Why are the teacher s words more effective in educating children?

Educating children is not about saying that whoever works will not work, the important thing is the method. The effect of real life is often that children listen more to their teachers.

Parents are closer to teachers than teachers, you can forgive your child for anything wrong in front of you, you have more contact with him in life, and life is not so serious than learning, and children will not make any big mistakes. Over time, he won't be so afraid of you. We are always in a relaxed state in front of our loved ones and good friends, and children are no exception.

At school, children study every day and do the sports required by the school to ensure good health. The contact with the teachers is also serious and serious. The child is a little afraid of the teacher, and the teacher listens to what the teacher says seriously, for fear that the teacher will scold him if he makes a mistake.

"Respecting teachers and respecting the Tao" has been passed down for thousands of years, and "being a teacher for one day, a father for life" has also admonished the Chinese for thousands of years. It's a deep-seated mindset. Our parents were very afraid of teachers when they went to school, and at that time parents believed in "if you don't fight, you can't be successful", "filial piety comes out under the stick", etc., and in our generation, they will teach teachers the task of educating children, thinking that everything is ready for children when they are handed over to teachers.

Ignoring the children's first teacher: the parents.

Many parents think that they can just take care of their children's food and housing, and as for education, they just leave it to the teachers. But there are so many children in school, can teachers do more than just teach your children to read and write? Learning to be a talent is the most important thing.

It's not that children don't listen to their parents, it's that parents themselves think that their children are more likely to listen to their teachers.

Parents can refer to the teacher's education method and let the child's parents and teachers listen to what they say. Our junior high school history teacher is strict with his son's education method, and her children are very obedient. Parents should integrate the identities of "parent" and "teacher", so that the children educated are both obedient and have good grades.

Because the teacher is in school, he not only teaches the children to learn, but also regulates the children's behavior and thoughts.

For example, when children make mistakes, they will find children to teach face-to-face, although it seems to be very strict, but in fact, they are all for the children to correct their mistakes, at this time in the children's psychology will feel that the teacher has majesty and deterrence, they know that they will be criticized by the teacher if they make mistakes, or a small punishment.

When a child makes a mistake at home, although parents will also criticize the child, many parents will still be more accustomed to the child, the child will cry or make a fuss, the heart will be soft, will not be like the teacher must correct their mistakes or problems, so in comparison, in the same case of making mistakes, the teacher is more effective than the parents.

In addition, teachers will also set some "rules" at school, that is, what children are not allowed to do, such as not talking to each other in class, or completing homework on time, etc., which largely imply that children should not knowingly commit crimes.

Although parents will also make some house rules, after all, they will not be as "enforceable" as teachers, so children will listen more to teachers.

Because the teacher is more authoritative.

Parents get along with their children day and night, and have natural blood kinship, children are dependent on their parents, and parents have unconditional love for their children, so in front of their children, no matter how majestic parents have no authority at all. Then, the words of parents have always become a deaf ear to the child, and if the meaning of education is stronger, it will even cause the child's rebellious psychology. Teachers are different, no matter how kind the teacher is, he has the majesty of being a teacher in front of the child, and for the child, the teacher means rules, systems, and giving orders.

Children are accustomed to obeying their teachers and think that this obedience is a matter of course, so the teacher's words are more effective.

Because the teachers are more professional.

Educating children is a teacher's profession and their daily job. The child knows and recognizes the teacher's responsibility, that is, in the child's eyes, the rationality of the teacher's existence lies in educating the child. Therefore, the teacher's education is more acceptable to the child, and the rationality of the parent's existence lies in the love for the child, when the child cannot understand that education is a kind of love, they will not recognize the parent's education, because this is not what the parent should do.

Professional things should be done by professional people, this is a truth recognized by children.

It seems that children will feel that the teacher's words are more authoritative when they are young, especially in elementary school. I think there are the following reasons.

1.The teacher has a sense of distance

Generally, parents accompany their children day and night, and now children are very clever, and it is often easy to understand their parents' temper very thoroughly, knowing how he will be angry and how he will not be angry. The sense of distance between parents and children is very weak, and if parents are very obedient to their children, children are prone to feel that their parents have no authority. But the teacher is different, the teacher, although the child may see it every day, but the teacher is a lofty gesture.

And generally before entering school, parents will tell their children what problems they have and listen to the teacher. Therefore, the teacher has both a sense of distance and a sense of authority, and the teacher's words will seem more useful.

2.It may be that the child will perceive the teacher as more authoritative when it comes to knowledge.

After all, it is the teacher who sends the child to school for education, and the child will be more willing to listen to the person who led them to the school. In fact, parents may have more education or knowledge than teachers, but children do not have the concept of academic qualifications, and they intuitively feel that the person who teaches them knowledge is more credible. Moreover, teachers generally teach the knowledge in the textbook, and when parents teach the knowledge, it is likely that they do not follow the textbook, and the child will naturally think that the textbook has a sense of authority.

3.After all, teachers bring more students, and may be better able to grasp the psychology of children and communicate with children

Especially the more senior teachers, they have led many classes and many students, and they can even say that they have never seen any problems, so they each have a set of problem-solving skills. Parents are generally first-time or second-time parents, and they are relatively inexperienced, and they may not be able to grasp the child's psychology well when communicating with their children, and there is no way to say it in one sentence, so it may be more effective for the teacher's words in comparison.

If you cooperate with the teacher to educate your child, you can do the following:

1. The teacher's education has made me see hope and the future of the child from the child, thank you for the teacher's hard work!

2. I can't express my gratitude to you in words. Happy Teacher's Day!

3. I'm sorry, the child let you worry, the child also reflected after getting the results, and thought that the reason for the bad test is that as a parent, you have the obligation and responsibility to improve your child's learning together, please rest assured that the teacher will supervise the child to study well and strive for a good result next time. At the same time, teachers are also asked to give more guidance to parents and children.

4. With all the love in your heart, you have dyed the color of my youth; With persistent faith, you have become an unyielding teacher of my character, and the spark of my life shines with you!

5. Thank you to all the teachers in the first class and all the teachers who have cared about and helped Yuan Yifei, thank you for nourishing this young chikai sprout with love, giving him more wisdom, opening his heart, igniting the fire of his heart, and illuminating his world. I believe that my children will get a good development in your garden, and I believe that the children will become more and more lively and lovely under the guidance of teachers!

6. I am very touched by your equal treatment of children. The child is handed over to you, we can rest assured!

7. Sow seeds with words, work hard with colored pens, water with sweat, and nourish with hard work, this is the noble labor of our beloved teachers, thank you teachers!

8. Language is a melodious Qiang flute.

sound, which makes people feel refreshed; Language is a colorful ink painting, which is pleasing to the eye; Language is a magnificent palace, so that the best people forget to return; Language is a jar of mellow old wine, which makes people unsatisfied. Thank you for introducing me to the wonderful world of language!

9. The seasonal wind of my beloved teacher's gratitude blows through my eyes, the rain falls in my heart, and I can't help but recall my childhood memories after a few curtains.

Whispering greetings to you.

10. I hope that children can learn in a healthy and happy way, I hope that children can learn to listen to the words of teachers and parents, and I hope that teachers will strictly discipline them.

The words for the teacher to discipline the child harshly are as follows:

1. Since ancient times, strict teachers have produced high apprentices, and there will be no tomorrow's success without today's tempering, and I hope that teachers will bother to discipline strictly.

2. The small tree is not repaired or straightened, and I hope that the teacher will discipline it strictly.

3. Thank you for your education of the child, so that he becomes more intelligent and sensible, the growth of the child is inseparable from the teacher's education, and the teacher has a sacred position in the child's heart. I hope that the teacher will discipline the child strictly to make it better.

4. Please ask the teacher to discipline strictly, and the teacher's encouragement is the greatest help to the children, and it is also the luck of our parents.

5. Teachers don't have to be polite when disciplining children. On the way to children's growth, strict teachers can make children develop good habits, make continuous progress, and thrive.

Let the teacher strictly discipline the child What good things to say, that is, the teacher hopes that you will not be soft on the child, and you must be strict with these.

Many parents see their children sent to kindergarten or primary school when they are young, and they slowly do not listen to their own words and begin to have their own ideas, but in the school it seems abnormal, obedient to what the teacher says, and the child does not dare to resist at all. So why do these children listen to their teachers? I'm going to talk to you about it today.

Before the child goes to kindergarten, most of the time is with the parents, at this time the child's contact area is not wide, the most contact is their parents, so they will have a sense of worship for their family. But when I met the teacher when I arrived at school, when the teacher said what fate would happen, the whole class was very obedient, so the child transferred his admiration to the teacher at this time, and slowly took what the parents said less seriously. When many children return home, they deliberately imitate the tone and tone of the teacher's speech.

When disciplining children, teachers will not spoil children like parents, and will not indulge children, but set the same rules for all children, and make the rules clear for children to follow. These rules may not be very effective for children at first, but when children violate the teacher's rules, the teacher will criticize the child and reward the child for good performance, so there is a competitive relationship between the children, they all want to be rewarded, and after a long time, the child will compete to leave a good impression on the teacher. Moreover, teachers are lenient and strict with children, and they are strict when they should be strict, and parents sometimes can't do this at all.

After all, teachers are certified and have a high degree of education, so they are more professional when treating children, know what kind of characteristics children have at different ages, and can grasp children's interests and children's weaknesses. Teachers know how to educate children and how to make them obedient, so children also worship teachers more and obey their words.

Because some children will be afraid of teachers to a certain extent, parents are more spoiling at home, so some children do not listen to their parents at all, but teachers will not at school, so children will sometimes be afraid of teachers, so they will be very obedient at school.

This is a teacher who has a certain prestige in the hearts of children, and at the same time, teachers are relatively strict when educating children, so what the teacher says is more useful.

Because the teacher is a role model for the child, the child feels that the teacher is more dignified, and the child feels that the teacher understands everything, so he will listen to the teacher.

Teachers may not be very strict in educating their children, in fact, most people are like this, treat their relatives, will be different from others, after all, there is a blood relationship, in the way of education will be considered more, and the classroom in the child is very young, will establish a correct learning concept for the child, so most teachers do not have to worry about the child's learning.

It is possible, but depending on the specific situation, there is a big difference between people and people.

To educate children, the teacher's words are more effective. In fact, there are people who are more effective than teachers, such as police officers. Why?

First of all, because of authority. In the eyes of the child, send to school. The teacher in the school is to educate people, that is, to manage people.

So the authority is high. Of course, it's not as good as the police. If they don't listen to the words of their psychological instructors, they won't get good results.

At the same time, he also saw other classmates and saw that the teachers were all obedient and close, so he could only be paved and pasted, otherwise he was afraid that he would be criticized. Once criticized, in front of the public, but that is to be humiliated.

The second reason is parents, there is a saying that "self-made Chinese medicine does not work". I became a doctor and treated my children, but the medicine didn't work. Why?

It's a matter of mentality. When things are related to their own interests, there will be a bit of gain and loss in their hearts. Therefore, many parents often have a state of emotion when educating their children, and they are easily excited.

Once excited, it is easy to speak excessively. Even the kind of mood of hating iron and not steel will bring a certain amount of trouble to children.

Thirdly, the teacher has seen too many children. He also understands the psychology of children. All kinds of children, he has different ways to deal with it, he knows what the child thinks?

Use the language that the child understands to communicate with the child. Therefore, his tone is often peaceful, his attitude is often kind, and he will not be angry because the student has made a small mistake. As a result, the child is easy to listen to.

Because of understanding the psychology of children, they can often reveal the secrets of children in one sentence. Let the children be convinced if they are not convinced