Why don t you want to cry when your loved ones die when you are a child, and it s not very sad?

Because I wasn't particularly sensible when I was young, I didn't understand many things, and I didn't understand what it meant to die, so I naturally wouldn't be very sad.

Because at a very young age, they don't understand what the concept of death is, and they may still think that they can be resurrected after death, which is a very interesting thing. So they don't want to cry and they don't grieve very much.

Because my mind was not sound when I was a child, I didn't understand what was going on at that time, and I couldn't feel the grief and grief of my loved ones. You'll understand when you grow up.

Because I didn't understand the truth of this world too much when I was a child, I didn't have too many feelings for these relatives, so I wouldn't be too sad.

Because I was very simple when I was a child, I didn't think about it so much, I didn't know the importance of death, and I couldn't express it, so I didn't want to cry and I wasn't very sad when my loved ones died.

Because I was too young at that time to deeply understand what a loved one was and what it meant to die, I didn't feel sad.

It may be that you were not very sensible when you were young, and you did not realize the kindness of your relatives to you, but when you grow up and have experienced too many things, you will feel the importance of your relatives to you.

When you were a child, when a loved one died, you didn't understand what it meant for someone to die, and you didn't know much about the feelings, so you wouldn't be very sad.

Because some of people's feelings are not very good when they are young, they don't have much feeling when their relatives leave.

Those who don't cry or grieve after the death of their loved ones are just that they have seen through some things in the world, it's not that they don't know how to be sad and sad, it's just that they are not good at expressing themselves.

One is that they are actually very sad, but they just silently endure it and do not show it; The second is that they have no feelings for their deceased relatives, so they don't cry or grieve.

For those who say that they don't grieve or cry after the death of their loved ones, in fact, their hearts are more because they don't have a lot of contact with these relatives. And it's like a stranger, so there's no sense of grief.

There are only two situations in which a loved one does not cry or mourn when he dies: one is that he is sad to the extreme, but he will hide the pain in his heart. Second, although some relatives are quite close, they have not interacted much for many years, and naturally they do not have sadness for relatives who are not familiar with each other.

My girlfriend is exactly the first case. Last year, her parents died in a car accident, and it was really very sudden, and before leaving home in the morning, she was still nagging with the children about getting up early in the morning, don't forget to have breakfast, and when she came back in the evening, she would never hear the familiar nagging sound again.

A few of our friends who have a good relationship often go to each other's houses to play, so they are close to each other's parents like their aunts and uncles, and several of us broke down when we heard the news, and we didn't sleep well for a few days and nights, and our minds were full of scenes from when our uncles and aunts were alive day and night.

We were afraid that she would suddenly not be able to accept the blow, so we tried our best to accompany her, but since she knew the news, she has been calm as if there was no such thing.

She calmly comforted her surviving grandparents, took care of her younger sister's life when she was still in school, discussed the funeral process with her aunts and uncles, refused all our help, and even comforted us not to be too sad.

From the day of the accident to the day when everything was done, for a week, she ate and slept as usual, without a little sadness, and even smiled all the time when she faced her sister.

We thought she had grown up because of the sudden death of her parents, but on the eighth day of her parents' deaths, the afternoon of the second day after everything had been taken care of, she suddenly fainted at home.

She eats and sleeps normally, numbing her sadness, just afraid that she will fall. But isn't she really sad? I'm afraid the saddest thing is her, although the grandparents and grandmothers send the white-haired people to the black-haired people, but they have experienced a lot for most of their lives, and their children have already started a family, and their lives have not suffered the kind of huge changes that have occurred when the people who accompany them every day suddenly die.

My sister is still young, and she is trying to accompany her sister. Although the relatives and friends at home are sad, they are not the people they care about the most after all.

It's just her, when her parents are there, she is a carefree little princess, she has graduated and worked for almost a year, and her parents are still used to her, for fear that her salary will not be enough to spend, for fear that her colleagues will bully her. However, none of them are now.

Of course, there is a second situation, that is, the deceased relative is really not familiar with him. For example, my grandmother's sister, my grandmother married far away to my grandfather's family, and at that time, because the two of them went to study together, my grandmother came here for love. At that time, transportation was not developed, and the number of times my grandmother went back over the years was only a handful.

Grandma's sister, my brother and I have never even seen each other.

It may be a bit disrespectful to say this, but when the news of my aunt's death came, my brother and I really didn't react much. Naturally, we hope that our relatives in our family are in good health, but we will not forcibly grieve.

Maybe it's because the two people spend less time together, and their feelings for each other are not so deep.

There are always some joys and sorrows in life, and there are some things that we can't decide, and the death of the person is just one of them. It's just that some people are still in a calm state after they die in person, and they don't cry or make trouble, and they can't see sadness, which makes people wonder if the two are related.

Any kind of relationship needs to be managed, even if it is family affection, it will also be indifferent if it is not managed. Love, friendship or family affection all require us to invest time to manage in order to make these feelings last for a long time and to deepen the relationship between people.

Some people don't cry or carry their loved ones after they pass away, it is very likely that the relationship between the two has not been operated for many years, and the relationship has become very indifferent, perhaps in this person's mind, the appearance of that loved one has been blurred. If it weren't for the news of the other party's death, the two might not have crossed paths for a long time in the future.

Some people are not sad because of their indifferent feelings, and some people are calm, but because all the sadness is buried in the bottom of their hearts. Some people who are emotionally indifferent can indeed do not grieve or cry after the death of their loved ones, but there are also some people who are obviously sad to die, but their faces are always calm.

This kind of calm appearance is really not pretended, but my mind is at a loss now, and I don't know what posture to use to express my feelings.

The calm expression you see may just be a state of pre-mental breakdown. When no one is around, you may cry a lot, or you may talk to yourself, or you may collapse in the spiritual world.

You can't see some people's sadness, and we are not roundworms in other people's stomachs, and we can't think of what others are thinking. Whether the feelings between other people and their relatives are indifferent or not has little to do with us, we should still do a good job of communication and exchanges with our relatives, so that the feelings of leaders do not fade due to the passage of time.

Be kind to your loved ones, and instead of suffering after the death of your loved ones, it is better to spend more time with them while they are still there.

As long as you do your best and fulfill your responsibilities when your relatives are there, you will be worthy of the conscience of heaven and earth. Not all people have loved ones who have passed away, and those who cry in front of others are true emotions from the depths of their hearts! Some deaths are a relief for the loved ones themselves, a liberation for their children or other loved ones.

Some people cry, but it is not the real grief from the bottom of their hearts, and some people seem not to cry or grieve on the surface, but his heart is very sad, but he swallows the tears in his heart.

Because the most painful time is silent, at that moment it seems that something has collapsed, this pain can't cry for a while, and it hits people the hardest, but you will find that she seems to have changed overnight.

I'm the kind of person who doesn't cry in front of people. My father died of cancer for three years, and I saw all his experiences in three years, so I didn't cry after he left, and I didn't cry when my mother left close to 90, but I often grieved because I missed him later in life.

Personally, I think that some people are not sad because they are resistant and unwilling to accept reality. When they learned the news of the death of their loved ones, they were not prepared at all, feeling that this incident was not true and could not happen.

I grew up with my grandmother, who gave me infinite care and love. In the spring of the year when I was 25 years old and less than a year after I got married, my grandmother passed away, and for some reason I didn't cry or grieve, and I felt like I would see my grandmother again in the future. For more than 30 years, I often think of my grandmother, and now I am filial to my grandmother's baby son (my father), just like being filial to my grandmother.

Relatives only refer to blood relations, the maintenance of a family relationship, the maintenance of feelings, can not rely only on blood relationship. In daily life, it needs to be carefully cared for and truly cherished. If there are many contradictions in daily life, the feelings will become weaker and weaker, so even if the other party dies, there will not be much emotional impact.

Facing life and death a lot, I know that crying will make people weak, many people will not do senseless crying, what is the use of sadness, there is no way to change this result, life is still going on, and I have to take on the burden of life alone.

Do you know why you don't cry, because you never have a little companionship, warmth, and care, so you don't cry or be sad. The fate of this life is too shallow. In the next life, you must have both parents and brothers, sisters and a family. Thank you