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People have hearts. Always cared about her. She naturally understands that you like her...
What kind of girl is she?Think about it. Should I confess or not?!
You've decided to confess...Just when it's just the two of you. (No outsiders.)
Don't beat around the bush.!Have a little confidence in yourself. Adjust your emotional mindset to:
There are only heads and tails. There is no neutrality.!It's like a coin...
Don't procrastinate.!...Everything is still up to you.!She may be kicking and pretending to be confused.
Pretend you don't know what you're talking about. Then one more time. Because you love her.
So you try again. Three trials like this are enough.!Rejected three times.
It means that I don't love you at all. Treat you only as a friend. Then you adjust your mindset towards her.
Just think of them as good friends. You're in luck. I can't kill you...
I hope my answer makes you successful'I hope you don't plagiarize the answer of Ganbao
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Since it is someone you don't like, after the other party confesses, you should make your attitude clear to the other party, explain the reasons why you don't accept it, and try your best not to hurt the other party.
1. Resolute attitude and outspoken refusal.
As the saying goes, "when the interruption continues, it is chaotic", when a person expresses his affection to you, if you don't like the other party, you should give the other party a clear attitude, don't grind to create the other party has a chance.
You should refuse directly, never contact him again after refusing, and do not ask him for help again to avoid causing unnecessary trouble.
2. Leave enough dignity for the other party and refuse efficiently.
Many people dare not refuse in the face of other people's confessions, always afraid of hurting the other party's self-esteem and weakest heart. Especially when a good friend for many years suddenly confessed, they were caught off guard and didn't know what to do?
At this time, when rejecting this type of friend's confession, you should know how to be tactful, give him some hints, tell him what type you like, and the future you imagine.
Let him retreat, and they, as friends, will understand your rejection.
This also preserves the face and dignity of the other party, and minimizes the degree of harm.
3. Find the right time and refuse quickly.
In a relationship, no person of the opposite sex will be nice to you for no reason, as long as the good is beyond the normal range of friends of the opposite sex, you should notice that something is wrong.
At this time, you have to see the right time, and before he opens the Changchang Selling Wheel, say the words of refusal indirectly, and block the mouth he is about to speak.
Saying it in this way will avoid the embarrassment of both sides and leave enough room for the next interaction.
Don't hesitate when you refuse, you are likely to misunderstand the other party by doing so.
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1. "I have no plans to fall in love for the time being."
Find an opportunity to invite the other person to a meal and tell them about your ideals and pursuits. For example, if you just want to work your own skills and work hard for your future for a few years, falling in love will delay too much time, and you don't have this plan for the time being.
2. "You're really nice, but I only treat you as a friend."
Before refusing, you can praise the other person, take care of the other person's face, and then clarify your true feelings. For example: "You're really nice, but you're not my type, I just see you as a friend."
Tell the other person that you cherish your friendship very much, so you care about his feelings, and you don't want to deceive him, and you don't want to cause harm to each other because of this incident.
3. "I'm not actually your ideal object."
You can put yourself in their shoes and make them realize that you are not a good fit, for example, by telling them your own shortcomings, "I am not actually your ideal partner", and you will not be happy together.
4. "I can't forget my ex-boyfriend."
In everyone's heart, there will be a love wound buried, especially for those who have loved deeply and lost them. You can talk to them about their relationship experiences, saying that they still have a lot of nostalgia for the past and still haven't forgotten that ta, so they don't have any thoughts about the present and don't want to start a new relationship.
5. "I already have someone I like".
If you are reluctant to compromise on feelings, then the best way to refuse is to tell the other person bluntly, "You already have someone you like", and don't let him have any illusions about you. Let him accept this fact, after all, the relationship is barely coming, and it is impossible for you to be together.
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In the elimination of interpersonal communication, learning to refuse is a compulsory course, especially in the relationship between men and women, we can not control others to have a good impression of us, and in the face of the confession of people we don't like, we can not force ourselves to accept, although rejection is inevitably a harm, but polite refusal may not make the relationship between the two parties stalemate. So how should you refuse to be confessed by someone you don't like? 1. Resolute attitude, bluntly refuse as the saying goes:
If you keep breaking off diplomatic relations, you will be confused by it. "When the other person expresses their love for you, if you don't like to tease the other person late, give the other person a clear attitude, don't complain, and give the other person a chance. You have to refuse directly, and don't contact him again after refusing, and don't ask him for help to avoid unnecessary trouble.
2. Leave enough dignity for the other party, and efficiently refuse the confessions of many people who dare not refuse others, always afraid of hurting their self-esteem and the weakest heart. Especially the sudden confession of a friend for many years, they were caught off guard and didn't know what to do. At this time, when you reject this kind of confession from a friend, you have to know how to be tactful, just give him some hints, tell him what type you like and what you imagine your future to be.
Let him stand back. As friends, they will understand your rejection. This also saves the other party's face and dignity, and minimizes the degree of harm.
3. If the other party confesses to you in person, you are afraid that the face-to-face refusal will hurt the other party, and you don't know how to refuse appropriately. For now, you can find a reason to be impatient to respond immediately. You can tell him your true thoughts through WeChat or text messages, which can not only alleviate the embarrassment of face-to-face rejection, but also help the other party slowly digest the information.
4. Before rejecting him, you can praise him, praise him, save him enough face, and let him know that you cherish and care about your friendship, so you don't want to deceive him, which doesn't want to cause him any harm. Many people now know what a good hand means. Once you've dealt a good card, he knows that you've politely rejected him.
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The first method: not to face the refusal.
If the other party confesses to you in person, you are afraid that rejecting the other party in person will hurt the other party, and you don't know how to refuse more appropriately, at the moment you can't organize the verbal rejection, you can find a reason not to rush Ma Mingmin to reply, you can tell him your true thoughts through WeChat or text messages and other ways, which alleviates the embarrassment of face-to-face refusal, and can also let the other party slowly digest the information.
The second method: issue a good person card.
Before rejecting him, you can praise and praise the other person, save him enough face, let him know that you cherish and care about the friendship between you, so you don't want to cheat on him, which doesn't want to cause him any harm. Now many people know the meaning of the good guy card, once you send the good guy card, he will naturally know that you politely rejected him.
If the other party confesses to you, but you really only regard him as a friend, you can put him better, you can belittle yourself appropriately, explain that you are not the ideal type of the other party, and let him produce wrong information, sorry, you can't be with him, so you can at least help the other party find a step down.
The fourth method: euphemistic refusal.
You can find a good reason for yourself, tell the other party that you just want to focus all your energy on studying or things now, and will not consider personal feelings for the time being, don't waste time on Huaixiao yourself, and clearly tell him that it is not necessary to wait for you, for a long time, maybe the type he likes will not be himself, let us be friends The best way to get along with each other, dispel the other party's reluctance to love you.
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