I have no interest in doing anything, I have no self confidence, I am afraid of failure, and I am fu

Maybe it's because you used to have glory and scenery, but now because there are so many masters next to you, you have a strong sense of frustration. Excessively strong self-esteem thus translates into low self-esteem and unreasonable demands. You can try to let go of yourself, let go of the ideal self in your heart for a while, exercise more, play with friends, go on outings, and learn about the strange things in the world.

It's going to work.

Welcome.

You are a typical closed self, you have low self-esteem. But don't. If one person can divide into 100 parts, even if you are inferior to others in 99 places, there will always be one that is better than the person you are compared to. As long as there is hope, it is not a failure. You can be proud.

You are willing to be independent, different, otherworldly, and have a glimpse of the mountains

Read more inspirational books, get out of inferiority, and rush towards a better life.

Find a psychiatrist, low self-esteem requires long-term **.

Maybe you value other people's views of yourself too much, you have been living in the eyes of others, ignoring yourself, no matter what your background is, no matter how much you are failing now, no matter how many people look down on you, you should raise your own head, walk your own way, live your own life, work hard from now on, to struggle, one day people will look up to you.

- That's all I want to encourage.

In fact, I feel very sympathetic, always feel very inferior, in fact, we are all ourselves to find blockages, we always give ourselves bad mental hints, in fact, many times, we don't have to deny ourselves so much, even if we do not succeed, or our ideas are wrong, but at least we think, we have our own ideas, people are not perfect, so it is normal for us to fail, so don't always lose confidence in yourself, we can look at some successful people's cases in our spare time, You can also relax your mood and get better slowly, and I hope you come out as soon as possible and come on!!

My dear friend :

After meeting me, you have to be happy and want to open up.

First of all, I wish you a good mood every day, and it is coming to the New Year;

You have to be in a good mood and the whole world will be happy in 2009!

I am honored to communicate with you sincerely and make you happy!!

I hope it inspires you and makes you happy;

People live in this world just to make themselves happier and happier.

Whether things are right or wrong, you should have your own unique thoughts and opinions, if you think it's worth it, you don't have to care about other people's opinions!

If there is a problem in our life, we must communicate or vent with our close friends!!

No matter what, we all have to live well;

It's all good to be optimistic, and life has to go on!!

Therefore, the most important thing is to regulate the state of mind. Contentment, really!!

First of all, let's relax yourself, have a balanced mind, and don't have too much burden on your heart!!

Don't always put unnecessary pressure on yourself, it's not cost-effective!!

Life is short, to live is to live a day, happy day by day, and want to open a little !!

Don't worry about yourself and yourself, the problems that can be solved by spending money are not problems!!

Don't complicate small problems, solve them right away if they are easy to solve!!

It's not wrong to entertain yourself when you're fine, play hard, play and play!!

Rediscover your childhood innocence and joy, even if it's just by recalling it in your head.

Usually pay attention to sleep, rest your body, listen to a little more relaxed**, everything is OK!!

Life is beautiful, don't get lost, don't have the mentality of comparison.

I still have so many people who love you, why shouldn't you be happy, there is no reason not to be happy!!

Life is not smooth sailing, everyone is, look at the rainbow after the storm, so it makes sense!

Friends, be happy!

Keep your mind open!

At least I've got your back!

Change the mood and start over.

I really can't be a librarian or a security guard, I stay quietly for a while, my emotions have recovered, and I am slowly becoming my original self.

This has something to do with a person's personality and experiences. It is advisable to communicate with others more, and if you can't overcome it, you can use the help of others to help you build confidence. If you have other conditions, you need to pay attention to them.

Although many people have a similar situation, if you don't pay attention to let it develop, it will be very bad for you in the future.

If you don't have self-confidence, you don't have motivation, you're not interested in everything, everyone is equal when you walk on the street, don't be afraid to look at others. You just haven't found your strengths yet, your strengths haven't been discovered and you still have a long imagination, you have to regain your self-confidence, if you don't have self-confidence, you may get depression, and you still have the idea of suicide. Start small, praise others, listen carefully, and help others.

What are you: There is no answer. The kind of person you think you are, who you are, and others will see you that way.

This is a major discovery in psychology in the last world--- self-intention.

-You can't be beautiful if you think you're not pretty enough. If you don't think you're brave enough, you can't be brave. You think you're stupid, you can't be smart.

The spirit of intelligent and confident people is open, and conversely, the spirit of people with low self-esteem is relatively closed. In fact, there is very little real distinction between being smart and not being smart. As long as a normal person is open to experience, then he must be smart.

Eliminate low self-esteem --- regain self-confidence.

1. Positive identification with oneself.

You can't just see your own shortcomings, and the inferiority complex is largely generated in contrast. Therefore, while actively identifying with yourself, you must not regard others as perfect. People with strong low self-esteem do not have this awareness:

He's human too. Since they are"people", all have personal strengths and weaknesses. Accepting oneself means accepting one's weaknesses and strengths.

2. Build self-confidence.

To build self-confidence, you must first learn to say: No!

Low self-esteem is a manifestation of psychological weakness. The point is that their self-confidence is not strong, and they dare not show their thoughts to the outside. As a result, he followed the crowd in action, had no opinions, and had no courage, resulting in psychological depression and depression.

Psychologists believe that if you think you are stupid, then you are stupid. If you think you are elegant, you are elegant ... Therefore, low self-esteem can be overcome. But to defeat it, you have to rely on yourself.

Success says: God helps those who are self-reliant!

3. Positive autosuggestion.

Learn to say in your heart: I can do it too!

You might as well ask yourself: they are all the same people, he can do it, I can do it. He can do it, and so can I.

4. Actively interact with others.

A healthy mind doesn't come up with it.

Psychologists believe that when a person is alone, mental activity turns inward, towards himself. The scope and content of mental activities are limited to a certain extent, and coupled with the limitations of understanding, mental activities often go to extremes.

It is dangerous for a person's psychology not to be understood by others, even if it is felt by oneself"How ahead of its time"。When you associate with a healthy person, your heart will be purified, your heart will be open, and your experience will be open. The shadow of the psyche gradually dissolves during the activity.