Such a man is not regretted for life

I'm just like you 792261842 I want to die.

Women don't love themselves, because women give their love to men, and the kind of men who say that women don't love themselves because they don't love themselves are all people who only love themselves. If your woman gave you the first time before marriage, would you say that she is not self-loving? This kind of man is ridiculous.

Is it that after you got to know each other, you did something that made him feel uncomfortable with you.

Why don't women love themselves?! I hate it too!

If she loves you, she will accept everything about you.

Agree with the previous dude.

Since I was a child, my parents had a disagreement, my mother was more homely, and she spent more time with me, and she often told me about my father's various shortcomings, so I hated my father since I was a child. Later, my parents divorced, I naturally felt that it was my father's fault, I felt that he abandoned my mother, and his resentment escalated. At that time, I still had the idea of my parents getting back together.

In short, since I can remember, I don't have a good face for my father, and I will always be my mother's ally. Then, my father, who had always been as healthy as a cow, suddenly fell seriously ill and died a few months later. Because of my opposition before, he didn't marry that aunt, and he was alone when he left.

Later, as I grew up, I also experienced my own feelings, and I saw the world including my family, and naturally I had a different perspective from when I was a child. I gradually realized that the person who was more responsible for marriage and family at that time was my mother (personality, etc.), but my father had been doing his best because he loved my mother and me deeply. And I've been blaming my dad for a long time, even trying to thwart the new happiness he should have.

When I came to realize this, there was nothing I could do, my father had passed away for years, and I was still in pain and blame. The lesson of this story is that when you have a child, no matter what problems arise as a couple, please do not pass on your negative opinion of each other to your children.

After I was admitted to the military academy, I went home for the Chinese New Year in the first semester, and as soon as I got home, I told my mother that I was going to my uncle's house to see my grandfather early tomorrow morning. Before I finished speaking, my mother suddenly burst into tears, and I was stunned, with an ominous premonition, did my grandfather have some disease? And the fact is that my grandfather died in November.

After discussing it with my family and relatives, it was unanimously decided that I had just joined the army and that I would not tell me. In their eyes, it was as if a soldier should bear this. The next day, I put on my military uniform, rode my bicycle, and came to the statue of my grandfather, saluting, hoping that he would see it.

The two biggest regrets in my life are the first time I hate myself for being young and ignorant, not knowing that yin and yang are separated and never see each other again, and the second hate for my family to hide and not have the opportunity to say goodbye to my grandfather who loves me the most.

I feel especially sorry for my grandfather, my grandfather is actually a very talented person, harmonica, erhu, xiao, go, chess, calligraphy in various fonts is also very good. But I don't like to communicate with people, and I don't have much to say to when I'm too young, and it wasn't until many years later, when I packed up my grandfather's belongings, that I realized that I had missed the first teacher in my life who was proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. If I had to do it all over again, I wouldn't be playful anymore.

Writing this, I really wiped the water on my phone first. I'm sorry grandpa, but I owe you a lot.

Without the greatest regrets, my decision was in my best interest with the information I had at the time. As for the uncontrollable, congenital, because there is no fatal effect, there is nothing to regret, let alone the biggest regret.

Until now. Wandering alone outside the home, he failed to fulfill his filial piety beside his parents. The grandparents who loved them the most had been thinking about this third grandson who was wandering around before they died, and they failed to see each other before they died.

I always thought that we would have a chance in the future, so I didn't tell you that I liked you when it was most likely, and when the opportunity was about to come, you were with someone else.