My junior high school boyfriend broke up with me because of reality and fabrication, should I fight

If the love you give him will only cause him stress.

Why should you fight for it?

He really loves you and won't let go of that.

After all, you've been together for a long time!

Break up because he no longer loves you and falls in love with someone else.

Let's accept the reality! Love is to make the other person feel that it is a happy thing!

Breaking up is a good solution for you, because men change their minds with secular concepts, it is difficult to recover, in China, this concept of male superiority and inferiority is deeply ingrained in the hearts of many men, you are better than him, or when to speak, do things, or even a look will hurt him or make him feel inferior, you don't know it.

Even if you redeem it now, you won't be much happier in the future.

If the difference is not too big, go for it. If it's too big, it's exempt. It's hard to be together. Especially if the man is weaker. Man. Too much self-esteem.

But don't force it out of nowhere. Hurt others and hurt yourself.

Sometimes letting go is the best answer.

If you are sure that he still has you in his heart, if you can't let go of him, go for it, and if you have the chance, go and see him, he still has your words in his heart, and he will not be indifferent when you stand in front of him!

Love can't be forced! Since the other party doesn't like you anymore, it's useless for you to reluctantly, forget everything, start over, and believe that you will soon find someone who loves you more!

If you give up, don't count on it.

Let it go, for his sake, don't let him feel guilty, he's also miserable

The neural network we are learning today is about the difference between the human brain and the computer. The computer runs according to a certain pattern, you and I can design its future, its thinking is controlled by us, we can know very clearly what it is thinking now; But the human brain is different, you can never fully understand what a person is thinking, people are emotional, they think like this for the first few minutes, and they will think like that for the next few minutes.

So, what I want to say is that you can't be sure if he said that because you died, and you can't be sure if he still loves you. There are so many excuses for men that you can make up a particularly reasonable reason casually. Although we often say that two people should believe in each other when they are together, but you are now facing a breakup, and it was not brought up by you, do you think this kind of love is still worth believing?

Also, let's not think about what he thinks of you. What we think about is that you still have feelings for him, so we don't have to rush to fight for anything, you are graduating now, just wait a few months, your life should not be disrupted by someone who broke up with you. You should eat, chat, go shopping, and study as you normally would.

A few months is not a long time, and you can spend it quietly. During this time, if he shows it, it means that he still cares about you. If not, you can also use this time to forget about this bitter love.

Some things are in your own hands, and you are the master, not the master!

Smile and everything will pass.

It's a good thing for such a man to leave early, otherwise it will be even more uncomfortable to get married. In "Lecture on Happy Life", the Chinese ancestors said that the criterion for choosing a boyfriend is to be filial to his parents and have good moral character, otherwise he cannot really love anyone, if he loves someone, it must be fake and purposeful.

Congratulations, because you can see what kind of person he is now, and if you find out that he is such a person after you get married, you will be even more miserable. If you always think about the bad aspects, you will easily feel inferior and lose trust in love. Sober up as soon as possible.

Finally, bless you.

Okay, being hurt once is also a good life experience, and when you meet ruthless people in the future, you won't be unprepared again! Divide it, such a person will divide it early, this may not be your blessing! The longer you stay and the more problems arise later, the more hurtful it will be!

First, you have to love yourself well, such a person is not worth relying on at all! Good morning!

This kind of man, sisters, we are not rare, who wants to go, who wants to see this kind of woman, I don't want to see this kind of man.

You also have to find someone better than him, who is happier than him, that's true.

It's normal, there's nothing and reality is reality.

This kind of person, I don't want to give it to you, let him roll as far as possible!

Then divide it. ~

Maybe in the next second you can find a better one.

This is the luck that God has given you.

Hey, I'm also that kind of man, how can I be embarrassed.

Seriously, it doesn't matter if people say you're materialistic or not, but I don't think you're wrong in your choice.

A woman, after getting married, then most of her second half of her life is dedicated to the man. Two people, even if they have no money and live a difficult life, as long as they have faith, they are not unable to live that life. But why are you so anxious now, you think?

Why do you think marrying him is "unreliable"?

There is no harbor that can "shelter from the wind and rain", whether it is a physical home or a psychological sense of belonging, if this is missing, then the life after marriage is conceivable.

I'm sure you must have communicated with the man before the breakup, right? He may not have given you enough of his statement to convince you that you will be happy in the future and be able to get along with his family. Now it's a temporary stay there and the house is fine.

But are you satisfied? Is this the life you want? He doesn't give you enough security.

As you said yourself, long pain is better than short pain. And you don't get along very long. I think you made a wise choice anyway.

You are 25 years old, and you are not a little girl who falls in love, it is for marriage and future life, so you must be rational and choose a more suitable one.

Cherish the relationships you have had, and then go and find a better man.

Hello friends.

You can hurt someone because it's reality, it only proves that you're too realistic, or that you don't love him, you just like him and like the feeling of being with him.

In this world, there are many cases like you.

There is no need to feel guilty either.

It's just the choice to blame.

But when choosing later, remember to ask.

And don't hurt people easily.

The Buddha said that everything is cause and effect, what kind of cause is sown, what kind of effect is obtained.

I'm sure your boyfriend will bless you.

You hate the poor and love the rich.

If the money can be made, if the person divides it, there is no way to get it back.

If the gap between the two families is too big, it is still recommended to separate, or once they live together in the future, there will be many contradictions and they will be very entangled. Reality teaches us reality, how can we face reality if we are unrealistic?

I'm in a similar situation to you, but we're getting married, and their family doesn't buy a house, so it's really poor, there's no way, but I think since both of us have jobs, why don't we rely on ourselves? It doesn't matter if it's a little slower than others, when we buy a house in the future, we will work together to get it, and it's many times sweeter than what our parents paid to help buy.

Do you think you catch him, do you have a future, love is built on the basis of bread, there will be a future, his father is riddled with diseases, and when you get married, this burden will fall on your shoulders, maybe you have found a good job, a monthly salary of five thousand, enough for his father to go to the hospital, then you, don't you want to live, if you have a child, what to do, you are only 25 years old, don't waste your youth here, maybe you won't meet such a tempting boy, but, you need more than love, and bread, life doesn't have so much time for you to squander.

You decided to break up in fact, it's actually right, the discomfort is only temporary, just get through this while.

People want their lives to be simple and happy. Haven't you already broken up? The house can be repaid by two people together. If you really love you very much, you won't break up. Don't make so many excuses to comfort yourself.

You've made the right choice. Believe in yourself, there will be the one who will make you die.

Let's break up. You still hope to find a good one. It's not because I want to marry him.

You've thought it all out, it's right for you to give up, and a lot of contradictions have been resolved.

You have the answer in your own mind! It's about going back in time!

Money is not everything, but no money is everything!

I'm sure you still love him, just have a house to live in, and if the house is not good, when you have money in the future, you're buying.

I understand you, sometimes those who love each other can't necessarily be together.

Don't guess, just ask. Even if two people break up, they should make it clear what the problem is? If it's not empathy but because of some other unchangeable problem, then forgive him, and at the same time unburden yourself, you are sitting here now and doubting is completely meaningless, nothing can be solved.

What can doubt do?

You've broken up, understand? Child.

Now all you need to do is accept this fact.

Believe that time and years can change everything.

Even if it's the love that was once difficult to give up.

And the pain of re-pain.

Feel free to do it. I guess you know the truth. It's useless to say it. It's impossible for someone who has been in love for 5 years not to want to. You ask this question, and that you are doing it.

Feel free to do it. Let it be.

Suspiciousness is the beginning of the contradiction, if you love him, care more about him, and be more considerate of him.

Sometimes love is not spent day and night, it lasts forever, and sometimes, it is okay not to love for the sake of love.

The main reason is not this, it is very willing to fall in love with others, and it is very possible to see others affectionately for a long time.

If you knew this was the case, why bother in the first place?

Hello first of all, I would like to say to you that you will regret it for the rest of your life if you break up because of family intervention, remember my words.

If you want to be a good person, you don't have to be like this, isn't this a bitter self?

If two people don't love each other, just say okay, or rather, we're not suitable. Hehe, it's as simple as that.

Let's be honest, now, love is very uncertain, maybe it's good to have a direct and you have another boyfriend.

Whatever, it's because he doesn't grasp it well. You said to him: You have the ability to do something, and you have a lot of responsibility. It's better to earn the money yourself, don't let others gossip, and women should be independent. It is to be realistic, people have to live a life, and they have to find the right person.

We should face the reality, and we can't avoid it. And everyone should talk about it. Understand each other and be considerate of each other.

You live in real life, and you have to face the cruelty of real life! ~

Some things are reluctant, but they have to be done!

Don't regret your choice!

It depends on what kind of real life it is!

Matter is the foundation, and spirit is sublimation.

This kind of person is playing with you, he is definitely not honest, he must be very insidious in his heart, leave him as soon as possible, so as not to regret it later.

Directly speaking, it's really the reason, the boy is already like this, this boy is not worthy of your pity, that kind of treatment to you. If you want to divide it, just point it straight, don't drag it out.

What are you polite to this kind of person, he doesn't take you seriously at all, and you still think about hurting him, since he doesn't love you, no matter what you say, you can't hurt him.

He can say that he didn't get his salary or anything, and you can also say wow, depending on his reaction, it is estimated that he will flash himself when he sees that you have no use value.

This kind of thing is often difficult to say because communication itself is a complex matter, especially when money is involved.

Why don't you think about whether you can tolerate this at all? If you can, you might as well tolerate him and find an appropriate time to communicate; But if you can't tolerate it and are determined to break up, don't tell him the reason, I think he should understand it in his heart, there is no need to make it clear, save face.

Bless you.

Let's just say it's not appropriate. I'm going to break up anyway. No emotion.

There's no point in saying anything. From your description. There's really no need to get any better.

It's not that men should spend money on girls. He's too ungentlemanly. Over time, no one can stand it.

It's all like that now. How can you say it later? It seems that you don't mean to get any better...

Then be decisive. Let's just say it's not appropriate. You're not the person I'm looking for, if he understands, let's get together and disperse.

Let's not talk about that reason for that. Speaking of which may cause unnecessary quarrels. You're going to be separated, why do you want him to say you?

Don't just say it, it's embarrassing. You just say that he feels more like a big brother to you, and it's better for the two of you to be friends. Text or QQ to him, and then don't see him or pick him up**. If he's a little more sensible, he won't look for you.

I also despise this kind of man, although I am still single at 29, but no matter whether it is a blind date or something, I have never let a woman pay for it when I go out.

Don't say it directly, it will be unpleasant to say it, and he will know it in his own heart.