I m all in, why would he deceive me

I'm a girl just like you.

It's the same pain.

Hope you come out of the gloom.

That's my question today.

There's a lot of it on it.

Maybe it will help you too.

People always have to grow step by step in setbacks, with this experience, I believe you will definitely find true love, and you will be very happy in the future. I understand that you must be in a lot of pain right now, find more things to do, make your life more fulfilling, and have time to play with other friends, talk to them, after this period of time, you must be able to, come on! ^_

Empathy and understanding.

But deception and deception are the main themes of life.

Soon it will be fine.

You are good. Good job

Pick yourself up again, you can see what kind of person he is, and don't let him hurt you in the future.

The problem of feelings cannot be explained by a lie.

Women are born to be raised by others.

I think you have to talk about it. Think clearly. What you want, what she wants. How feasible is she with that man, how feasible is you with her. What to do in the future, how to go! I think you all have to analyze it.

Don't let her go just because you love her. Otherwise, you will be very miserable after a while, and if your psychological quality is not good, you may even do something excessive. So it's better to be clear than anything else, please don't avoid the question. Be brave enough to solve the problem! I wish you happiness.

I think you'd better talk about it and don't take it to heart. Be brave enough to talk to her.

If she only has someone else in mind, give it up. To consider.

Because you love her too much, don't spoil others and hurt yourself.

You all said that you love each other very much, in the end you said it or her, it was she who said that maybe there are her hardships, love is to trust each other more than this!

If you say she's really lying to you, then you can't say that"You both love each other"People like to be cheap, and the more others care, the more they want to escape.

Maybe she just ended a relationship before she met you, and she still has a crush on her ex-boyfriend, give her some time.

Why do you say that others have lied to you?

In fact, in the world of love, no one cheats anyone.

When the other party is with you, they definitely like you in their hearts. Imagine if the other party hates you, will they be with you?

ps: Forget the lost relationship and face the future well. Because only the future can give you sunshine and give you the love you want.

Because you have the value of being deceived, or you can get better value than you are by deceiving you.

If he's bad, he probably wants to be like one and leave without getting it.

If not, it's that he doesn't think it's appropriate to be with you

Can you tell us a little bit about how long you've been talking, or whatever?

She lied to you? Did you come up with it yourself or do you have proof of it? Don't jump to conclusions.

Because he's empty, just find a girl to play with, and you're the object!

If you want to lie to you, tell it, and we can help you analyze things

No matter how you look at it, it doesn't look like a man who yearns for a warm family, forget it. His profession also determines how he behaves differently in front of different people, and you can't see through him.

When the interruption continues, it is chaotic.

What he said is all lies, all women love to hear, this kind of person knows what women want in their hearts, it's easy to say it, you are too kind. Leave him. The man deceived you with sweet words, and the woman still has to be realistic. Reality points also take less damage.

You have fallen into a love trap, if you don't have a little ruthlessness, you can't pick it out, or you just accept your fate!

Forget it, don't want a man like this. He is so demanding of his lover, but he is so tolerant of himself. He is a selfish man who is self-centered.

You will not end well if you continue to develop, because you have already begun to waver in him, you have lost confidence, and there is no point in being together again.

That is, I am forty years old, and I am still uncertain, I am obedient before I am 30, and I don't give up yet, so what are you waiting for??? One thing this man is sure of is that he is extremely selfish! Always ask the other party to be the only one, but he has multiple choices, amazing, he is really a senior, it seems that he has to learn it!

Fainted, he's like this, do you still want to continue with him? Unless you want to play with him too. Would you like to share a man with some other woman!?

I think you should give up on this relationship, you can't change someone at this age, so you don't have to worry about it, just think it's a dream.

People like this are not worth your life, it is recommended to break up as soon as possible and find your true happiness!!

Forty-year-olds have basically set a fixed shape in their hearts, and it is very difficult for you to reverse it. It is advisable to give up.

…A lot of people are like that. He lied to you, so to speak, he was embarrassed to say it to you directly. Oh, it's hard to say.

Isn't it obvious enough??? Give up, he loves someone else, not you. Such a man is not worth your trouble for him, love yourself well, and there will be people who know how to cherish you more!

Forget it! Why hang yourself for such a rotten tree!! Hurry up and find something else, it's much better!!

This should be said in two cases:

1: If he loves you, he deceives you because he loves you, he doesn't want you to have any sadness and sadness, he loves you, he wants you to be happy, even if he deceives you, it is because he loves you too much, this is a kind of kind deception.

2: If he doesn't love you, he cheats on you because he is perfunctory to you, and he doesn't want to have extra explanations, no matter how much you care, he doesn't care.

So, you'd better tell if he really loves you or not.

Look at this matter dialectically.

1 Not necessarily.

If he lied to you.

Then he must also have something difficult to say, and he doesn't want you to share his pain.

2. Sometimes a man's lies are not credible, but sometimes they are also for your own good.

3. Isn't there a saying that says? It's hard to be a woman.

It's harder to be a man.

4 If both love each other.

What does a little lie count? There is no deception if the two sides understand each other. Isn't it?

What is your relationship? If you're a couple, now you can break up with him! You have to be able to afford to put it down.

Stupid, he doesn't feel good for you, and he deliberately found an extra for you to see.

His implication is that you don't want to harass him, and he doesn't feel anything about you, and he's probably a little afraid that you'll annoy him.

It's not worth being sad for love, the most precious thing in the world is family affection, loving your parents is serious, love is only a small part of life. The most painful thing is that the son wants to raise but the parent is not there.

Obviously, he doesn't like you, and asking you to go to see the two of them for dinner is to hit you, let go, there are many men.

This man is so despicable, just look at his reply and know rubbish

Such people are not worth it

Sisters, listen to me, find another good one to kill him!!

This kind of man, fortunately, you found it early, and you should be happy if you don't have it.

However, I think that such a man should not let her go, and it is best to tell her current girlfriend about it to save her. Because of this man, there will definitely be extramarital affairs in the future.

But he didn't say he liked you. Could it be that he has always treated you as a little girl who has not yet understood something? He's kidding you.

She may really think of you as a good friend.

Too familiar with you, no freshness.

She said she didn't think it was a lie, she must have thought about it, and then without thinking about it more carefully, she decided that you couldn't do it. After reading your story, I think you're like brother and sister who have a good relationship, and she thinks so.

If you have a setback, she will definitely come to care about you, but if you want to be together, there will be difficulties, you can still be together, and after you confess to her, she will gradually think about your relationship, she must like you, and she will feel the most secure with you, and when she gradually changes you from a brother to a boyfriend, it will be OK.

Hold on and don't give up.

Good boy, because you are so good, these girls around you may not feel worthy of you now.

I believe that when you finish your studies and mature a little more, there must be a girl as good as you waiting for you at that time, really.

In fact, you have to think about it yourself, are you happy together? Is she happy? I know you're happy. But you know these things, and you push her to be your girlfriend even harder, and it's counterproductive.

Maybe it's because you're too proactive that she accepts you like this. Since she doesn't like you, forget it if she doesn't cherish you. If you continue like this, you will only hurt yourself more.

I can see that you get along very well with her, and you like her very much...

Maybe she's testing you... You're going to be obsessed with her... Like is a faint love, love is a deep like...

I wish you happiness... Stay the course and believe in yourself...

Maybe she really doesn't have you in her heart! Let it go! No one can live without anyone this year! Let it be.

It's not called cheating, she rejected you four times and you didn't give up, she was touched by you a little bit, trying to accept you, but she couldn't do it.

Keep chasing, as long as he doesn't get married, we have to chase, even if we are bruised, we don't care, because he is the girl I like, I worked hard, if he wants to get married, don't chase him, destroying people's families is always the so-called villain.

Women just like to cheat on people's feelings!

It's cheap!

Are you afraid of getting hurt?

Actually、、Sometimes it's better to be friends...

Friends can stay together forever!

What about lovers? Is it possible?

I would do the same with me.

That's it. to be together forever

Probably, boys don't understand this!

She didn't cheat on you, maybe she really only treats you as a good friend.

Either continue, or silently be his friend behind his back. Hide it.

Could it be the opposite, you've always been nice to her, and she'll agree.

Have you changed a lot in the first four and fifth times?

That's it for women.

Don't dump her for two days.

Contact him again, and then indifferent to him.

In fact, she has feelings for you, maybe she is afraid of rejecting you and will not look for her and ignore her, accept you but have a boyfriend, she may be very conflicted now, you can find an opportunity to say your thoughts will be much better, I hope you will live well.

The following is purely a personal opinion、Reference。

If it were me, I would leave him.

To be honest, I think I'm quite extreme.

If my boyfriend and other women have something inside.

I'd think he's dirty, disgusting, huh.

I will leave him.

I'm sure you'll find a boy who truly loves you.

I wish you happiness.

Hehe! Some men treat their feelings as play, and I personally don't advocate having more friends! But I think as a man, what is necessary is to regard feelings as a kind of spiritual sustenance!

There is already deception in the world, so why care? In the end, it was himself who was hurt.

Break up and don't give him a chance.

This kind of thing, if a man has a first time, he will have a second time