a little spice to each other to achieve the present.

The ex is a thing of the past for everyone, and it is an unspeakable existence for the present, so seal your ex well, and the person who is disconnected from the past, or the person who wants to step on two boats, is not worth your efforts for him.

No, the most important thing to thank your ex is to thank him for teaching you a lot of things, teaching you how to be truly happy, and allowing you to work hard to find a better one towards this goal.

Good horses don't eat back grass, people are moving forward, don't compare the current with the ex, entangled in the fact that he is not as gentle and intimate as your ex, but he has his advantages.

No, with the previous failed relationship experience, but now you, whether you are in love or married, will become more stable, and will not be impulsive to give up a city for one person.

No, in this world, two people walk through a good time hand in hand, and after many years, the two meet each other and ask each other, "Are you okay?" That's enough.

In fact, if you compare the present with your ex, it also shows that you have no confidence in your relationship, do not believe that you will enter the palace of marriage for a long time, and the current gives you a sense of security not as much as the ex, you will magnify this infinitely, and then let the current know that you are not as good as your ex in your heart, and know that you can't let go of your ex.

The people I liked in the past, of course, are different from the present, there is always a reason for breaking up and being together, and it is very naïve to have to be better than the ex in everything.

Smart people know that the current and the former are not compared, the current - is the person you should cherish the most now.

No, I used to want my boyfriend to be tall, handsome and able to sing, but now I think that gentleness, kindness and sincerity are extremely important qualities. Everyone is moving forward, and even ourselves are changing, aren't we?

We should not compare the current with the predecessor, as long as it is a person, there must be some shortcomings, and we like him as a person, not his strengths.

At this time, it is important to discuss the topic with the other party head-on, and make sure that the other party is aware of the serious risk impact that this behavior can have on the relationship between the two parties.

You should talk about it and let the other person know that you mind these things.

At this time, he should be harshly reprimanded, because his behavior is very bad, and the character of a person like him is particularly problematic.

If you encounter this situation, you should stop it in time, and don't let such behavior happen, which will also cause particularly bad consequences.

This is a very normal psychology, everyone will have it, not only people will compare, but also clothes will be compared.

It's not psychological, it just tells you what you should do better.

If you are impeccable, whoever compares you with each other, once you make a comparison, it means that she is not satisfied with what you are.

It's normal, it's a collision between your previous experience and your current reality, there is no standard for that, and what comes out of the collision is suitable for the current situation.

It's all your own stuff, no good or bad.

Normal psychology, there is a comparison to distinguish.

This shows that you can't let go of your ex in your heart, and your current one is not good enough to occupy much of a place in your heart. Also ask yourself if you really like the current one and if you love him. If you don't like it, say it as soon as possible, and the sooner you compare it, the less harm it will do to the other person.

This requires you to adjust your mentality, come out of the shadow of the failure of your previous love, open your heart, believe in the beauty of love, and be good at discovering the advantages of others.

From a psychological point of view, I think that if the comparison is to say that the current position is good, it means that the current position is very satisfied, and if the comparison is to say that the current position is insufficient, it means that the current person is not satisfied with the current situation. The former is a negative mentality, looking at everything in a pessimistic way, and the latter is a positive mentality, which will look at things in an optimistic direction. These are the two kinds of psychology.

I have been counseling at home for a while. Nowadays, we think about many psychological problems very complicated, but once we see the results of our behavior, we will know that things are actually very simple. No matter what the reason or excuse is used for relationship problems, most of the results are innumerable, whether you want to or not, whether you can do it or not.

Just go through it and find out.

It's normal, everyone compares.

The ex is good, but I can't get it. Don't be discouraged, you will always meet someone who is sincere to you.