Before marriage, how to choose between love and career?

What I would say is that career is equal to love. If you have to choose one. I will choose according to the course of my life:

It is often said that behind a successful man there is a supportive wife. If a man wants to be successful in his career, he must not forget about his family, and if he is only for his career, he will definitely not succeed.

A lonely person, lonely in his heart, will lead to career failure. The reverse is also true, men who do not have a career are also failures. In fact, career and love are indeed more important than love at the beginning, and life is very painful for men without careers; Over time, career and love are equal at a certain point.

A man without love and a happy family is a failure in life; When life comes to an end, career is not as good as love (family affection). When a man reaches his old age, how many of them will be attached to his career?

Of course, before marriage is important for career. While creating a career, there will be a love waiting for you, and you don't need to deliberately look for it, there are many opportunities at work. Men focus on their careers and deliberately get a perfect love If they just need to find a certain woman, they can only satisfy a temporary feeling Not an eternal marriage 0 0

How to put it, I think the difference in environment creates a difference in thinking, and the maturity level is also different! There will also be differences in the choice of future and love... Personally, I think that between the two, we should choose a career first, because career is the foundation of later life, and it is also a process of ideological maturity, although we can have happiness without material and maturity, but the maturity of career and ideology will give us more right to choose and our own bargaining chips!

I believe that many women, after getting married, will encounter a problem, marriage and career are difficult to achieve, and sometimes they really have to give up.

Career is very important, and money is the most reliable in your own hands".

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and in different families, there will be different problems. In most families nowadays, whoever makes money will have more confidence.

If you don't make money to take care of your children at home, new conflicts will still arise. And the family's economic situation will also drop a lot. Whether it's a man or a woman, money is what makes you more grounded.

Women are not financially independent and have no say in the family. Don't pin your hopes on a man, it's better to rely on yourself than on heaven and earth, no matter how much he loves you, you must work hard to make money.

A woman's career is also her capital in her relationship.

Family and work should be taken into account".

In fact, women are required to be both financially independent and take care of their families. Breastfeeding is encouraged, and a second child is promoted. It's really hard for a woman to keep her figure and look like at the same time. But who is not difficult in life?

Whether it is a man or a woman, he should not give up his career. The best way to do this is to balance family and career together. Of course, men also have to take care of the family together.

Family responsibilities are not just the responsibility of women, men need to be involved. When two people take care of the responsibilities of the family, the family will be more happy.