About college love long distance questions after graduation

1. Starting point: You have not been together for a long time, and the relationship in college is very beautiful, especially in the freshman year, there is no youth in junior and senior high school, no social contamination, and it should be a love with only "love", no work, no study, no house, and no real love.

2. Process: She will think about the future, and the good thing is that she thinks of your future, the future with you, but she doesn't see hope.

3. Ending: She had no confidence and chose to give up.

My advice to you is 1. Analyze the bits and pieces of your time together, if you can choose to come together, then you and her will resonate with each other, and talk to her about these. This is feelings, it is the foundation of facing everything, you think you still have feelings, the problem may just be that the feelings are not deep, not deep enough to give her hope. I need you to prove it.

2. Through what she told you, the good thing is that she thinks far away, and she has also thought about being with you, so she will think about the future, and the bad thing is the same, it can be seen that she is a very realistic girl, not the kind that can give up everything for the sake of feelings, not that she is bad, and she has set foot in the society, regardless of the number of men and women, it is not the reason of people, it is the society, you can't go to reality... So you have to have a plan, or you have that condition, the ability and so on and so on, which is now called hardware, to show her ......

To sum up, there are two aspects, I hope you can understand, one is feelings, and the other is reality.

How to do it: Let her talk to you about a love that only has "love" in college, you need to fight for this opportunity, and then give her all your love in the process, to care for her, to give her happiness, but you can't indulge in this happiness, as a man, you need to think more, you have to consolidate to prove the two points I said above......I hope that one day you can say to her: be my woman, I can give you the future ...... you wantJust be happy and be happy.

Since you are holding hands, you are together, you don't abandon or give up, you can't take care of each other, and you can't take care of each other, and there is always a loss in your heart. The last thing I'm afraid of in love is distance, as long as I really love, we can be together after all. Yes, what is distance in such deep love?

Nothing. If you break up easily because of a long-distance relationship, don't blame the distance for the blame, you should be glad that you left someone who doesn't really love you, because in the face of love, distance is really nothing. Therefore, if your lover is also far away, don't feel lonely, don't feel wronged, and be glad that you have exchanged loneliness and longing for a real love, which others can't ask for.

good luck!

I'm just like you, I've been a friend for 4 years, but because of the distance, we're not together now. Two people, two circles of life, and the people they come into contact with are also different. When a girl encounters a problem, when she thinks of you for the first time, you can't help him.

After a long time, it will slowly become unfamiliar. It's normal to bring up a breakup.

I think you must have a lot of buddies as a boy, and when you fall out of love, buddies will lead you out. It's just a matter of time.

It's good to go out and talk to your friends more. There is no need to be mentally imprisoned.

You are a boy, you still have to pay attention to what the old people in the family think. Family affection and love, these two things are really very difficult to choose.

Think carefully.

This is obviously to find a reason for you to be laid off After reading so many books, I can't see it, who can say clearly what will happen in the future Lao Tzu didn't believe that he could think about it for so long before he thought of going after graduation in his freshman year Explain two problems First, she doesn't love you Second, he has a more suitable candidate Fire you first So that people have a chance Understand.

She's a family lover, isn't she? I'm also a girl, but I didn't want to go home to work, I would be happy if I worked in the city now, but your girlfriend is the type of person who likes to stay with her parents and then obey her parents' arrangement, right? You talk to her well, and the two of you can get together in the future, isn't it good that the place where you live is not far from each other's homes.

And then I want to say, she now says that she will go home to work in the future, and she must have a good relationship with her parents, and handle the relationship with your parents-in-law.

Actually, your girlfriend did the right thing, how to say it, think about it, if you can't change your mind to stay in ** for each other, isn't it painful to be together, if you are willing to change yourself, you can also do it, but if you can't, break up, I'm a person from the past, and it's really hard to end up,

It's not impossible to talk about love in college, for example, my sister and my brother-in-law met in college, and now they are married and have children, bought a car and a house, and live happily, but I'm talking about my sister's age, in her thirties, not us, and in this real world, distance does not necessarily produce beauty, because we don't know whether the other party is thinking about you or forgetting you! In fact, I also graduated from college and was decisively divided!

You ask her if she has to work at home, because jobs can be changed, but good boyfriends are not so easy to find. I don't dare to work hard for my feelings now, and I won't talk about anything later. When you go to college, you are not a child, you must have your own ideals and goals, and you can't be at home all your life.

Divide! Breaking up is the best choice, just be ruthless! Whoever leaves will be doing well.

Every year after graduating from college, there are a lot of breakups between couples, most of the reasons are because of the problem of long-distance relationships, so what is the probability of success in long-distance relationships and finally walking together?

Hey, this kid is in love for the first time.

What do you think? Would you like to work for her side?

After graduating from college, if the two are in a long-distance relationship, you have to consider that one of the two people must sacrifice themselves and live in the other person's place, otherwise it will be difficult for you to persevere.

I think most of the people who have gone to college and have been in love in college have basically experienced long-distance relationships, because they fell in love in college, and they went their separate ways until they graduated, so there was a long-distance relationship. So let me tell you about my experience.

1. What to do about a long-distance relationship after graduating from college.

After graduating from college, couples are unable to work in the same city because they seek their own development, so they can only rely on long-distance relationships to maintain their relationship with each other. But you must know that maintaining a long-distance relationship is more difficult than that in the same city, and this sense of distance can easily lead to emotional shake and even fall apart, so it requires the cooperation of both parties.

2.Let's talk about what couples who have graduated from college should pay attention to on the road to maintaining a long-distance relationship?

What to know for long-distance couples who have graduated from college.

Keeps love remote and long-term.

If your friend has just entered the society, and the ** fee is several times that of yours, then he is either a big carrot or a long-distance relationship player. Ran Kuan is a different place, it is difficult to meet, and playing ** has become a "red rope" connecting each other, chatting about daily life, complaining about colleagues, and encouraging each other......It's as if TA is right next to you. ** Hit the skin for a month, I feel like it's acceptable, what if it's a year, or more?

You can be as patient as you were at the beginning.

Even if you don't work together, you can continue to be in a long-distance relationship, and you need to work hard to keep it going.

1. Have time to meet more.

Although long-distance relationships can now be connected through convenient tools such as WeChat, the accumulation of time can also produce a sense of tiredness, and there will be a sense of distance from not being around when needed. Therefore, if the distance between the two places is not large, you should meet more often, and if the distance is relatively large, you can meet once in two or three months, and plan what to do every time you meet, and cherish the time you spend with each other. Both people must have a common goal, in order to be together in the end, appropriate investment should be there, and I believe that it can be fulfilled in the end.

2. Have a plan for doing things.

If your long-distance relationship has a consensual basis, the next step is to have a plan. If you've been in a long-distance relationship before, you should know exactly what to expect in the middle. Even if you haven't experienced a long-distance relationship, have you ever seen a pig run if you haven't eaten pork?

There are always people in long-distance relationships around you, and you have always seen long-distance relationships in your books, on the Internet, and on TV, and you will mention the problems that long-distance relationships will encounter. At this time, two people need to list all the foreseeable problems and give targeted solutions. That way, when you encounter similar problems in the future, you won't have conflicts.

3. Don't take the distance too seriously.

Long-distance relationships are the same as ordinary relationships, the difference is that they are not in the same place, and there will be differences because the lovers' lifestyles are different, but we can't be afraid because of this. In life, we can find that long-distance lovers are happy in the same way, and unhappy people have their own reasons. We will find out:

If you have time, call each other, if there is a conflict, don't quarrel through the mobile phone, you can have time to go to the other party's city to have a look, these appropriate companions, if there is a contradiction, it should be solved face-to-face, because the mobile phone will only expand the contradiction, make each other more sad and sad, you can give each other some romance and surprises at ordinary times.

Give each other enough security, let the other party trust you enough, believe in you, go to each other's cities more when you are resting, create surprises for each other, give each other more ** in life, and share what happened in the day with each other every day.

Communicate often, share your inner thoughts, give each other a practical gift, create surprises and romance, and enhance the relationship between each other.